HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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I am only 5'0 and I'm 13. I wear a 32 DD! Boys at my school tell me things about my boobs, and it kind of makes me happy. I would just like for them to start touching them. What can I do to draw even MORE attention or ask them if they want to touch them, but not be like " hey you wanna touch my boobs? " I know i sound like a slut, but i really like being the center of attention. Thanks! (link)
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WOW.omg thats....wrong and ewy.Your 13 man!!what the hell!Being the center of attention isnt bad but being the center of attention for being a slut is bad.Its like your forcing guys to touch your boobs man!Dude i woulda slapped a guy if he just THOUGHT of touching my boobs and im 16!EW!
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14/f
i have never had sex, but i just think that this is kind of weird.
Why did people wait so long to have sex? like i know the average age is like 16, 17 nowadays, but in the olden days why was it so like freaking sacred haha? (link)
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because before the people were wiser and more modest and knew better then to lose it when your a teenager to some guy that you probably wont even last with forever.They didnt want to risk getting diseases either.And there are religional reasons back then to stay a virgin till mariage.
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I came onto this site a few weeks ago asking a question about becoming a model and how you have to look.
But, what is beautiful? Someone on this site told me "If your not beautiful, then don't bother"
But what are the criteria for being beautiful?
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to be a model thats beautiful u have to be tall and REALLY skinny,you have to have hiiiigh confidence and you have to not think but know that your beautiful.You have o have your moustache done and eyebrows done nicely and any extra hair on your body is shaved.You shouldnt have acne and you should have pretty clean teeth.You also gotta be photogenic
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that have something to do with
a girl that likes someone who doesnt like them back
a girl who likes someone who is taken
a girl that has been hurt by a guy
something like that
any genres
kthanx (link)
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avril lavigne "i dont give a damn"
within temptation"angels"
avril lavigne "girlfreind"
britney spears"shell never be me"
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When a girl shaves her pubes, do they shave it ALL off? Or just the sides? Whats most common? (link)
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ALL OF IT,Dont leave any hair itd be nasty
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My little sister is only fifteen and three quarters years old, yet she is maturing quite quickly. She began dating a young man who is a little rapscallian, if you ask me. I don't trust that boy. Yesterday, I was in her room looking for some lotion I could borrow. I opened her nightstand drawer, and lo and behold, I find condoms! And not just one or two, oh no. There were many, and they were all, well how do I put it... rather promiscuous. There were some which said that they gave a "tingly" feeling, due to their mintyness. Another was said to be flavored, and there were even some which were "ribbed for your pleasure." I am twenty five years old--ten years her senior--yet I have gone no further than tongue kissing, and I was a year older than her at the time! I believe that my sister is sinning terribly. What to do, what to do? (link)
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First thing you need to do is tell your sister to sit down and have a loooooong talk with her about what shes doing.Start off by asking her what you found in her drawer and how dangerous having sex is at this age.Give her a long lecture and try to convince her with your poin of view.If that doesnt work then mabey you can talk to her boyfreind and tell him that if he does anything with your sister hes in big trouble.If tthat doesnt work then i suggest you tell your parents,they will be able to put an end to this for sure.Your sis is waaay to young for this and all shes gonna end up getting from sex at this age is STD's,bad reputation and mabey even pregnant!
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heres the deal:
(keep in mind, this guy is my best guy friend)
sept: i like boy
nov: boy likes me
dec: i (unaware of him liking me) stop liking boy
jan: boy tells me he likes me. me=AHH.
feb: boy says he likes someone else. his friend says he still likes me
mar: i tell him i like someone else. when he hears this, he says he likes someone else too but won't tell me who.
present: boy is flirty(naturally. this guy flirts with everyone) but he gets angry at me and we get into a lot of fights over nothing
so does he like me or not because i'm not getting any clear signs here? (link)
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boy doesnt know what he wants now does he.The only proof you will have is if he says it to you now and to your face,not to his freinds or yours but to YOU.Signs arent always accurate.You need to have proof that he likes you.
