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My friends hate me and I dont blame them.
Im 15 and a guy. One of my friends came out of the closet.He told his best friend and she made him tell me. I told the girl that he liked that he was gay. Then he find out and he yelled at me and so did his best friend. Now niether of them want to talk to me or look at me. They hate me. I lost half of my only true friends. My best friend said that she heard him say that he was going to hire someone to beat me up. I feel horrible. I recently told all of my friends that I myself was gay. I feel horrible about this all. I dont want to lose them as friends.I have had them forever as friends. I feel like im losing half of myself. What do I say to make everything right? I need some advice.
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You can't do something that will magically make everything right. You screwed up big time. You have to be a true friend to get true friends.
What you did showed everyone how much of a true friend you are not so I don't blame them for not wanting to be your friend.
You have to do something to prove to everyone that you are a true friend and you deserve true friends. What that is, is all up to you.
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Don't take this the wrong way but your a big dick head those where your best friends and you destroyed it for what because a friend was gay I think you should do something really dum for all the horrible things that you did to him you need to ask him what can you do for they can forgive you and you need to really put god in your heart because of what you did was just to much and evil and if you did not want the truth just dont write back.
See that is what i mean dont take it the wrong way 15/f and my friend told me that she was gay
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Wow, that's quite a complication you've gotten yourself into. Well I guess you don't need me to tell you that what you did to your friend was a really awful thing. Coming out of the closet at such a young age must have been really hard for him to do, and instead of being able to trust his friend you go and tell the girl that he liked!! Well atleast you're acknowledging that what you did was wrong. But then again, it's probably too little, too late.
Personally I think what you did was pretty much a deal breaker. But if they've been your friends for a long time, maybe it's possible to fix this.
What you can do is apologize to both of your friends for breaking confidentiality. Does your friend who just came out of the closet know that you are also gay? Maybe if you told him this it would make him feel a little bit better. I can't guarantee that this will put you back in their good graces, but it can be a first step in healing the wound that you caused your friend.
Another thing that you can do is to talk to the girl that your gay friend liked. Tell her that you were just joking around, and that your friend is really straight. If she doesnt believe you, say something along the lines of "we were having a fight and I did it to get back at him".
Well I hope that it all works out for you. I believe that you are truly sorry for what you did, and that shows that you are still a good person. Good Luck.
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