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Q: u know on myspace how it says add comments/add eprops well how do you change it to say diff stuff??? will rate for first few answers

http://help.xanga.com/replacelinks.htm/

Q: I just bought a new bubble stone for my 3 gallon Aquarium... can i hook the stone up to the pump and hten drop it directly in teh water?

It depends on the kind of stone and pump. ANd how powerful it is. You may want to ask the store from where you got it-trix

Q: My discharge has turned brown for the past 3 days... i suppose to get my period in about a week. Is this spotting or should i worry?

fyi... i typically dicharge heavily between all my periods and it usually is white... the change in color just freaked me out because it's never happened before.

16/f and my period is usually regular

o dont worrry its normal. just dont worry yourself because thats not neccessary-trix

Q: Okay, well I've been going to a workout camp for three weeks, and already I see great improvement in my speed, strength, and endurance. The only thing, is that WHILE I'm working out, my back sweats really bad, and completely soaks the back of my shirt! It seriously grosses me out and it is not too much fun when you're stuck with a wet shirt for a lot of the day. What can I do?

Pack an extra shirt. make sure to drink lots and lots of gatorade. But just pack/bring an extra shirt. -trix

Q: me and my friend want to decorate our lockers to make them look really awesome but we want a bunch of ideas! anything girly and colorful attractive to the eye but no furry animal print any ideas or sites??? thanx bunches!!!

http://www.tjhsst.edu/~lpham/randomstuff/locker/index.htm

http://www.girlynation.com/stylefashfeat_schoollocker.html

Q: does anyone noe a song that goes something like..." do you think about me.. do you want to get with me (with me) do you think about us and makin love..." and i dont noe the rest but i know that a girl sings it and it might be a group of girls or not.. but i noe it is an old song (2000 i think) can someone plz tell me the name of it.. thanks

http://web.ask.com/web?q=do+you+think+about+me+%28lyrics%29&qsrc=1&o=0

go there and look for it

Q: i went on that site and found it but all it does is play the song... how do i get the code?

you right click and go down to properties and then get the address (URL) and copy and paste it -trix

Q: after you get your first period whens the next time you get it? some say 5 months? or will it be one month?i got mine for the first time July 1st and i was just wanted a heads up for when the next time i'll get it

Just expect in aug. the beginning. But it takes awhile to regulate. It can take up to 3-4 years-trix

Q: does anyone know a site where i can get a music code for "build me up buttercup" to put on my site,profile, etc.? i really like that song so if anyone can find out pleas please telll me! lol

www.xanga.com/music_galore -trix

Q: okay.. im only 12 and me and my boyfriend have been ating for 2 and a half years.. and like we kiss ALL THE TIME but WE dont french kiss .. and i like really wanna french kiss him but i just dont know if he wants to ...what should i do :( Thanks !!!

you should talk to him about it if you really wanna. just talk to him about and go from there-trix

Q: What are some GOOD foods that won't load you up with fat, cause I have alot of muscle you just can't see it because i have "fat deposits" there. Thank you.

Salads, and fruits.-trix

Q: what do you do when you know your telling the truth but no one believes you? how do you get them to believe you?

Just keep sticking to your story. Say whats true. Its there choice to beleive you or not. Do your best to prove to them. Like if you can prove a way that your telling the truth then go by that. Just dont mix your story up otherwize they'll defintly not believe you-trix

Q: ok i'm almost 13, i havent gotten my period yet and all my other friends have. should i be worried? i mean im 53 and 120 lbs what should i do?

No you shouldnt worry i mean like everybodys body is different. You will probably get in a range of when your mom got hers. So talk to her about it. But dont worry. My friend got it when she was almost 15.-trix

Q: what can you do that makes a guy like you or want to go out with you ??

Just hang out with him more and talk to him more. Thats really the main key. -trix

Q: hey is there any way to delete feedback thats really rude so it doesnt show up on your site? or do you just have to wait until they become old? thanks!!
~*jaimee*~

Wait till they become old-trix

Q: my dad wont let me get a cell phone because he think i will talk non stop and waste minutes. How do i convince him i wont do that and keep my tlaking time to a minimum? i rate high!

I just continually asked. Just say its easier to get ahold of you that way if you run out they arent home they can get ahold of you. Point out reasons why you need one :)-trix

Q: If I finger myself, could I get pregnat? Or could I bleed or anything. I've never fingered myself in my vigina so I'd like to know the main side affects.

I rat high for accurate answers ;)

No you cant not get pregnant. But you may bleed a little.

Q: ...ok there is this guy that i liked for a very very very very long time but a few days ago my friend and me ran into him and he was all up on her....we played truth or dare and he made out with her...i did to but i didnt want to cuz he had just made out with her.....but now he doesnt under stand why i am mad at him and he even knows that i like him alot because i hang out and stuff with im even when i had a bf...but now i dont and it is just like he doesnt want me unless i am taken.....plese help..i really like this guy....no matter how much i hate him right now...

He's playing the game hard to get. It was just a game and you need to understand that. It wasn't just him that took part in that game or your friend. It was also you too. So you can't be to mad. You may be a little mad at the fact that it happaned. But you need to understand that that sort of thing happans every so often. Talk to your friend and make sure she is aware of your liking of him. And talk to him why is messing with your mind.-trix

Q: Okay..sorry in advance if this is long but i really need some advice. Alrite, well a few days ago me n my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he said what would happen if we broke up and i went out with one of your friends and that right that pissed me off and hes like sorry i was just thinking about something to talk about..since we are both very shy! But then i was talking to my boyfriends brother today and he said he told your friend *stacy that he liked her on the phone last night and i was like WHAT THE HELL! and then i talked to my boyfriend and he was like oh my god shes ugly and 2 years younger than me and all this stuff and he was like i only like and love one person and thats you. But i dont know if I should believe his borther..when i was talking to *stacy she said he said he was gonna tell me all this stuff because stacy wouldnt go out with him (my boyfriends lil brother)so im freaking bawling right now because im so stressed out and i dont know who exactly to believe..also his lil brother told me (about 3 months ago) that my bf was cheating on me and that proved to be true but it seems lately that me and my boyfriend have had the "perfect relationship" i love him so much..also stacy talks to my boyfriend on the phone for like 3 hours but she says they talk about me the whole time? So please help me! Sorry its so long!

Well there may be something up between your bf and stacy. But it couldnt it possible that just maybe his lil brother likes you and wants you to break up with him? You really gotta think outside the box. I would myself think something was up between your boy and stacy. I would consider taking a break.-trix

Q: My friend knows I like this guy and that i hooked up with (she too hooked up with another boy) but the other night she was flirting with the boy I like and have hooked up with! Isnt this against girl code or something? She was standing on a table while he was laying face first on the table trying to act like a stripper..then she started to smack his ass..my other friend who knows i like the boy also joined in..what do i make out of this? do i talk to her or let it go? we never fight really..

Just talk to her. Nothing bad should come from that i mean seriosly. True friends wouldnt hurt you. maybe you need to reconsider this boy thing.. like talk to them about it. Hopefully all will go swell. Dont let guys come inbetween friends tho. Remember that. Thats a very important girl code :)-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"