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13/f
My names Shantae.. I have been dating this guy on and off for about a year now. I have a problem though. My parents totally hate him. He's 17 and he use to have a drug problem. My parents didnt know about it until I got really mad one night and spilled. Now, they dont want me anywheres near him. I'm inlove with this boy. When I see him the only thing I want is him to wrap me in his arms and hold me tight, i want him to tell me everythings going to be okay and he loves me more than anything. Right now, we aren't dating. My parents do not approve of anything about him, and I'm afraid that he's goin to leave me if we get back together because they wont let me see him, what do i do? Please give as much advice as you can PLEASE!!! :( (link)
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shantae,your parents are right.This guy isnt right for you.Your 13 and your parents are so much older and expereinced then you.You have to listen to them because they know best.This guy you love used to take drugs and very easily he might get back on them or who knows,mabey he still does take them but isnt telling you.He might be high once and try to do something you might not like.If you want to stay with him then you will have to think about the consenquences of it and be RESPONSIBLE enouugh to handle whatever happens to you cuza him.If you end up getting pregnant by him cuz he was high once then you have to take the consenquences of that.
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ok. this is super duper embarassing.
i am 16, female. and i pee my pants when i laugh. like kinda bad. when i start laughing, i just lose control of my bladder. and then its soo hard trying to hide the (sometimes) huge wet spot on my pants. (i also wet the bed, but thats only once every 2-3 months so its not a huge problem)
i have tried using the bathroom like every five minutes: doesnt help AT ALL. i have tried thinking of something sad/not funny when i laugh: doesnt help. i have tried concentrating really hard on not peeing: doesnt help.
my social life has been affected by this: there is this girl i met at camp, and we became really good friends, but she lives like an hour away from me, but she has invited my to visit many times. i really want to, BUT SHE IS HILARIOUS!!!! ahhh!! (oh ya btw summer camp was hell for me: it was fun but also funny -> causes wet pants)
please help me. i am willing to do anything but get diapers (i wear tight jeans) and hang out with serious people. like i am actually a really humourous person myself, and it kills me to be scared to laugh. (link)
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you might have a bladder infection.That is when you pee a little more then you should.Bladder infections happen when bacteria from outside your body gets into the bladder somehow.You can get that infection from not wiping yourself after going to the bathroom and staying unclean down there.It can be treated by antibiotics BUT first thing you must MUST do is see a doctor to make sure if you really DO have a bladder infection.
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what is the difference between a g string and a thong? (link)
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this will definetly answer your question
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G-string
^_^
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Ok how would I wear my trench coat on of I'm wearing a sweater with a hood? Do I stick the hood out? Leave the hood on underneath the trench coat? (link)
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definetly in.If its out itll look weird.Cuz the jacket is kinda formal in a way and elegant and the hood is just gonna ruin the way your outfit will look,itll be really random.
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Okay, well I have a boyfriend who i've been with for over 9 months.. and i love him with everything that i have. he doesn't have the best life, and he's such a happy goofy kid. i love him mentality because he's always so carefree, even though alot of things in his life suck. for example- no father, very sick [in the hospital for years] mother, loser brother, and lives with his uncle. yet he's such a cheerful and funny kid. but, i tend to get annoyed very easily, and whenever he does something dumb, i make him feel stupid about it by saying something mean or sarcastic. and i've finally recognized that i do it, i just don't know how to control it. there have been several occassions that he almost broke up with me because i treat him so crappily. and i can't stand it. but he loves me so much, so he can never bring himself to officially leave me. and i love him too. he's the sweetest boy in the world, and my first everthing [i'm still a virgin though] and i really am the luckiest girl in the whole entire universe to have him.. but i just wish i could be nicer to him! now, i too have an advice column.. and if someone asked me this question, i'd just say- 'well if you want to be nicer, just simply be nicer' but it's really not that easy. i try so hard but i'm just a spoiled bitch. and i dont get it because i do realize what i have- the most amazing boy anyone could ever have, but i just don't act like it. and i don't want to lose him because of my attitude.. can someone please help me??? =( ♥ (link)
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dude you gotta change for the one you love.The way you act is not only going to make you lose him but will make you lose all the people around you that love you and have been coping with your attitude for too long.It will be your loss in the end if you dont change.Put yourself in his position,if you had the suckiest life ever and your boyfreind was treating you like shit how would YOU feel?Would you honestly be able to cope with it all?You need to change before you lose this guy,your suppoesd to be making it better for him not worse!Its all about will power,put your mind to it and you will change you have to.Be a sweet,loving,caring girlfreind be the girl of his dreams man.Dont let the way you act ruin your life.Hope you change to the better.
