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friend pregnet
my best friend sam has had 2 babies and she is only eleven she is pregnet again now for 5 months my other friends say not to be her friend anymore but we have been friends since preschool she is the school slut and wears short skirts and low cut half shirts and she doesn't know who any of the dads are should i still be her friend?
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my oh my..... where are her parents? and what did they do with the first two babies hun??
alright, so considering th age of both of you. i would suggest you talk to her first and see if she is in any kind of trouble. don't let it sound like you're all "adult-y" on her, that would only make her defensive and prone to hiding the truth. instead speak to her as a friend and someone who she won't feel threatened by. if it turns out to be something like rape or abuse or something like that. you TELL SOMEONE.
second, it sounds like you are judging her by how she looks. there are many people who dress "inappropriately" but surprisingly would be there for you in your time of need. so don't let that be a factor in judging who she is. in the same respect do not let her principles and values disrupt your own morals. you know what is right and what is wrong. if not you ask some one experienced.
if the girl, Sam, is nice to you then i don't see why you shouldn't be her friend. does she talk to you normally? no bitching, no cattiness or snobbery?
third, you need to tell some one about he pregnancy at least to make sure everything is alright with her and the baby.
hope this helped...
out of curiosity how old are the other two babies?
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sure, as long as you dont get that reputation or she doesnt pressure into bad things. you might want to get other friends tho so that way you dont look like youre a school slut too, but like yeah its fine if you still chill with ehr.
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As long as she doesn't influence you to turn out like her and she is overall still a good friend I don't see why you should stop being friends with her. Be careful though if you are friends with her some people might think you are a slut too, so watch how you behave and dress.
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Is this some kind of..joke?
Happy april fools day!!
Yes, be her friend. BUT FOR GOD DAMN SAKES GET THIS GIRL SOME HELP!! She needs to have counciling or something. Shes way to little to support a baby, or even HAVE a baby.
You being her best friend, is the person who can help. Talk to her parents about it. :)
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Stand by your friend and talk to her about it,how old was she when she had her first baby,How does her parents feel about this ?
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ofcourse......NOT!!!You might think shes not gonna influence you but she will trust me.Your going to start tto think that what shes doing isnt that bad.If you hang out with her people are going to think that your like her.Because if theres for example a basket of apples and one is rotten and has worms in it...obviously the worms are gonna get to the good apples and spoil them too so i suggest you sttay away from this girl if you wanna keep your reputation clean.
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wow, you've gotta be kidding me... first of all, i just gotta say i don't believe you. there's no way an eleven-year-old has a kid and another on the way. BUT if i'm putting my two cents into a situation like this, here it is:
talking to a friend about it is pretty much a friend's responsibility. standing by that friend's side no matter what other people say simply because YOU say she's you friend... that's also your responsibility as a friend. i know... there are times when your friends frustrate you, like you can't get something through to them, and you even feel like giving up on them sometimes... and i agree, she doesn't exactly sound like the type of person someone should have as a friend, as she's a bad influence... but what she needs is a GOOD influence, and that's why you're here, especially when you have a lot of history with her. this isn't about other people thinking she's a slut; it's about whther or not you care what other people think, and if you do, maybe you're ALREADY not her friend.
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your friends eleven! woah. anyway. talk to her about it. ask her why she does what she does maybe you'll learn about her nd why she does it. jw. how old was she when she had her first baby.
edit- you need to get her help. if shes being beaten by her mom and raped by her dad she needs help. tell an adult you trust. a teacher. parent. anyone. shes too young and needs help.
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