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i was just wondering what people think of glasses. do you find them nerdy or attractive? i have to wear glasses fullo time and i am wondering if contacts are the way to go or should i wear glasses but i dont want to seem like a four eyes freak. any inputs are appreciated.

It depends on the glasses. If you have to wear coke bottle glasses then that is extremely unattractive. But if they aren't all big then its not that big of a deal.

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There is a guy I really like at my dance studio. He is so cute and a really good dancer ( yes he is even though he does does ballet) but how do I get him to notice me? From what I have heard and observed, he is into the skinny ballerinas (absolutely not me in any way, shape, or form, literally. I am like pleasently plump, curvy cutie, fluffy, whatever you want to call it)! Plus, his sister goes to the studio too and I know she does not like me (she is a skinny ballerina type also). What to do? Is pursuing him completely hopeless?

Be yourself. If you don't fit the requirements of being the skinny balleina type then there probably is a slim chance of you going with him. But if he sees who you are (personality wise) and is into girls with your type of personality then you might have a chance with him.

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Ive dated my girlfriend for almost 3 years, I love her so much. Im 25 years old, and for whatever reason ive had issues finishing school and getting my degree on my way to a full time job and "grown up" responsibilities. My girlfriend is 23 and one year away from obtaining her degree. Since we met, she has been very supportive of me and refuses to give up on my school, which indicates the signs of a tru keeper. Lately she has been upset at me because she doesnt see me up to par with school like i should be. We have cried together many times about this cause she wants to be with me, but at the same time isent sure about many other things. Now i know ive failed her a lot, but is these reason enough for her to have thoughts of braking up? is she being selfish? every body tells me to dump her because she will hurt me and besides they say there are many other girls out there. They fail to realize that i love her so much and see a future that she sees as well, am i beign weak and stupid for wanting to continue with the relationship? like my friend says, if shes giving up on you now, what makes you think she wont give up in the future. What should i do?

You didn't say the many other things that she is upset about. I'm almost positive they would have made a difference.

It sounds like she wants the best for you. She wants a man in her life that wants the best for himself. And if you are slacking in school then that shows signs of you not wanting the best for yourself.

But on the other hand if she can't accept you for the slacker that you are then it may be time to end the relationship or try to work through it.

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Today at school something really sad-mean happened to a friend of mine and we were all talking and thinking about stuff and we were wondering....

Why are guys such jerks towards fat girls?

and why don't they liek to date chubby girls? how come they only like to date girls who are sticks with a drawn on face?

k thanx i rate 5's.

Not all guys are like that.

Some guys like skinny girls. Some guys like fat girls. It all depends on the guy and his maturity level.

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14/f.. alright can I please have some help. i'm really not sure what to get my boyfriend for valentines day (he's 15) so if you can give me some help it'd really be appreciated.thanks. I'll rate you♥

Most guys don't like stuff animals!
Out of the love of his masculinity don't get him a stuff animal. But I do agree with TimmyTM. I think you should get him something(not a stuff animal) with your scent on it.

-cologne
-t shirt
-card
-candy
-pic of you'll together

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This is a poem I wrote about my ex-boyfriend answering a poem he wrote to me when we started dating and my best friend thinks I should give it to him along with a copy of his own can you help me? Heres my poem:

Clipped Wings

I’d been flying through the darkness for a while
Now I’m falling to the ground, my wings have been clipped
My fear consumes every word I whisper and every thought I create
If I’ve shown you what you’ve wanted, why have you ended this dream?
I wish I could turn it back a bit
You’ve been worth all the tears and pain if it means I will get my wish
You can make me wait an eternity to receive your love,
You can beat me for years but when ever you look in my eyes,
You’ll still see my love for you reflected within
You froze time for me when you pushed me to the side
Got me realizing that I lost you in that moment
I’ll be your wings when you’re ready to fly
Bet you didn’t dream someone would care for you like this

How are we suppose to give advice when there isn't even a question?

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My friend heard something that she thought I said beacause this girl told her ex-boyfriend and she thought I said something bad about her, but I didn't say anything about her at all. How can I get her do understand that I didn't say it someone was just spreading rumors?

Selena(4everMyself2) took my answer!

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theres an old friend i had that hasnt signed on in a bit (on her old sns anyway) & is there a way i can find out an email, new sn, ANYTHING. me and my friends were juss looking for some way to contact her to see how everything is going.

thanks!!

wow that must suck

If she has any friends that you know keep in touch with her ask them for her email or something.

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ok i like this guy (yes i am bi) hes a senior n im a frshman n i like him very much n i dont know if i should tell him or ignore my felings all together. theres more there is talk that he is gay so i dont know what to do.

please help

Talk is cheap. You need to find out for sure if he is gay.

Since he is a senior he probably doesn't know you exist. So you need to get to know him.

Once you get to know him and you still like him then go for it.

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Im 15 and a guy. One of my friends came out of the closet.He told his best friend and she made him tell me. I told the girl that he liked that he was gay. Then he find out and he yelled at me and so did his best friend. Now niether of them want to talk to me or look at me. They hate me. I lost half of my only true friends. My best friend said that she heard him say that he was going to hire someone to beat me up. I feel horrible. I recently told all of my friends that I myself was gay. I feel horrible about this all. I dont want to lose them as friends.I have had them forever as friends. I feel like im losing half of myself. What do I say to make everything right? I need some advice.

You can't do something that will magically make everything right. You screwed up big time. You have to be a true friend to get true friends.

What you did showed everyone how much of a true friend you are not so I don't blame them for not wanting to be your friend.

You have to do something to prove to everyone that you are a true friend and you deserve true friends. What that is, is all up to you.

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Im gay and I dont know how to tell my family. I overheard that my dad will kill someone in the family if he found out they were gay. I feel horrible. I know that my whole family would hate me. I already messed everything up with half of my friends. If any of my friends find out im gay no one will want to be near me. They'll hate me. Half of my friends already hate me from something a while ago. I feel horrible. I told one of my friends and they told me that they will always be my friend. I love her so much. I dont want to lose my friends. How do I tell them?

"Dad i'm gay"

Omfg i'm a genius!
There's no way you can tell him that will make him happy. But he's your dad so he should accept you for who you are. Might take some getting use to though.

If your friends are true then it shouldn't matter what sex you like.

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Im 15.I have 2 crushes. 2 huge crushes. Im really confused. I like this girl. I really like her. But I have feeling for this guy to. I dont know. I've dated the girl before. I was at one point best friends with the guy. I dont know which to choose. I dont know if im gay or if im straight. I dont even know. I know that the girl likes me. I know that the guy is gay. Im so confused. Dose anyone know should I choose the girl or the guy? I need advice.

How the hell would we know which one you should choose???? We don't know them. You should have provided more information.

If you are having problems choosing over a guy or girl then you are bi.

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15f christian....

I used to always masturbate. quite alot. but then about 2 weeks ago i read something that said that masturbating is a sin. well ever since i read that i havent masturbated, i actually gave in yesterday but then i felt reallllly guilty afterwards. is this bad because i mean will it mean i'll never be able to enjoy masturbating? is this normal and will i ever get over it? please help. i rate 5's!

Where did you see that masturbating is a sin? If you are going to say something like that then you need to have a scripture or something to go along with it.

Lying is a sin but we all do it.

Every sin is equal.

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