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i know this is a really weird question, but is crossing your legs when sitting down considered really y? (link)
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its only rude to cross your legs while sitting if an older person is sitting infron of you.Its disrespect to the older person because your foot can be pointing at them.If its all young people your sitting with then i guess its ok.
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My little sister is 10. She got her perod when she was 9. She is a pretty big slu* and she had sex 8 monthes ago. So know she is 10 and 8 months pregnant. I would like to know if their is any way she can get an abortion. My mom and dad will be back from their 6 month trip to Paris in 2 weeks and they can't see her pregnant or she will be put up for adoption or something please help, she may not be able to make it through child birth! (link)
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WOOOW what is this world coming to?!CALL UP YOUR PARENTS AND TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR SISTER.Your parents need to knwo what their daughter is doing.You need to take care of you sister man!You gotta see who she hangs out with and what her freinds are like!Your an older sister and you should be responisible for her.do NOT keep this from your parents.Dont even THINK about keeping this from them.If you do....your sister might get away with it but next thing you know...shell be doing something worse.You need to call the cops and tell them thjat someone raped your sister cuz the guy is probably older that got her pregnant.SO its considered RAPE.ayyyyy my GOD!
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ok....im 13 and pregnant i dont want to tell my family because i think they will be ashamed.I dont want to get an abortion because i think its wrong.I also dont want to give "it" up for adoption, because my friend was adopted and he doesent like it.I just really need some help.What should i do? (link)
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omg 13 and pregnant what were you thinking.Well whatever you chose dont ever give your kid into adoption because it will grow up depressed not knowing who its parents are and it will be your fault.If you tell your parents i think they will get maad but theyre the only ones that can help you out.If you get an abortion i think that would be better then giving it up for adoption.I clarified all the choices and the choice is yours to make but next time please think about the consenquences of what you do.
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Im 17/F and ive never really had a relationship. Ive hung out with alot of guys and talked with alot of guys but never wanted to have a real relationship with any of them. All my friends have bfs and makes me feel like im abnormal that i dont want a bf..i just want to have fun. Am i weird? (link)
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no your not weird.There are people that are like that.You just dont want to or your afraid of a commitment.Or mabey you havent found your type of guy yet.
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Am I skinny yet?
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oh my god, seriously, what has the world come to...? i read a question on here and a girl had sex at 10 YEARS OLD. i was watching the news a couple of hours ago and an 8 YEAR OLD HAD SEX. yes, an 8 year old. i didn't even think 8 year olds knew what sex meant! on the internet news a 12 year old had sex and killed her own child because she said she wasn't ready for a kid. really, what's wrong with the world? why are people having sex at such a young age? do any of you agree that this is absolutatly crazy? (link)
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i so totally agree with you man.Kids that have kida at this age are extreeeemmly desperate.They just wanna look like they can depend on themsleves and that they dont need their parents anymore so they go lose their virginty to anything that moves.its so annoying!I think its also because the parents give their kids a lil waaaay to much freedom and they dont ask who their freinds are and stuff.Another reason is because of peer pressure.The kids think they all have a strong personality and nothing influences them because they had sex when in reality they arent independent because they were influenced by their freinds when their freinds told them to have sex.The only people that teens nowadays object against is their parents which is totall retardation because parents are the only ones that know how to help you!!
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my best friend sam has had 2 babies and she is only eleven she is pregnet again now for 5 months my other friends say not to be her friend anymore but we have been friends since preschool she is the school slut and wears short skirts and low cut half shirts and she doesn't know who any of the dads are should i still be her friend? (link)
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ofcourse......NOT!!!You might think shes not gonna influence you but she will trust me.Your going to start tto think that what shes doing isnt that bad.If you hang out with her people are going to think that your like her.Because if theres for example a basket of apples and one is rotten and has worms in it...obviously the worms are gonna get to the good apples and spoil them too so i suggest you sttay away from this girl if you wanna keep your reputation clean.
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"Nothing’s worse than watching a friend in pain and knowing there is absolutely nothing you can do about it"--- what does this quote trying to say? sorry im just a exchange student from japan. (link)
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it means that its really sad and awful watching a freind suffering for a reason(can be any reason) or in need of help and you dont know how to help your freind.
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