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What should i do?
Ive dated my girlfriend for almost 3 years, I love her so much. Im 25 years old, and for whatever reason ive had issues finishing school and getting my degree on my way to a full time job and "grown up" responsibilities. My girlfriend is 23 and one year away from obtaining her degree. Since we met, she has been very supportive of me and refuses to give up on my school, which indicates the signs of a tru keeper. Lately she has been upset at me because she doesnt see me up to par with school like i should be. We have cried together many times about this cause she wants to be with me, but at the same time isent sure about many other things. Now i know ive failed her a lot, but is these reason enough for her to have thoughts of braking up? is she being selfish? every body tells me to dump her because she will hurt me and besides they say there are many other girls out there. They fail to realize that i love her so much and see a future that she sees as well, am i beign weak and stupid for wanting to continue with the relationship? like my friend says, if shes giving up on you now, what makes you think she wont give up in the future. What should i do?
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A woman has many modd swings. She may be mean one day and nice the other. That is a quality in every woman no matter who it is. I think that she feels that you been together for so long maybe you should make it official. Like maybe proposing to her. She has supported you and you support her. She wants to know that you are willing to stand by her for the rest of her life so. I thnk the best thing is to talk to her but i bet that if you proposed that is what she has been waiting for all along. She doesnt say because every dreams of that cinderalla story so try and make hers come true.
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You didn't say the many other things that she is upset about. I'm almost positive they would have made a difference.
It sounds like she wants the best for you. She wants a man in her life that wants the best for himself. And if you are slacking in school then that shows signs of you not wanting the best for yourself.
But on the other hand if she can't accept you for the slacker that you are then it may be time to end the relationship or try to work through it.
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if she can't accept your wishes then she isn't as great as you think. she should accept you for who you are and not for who she wants you to be.
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