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Little sister is pregnant
My little sister is 10. She got her perod when she was 9. She is a pretty big slu* and she had sex 8 monthes ago. So know she is 10 and 8 months pregnant. I would like to know if their is any way she can get an abortion. My mom and dad will be back from their 6 month trip to Paris in 2 weeks and they can't see her pregnant or she will be put up for adoption or something please help, she may not be able to make it through child birth!
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WOOOW what is this world coming to?!CALL UP YOUR PARENTS AND TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR SISTER.Your parents need to knwo what their daughter is doing.You need to take care of you sister man!You gotta see who she hangs out with and what her freinds are like!Your an older sister and you should be responisible for her.do NOT keep this from your parents.Dont even THINK about keeping this from them.If you do....your sister might get away with it but next thing you know...shell be doing something worse.You need to call the cops and tell them thjat someone raped your sister cuz the guy is probably older that got her pregnant.SO its considered RAPE.ayyyyy my GOD!
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Okay, wait... you're telling me that you're the only one who has noticed that a ten-year-old is 8 months pregnant? WHO IS WATCHING YOU AND YOUR SIS? Your parents didn't leave you alone in charge of her, did they? Didn't you know that she was pregnant, like, 5 months ago? Why isn't Social Services involved? Doesn't your sister go to school? Don't her teachers know about her pregnancy? Don't lie and say she was raped. From what you've said so far, I already feel like the whole truth is not out there.
It's too late for an abortion. Yeah, she's too young to give birth and she will be at high risk of complications including death. Get her a high-risk OBGYN immediately.
I don't know how old you are, but if everything you said is the way things really are, there are several people to blame for this pregnancy. Two are your parents, if they didn't provide for someone to adequately monitor a 10-year-old child, possibly whoever was supposed to be taking care of her, and a little bit your sister. She is 10 years old. She should not be put in a situation where she could have sex. She is not old enough to judge the relative risks and benefits or understand the consequences. Someone should have been looking out for her. Those people failed her. I hope she can give her child up for adoption and I hope they're both healthy after the birth.
Sabine
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If your sister is old enough to be having sex, she's old enough to deal with the consequences.
At 8 months, there is no way that she can get an abortion. Up to 3 months is the limit.
She's going to have to face up to your parents, and deal with the consequences of her actions.
If she lies, that's only making it worse. DO NOT say, as the person below suggested, that she was raped. It reeks of untruth. If she was raped, I'm sure that they would have known about it.
This is exactly why children should not be having sex. Until you're old enough to support a child if you were to get pregnant, you should NOT be having sex.
I wish the best of luck to your sister, and I hope she learns from her mistake.
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just say she got raped and you've already taken care of it
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woah how the hell did that happen? was she raped, or she did it.. on purpose?
anyways theres no way around it. your parents are going to find out about it. and i dont think you should like.. get her an abortion without her parents knowing, even if you are her sister. i mean your parents techically own both of you so i dont think you have the right to do that, and make that decision. how old are you anyway? were you the only one home when your parents went to paris? i kinda disagree with the other advicenator because it kinda wasnt your fault that your sister got herself pregnant. but it also kinda is, because your her older sister. you and your parents (they take the blame too) are supposed to teach her morals and such. if you guys did a better job at it, this would not have happened. anyways enough with the criticism. umm i dont think your parents would put her up for adoption. just incase, before your parents come back teach your lil sis how to act better and not be so slutty. teach her that it is wrong and stuff.. especially because shes freakin 10 years old with a baby! try to be um.. like not too harsh and not too unharsh either. listen to what she has to say too and come up with a compromise. and then when your parents come home you can calmly explain what happened.. and.. maybe if your lil sis got better grades (unless shes an A+ student) they wouldnt go so hard on her, lol. but ofcourse dont expect they'll be all sugar sweet about it, either. well.. good luck is all i can say.
also its normal to get your period at nine. i got mine a week after my 10th birthday and im normal.
just.. take better care of her. dont let her get in the situation that she did where she had sex, unless it was rape. i could answer this question better if you provide me with more information.
~peaceee
edit: maybe your little sister was too spoiled.. be sure that she learns how to make her own lunch, wash her clothes and etc, cook, and etc soon. and that none of the luxuries she has now will be in her future if she doesnt work hard and such.
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hey, well your going to have the face the facts and tell your parents when they get back. its your fault for not doing anything about it sooner, unless you just found out about it recently. you need to take her to the doctors, get her tested for STDS, and ask them what you can do about it ASAP. also you need to have a talk with your sister about her actions and how there not good, especially for a ten year old. hear her out tho. see her side of the story and her reasoning for doing what she does. dont block her out when she speaks and really listen to her.
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