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why did she do this?
My friend knows I like this guy and that i hooked up with (she too hooked up with another boy) but the other night she was flirting with the boy I like and have hooked up with! Isnt this against girl code or something? She was standing on a table while he was laying face first on the table trying to act like a stripper..then she started to smack his ass..my other friend who knows i like the boy also joined in..what do i make out of this? do i talk to her or let it go? we never fight really..
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Just talk to her. Nothing bad should come from that i mean seriosly. True friends wouldnt hurt you. maybe you need to reconsider this boy thing.. like talk to them about it. Hopefully all will go swell. Dont let guys come inbetween friends tho. Remember that. Thats a very important girl code :)-trix
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well differnt gurls have differnt gurl code see me and my friends have you can talk but not for longer than 15 minutes at a time and definetly no touching so look in the past and see if your friends ever brought up gurl code but to me seems like you should be mad at your friends but thats based on my gurl code though
hope it helped love talktome224
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yea she is defidentally being a poo. thats the word for it, poo. she probably doesn't mean to flirt like that becsue a lot of girls are like that or she is tying to get him to like her even though she doesn't like him. Its kind of hard to understand, but I do that. I sometimes try to get my firends crushes to like me so I feel better about myself and i feel more superior than my friends.
I say just talk to your friend about it and tell her that it is hurting your feelings and shit like that. act innocent so she feels bad, dont get all bitchy with her or else she will get all mad at you and flirt with your guy even more. good luck!
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hey!
that is totally against girl code! lyk big time it is! if your friend knows that you lyk him and you are even going out then she should back off! your other friend that joined in probley lyks him too but she just not telling you. i know that you guys never fight but she is going too far. i think that you need to talk to your guy about the whole stripper thing. and i think that you totally need to talk to her. there is no way this one is going by.
good luck
<3 MiSs SaRa*
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yeah you say something. tell her. i mean she totally disrepected you and your friendship and you need to let her kno that bestfriends dont do that and if thats the way shes gonna keep your sercrets and all on who you like then you wont be able to trust her and trust is what a friendship holds on. let her kno that what she did is wrong and how much it hurt you. and if she doesnt care on what you have ot say, then just up ad leave her. cause any friend who does that isnt a friend
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This isn't really against girl code, because you didn't claim him. Yea, it's an unwritten rule that you don't mess around with your friends crush, but in reality, girl code would only respect your point of view if he was your bf. Yes, its mean to go after your friends crush, wether they like him or not, but its not like he's cheating, but if the guy knows you like him and went on with his behavior, hes not into you, and you need to find someone else.
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The best thing to do is tell this friend that you were hurt by her actions since she knows you like this boy. If she says so what or keeps doing it, then she's obviously not that good of a friend since a true friend would not go out of their way to hurt you. Good luck.
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