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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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hey, when you put in a tampon can it get stuck in you? cait♥

you shouldnt worry about it. its really not normal for that to happen. theres a little string that hangs down - and thats how your supposed to get it out. just pull the string.

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hey, can you swim with tampons in? cait♥

pretty much, its the only reason a lot of girls only wear tampons. its alot better then wearing nothing [ ew ] or pads [ which turn out to be like diapers ]. deffinitally a positive here, girl

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dear kelly, im worried because i haven't yet started my period and i'm 12 and a half, and most of my friends have started, what can i do? i feel really upset about it and alone! also my mum and sister both started at around 12 and a half and 13! I'm really worried because I would love to start, but before i did have a bit of blood but i'm not sure! Please help me!!

Love xxsxcxxchickxx

first off - hun, you really dont want your period. its a major pain. and it might sound cool to have, its really not all that great. most girls start between the ages of 8 and 16. you have nothing to worry about! you should consider yourself lucky because you dont have it yet. i know you feel like left out if people are talking about it - but really.. its not something to really celebrate. because of the fact that your mom and sister started at around your age - it could mean you are going to start soon. or it could mean you got different genes from someone else [ grandma, aunt - ect.] you shouldnt be worried - just live your life to the fullest and sooner or later - it will come and youll wish it hadnt. and once you start, youll know. so i doubt that the bit of blood was anything.

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what is this song called

all things considered ill be doin just fine even though you left a hole the size of texas deep inside and my heart..

thats all i know!
thanks!

hey hun, its called All Things Considered by Yankee Grey. goodd sonngg =)

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Can you gain your metabolism back? I recently stopped being anorexic and I want my metabolism to be high again.

work out, like it was said before. but also you can add spices to yuor meals (cayenne pepper and salsa) it will help rise your metabolism level. good luckk !

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how do i nicely tell my guy friend that the girl he has a crush on doesn't like him in that way, without hurting his feelings?

go to this site - it has a lot of good ideas on how to say no. it might be hard to say no and not hurt his feelings but these are some tips.. [ http://www.ehow.com/how_13955_tell-someone-you.html ]

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how can i forget a guy that i really like? because its really hard!!!
please help!

this is a hard stituation. and i know it sucks. im sorry you have to deal with this.. go to this site and just try to stay positive. [ http://www.enoma.org/eno/rr/r/xs16.htm ] you cant think of yourself as being lucky if he likes you - your the lucky one hun. stay positive and dont think about him much. dont be scared to let your emotions out - scream if you need or cry. as life goes on it only gets easier.. so look toward the light and dont go back.

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I know you guys hate these school questions, so sorry.

For school, I need to know the average height of a 12 year old, a 13 year old, and a 14 year old.

I want your opinions, not what a doctor says. If anyone gives me a chart then its an automatic one. I want your opinion.

you didnt say whether its a boy or girl.. but for these ages it doesnt matter as much.. i think for a 12 year old its around 4'10ish. 13 is 5 and 14 is about 5'1 or 5'2ish. good luck on this assingment.

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okay well theres this girl and im friends w/ her and all but lately shes been getting on my last nerve and she never botherd me befor just now that my best friend (whom is a guy) is like in love with her its been bugging me i mean she says shes fat and ugly and all this other crap and shes not shes like freaking perfect and i think its becuse i a little jelouse that he kinda ignores me for her but yea i dont no what to do i kinda wanna hit her. but she doesnt no any of this and im not about to tell her how i feel. so yea idk she keeps saying shit like i rub in that i went out w/ him and blah blah blah. and she even had the nerve to say im the reason they broke up and still like each other i dont no can someone help me pleaseeee

i dont blame you for sometimes wanting to hit her. i ahev a friend like yours and sometimes its so hard to deal with her. i feel like im gonna break in half. i think you should just tyr to get one-on-one time with each of them. dont hang out with both at one time. just see if you can get their minds off eachother. and remind them of what fun you are to have around and what they forgot they were missing out on. i know that your jealous - and i dont blame you. your loosing your two best firneds to eachother. its really hard to get though. and theres not really A WHOLE LOT you can do about it. im sorry. good luckk

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OK heres the deal.
I tore my acl playing soccer. so now i'm on crutches and i cant really put any pressure on my knee. But my question is how can i work out? Cuz i have a lot of down time, and i went from playing tennis and soccer to now nothing. so i dont know what to do. any ideas that doesnt have much to do with my knee?

OMGG. i tore my ACL running hurdles in track earlier this month. i was on crutches, but i went to the doctors and they adviced me to get off it. and learn how to bend it. i know it hurts like hell.. but you gotta do it. yours might not be as bad as mine- i have to get surgery and im getting it on june 6th. you just have to bare the pain and start bending it. if you do have to gets surgery like me then you have to start bending it before they operate. i went to the physical therapist and they told me a few excerises to do. maybe you should try some/all of them. *lay on your belly on a soft surface and bend you knee as far as you can. just keep repeating. *sit on a chair or couch and put your feet on the ground. use your good leg to bring it the bad one. it hurts but it works good. *try putting presure on it and walking normal. *lay on your good side with the bad leg up. raise your leg then bring it down - it helps with your hips.. im the same way like you - i am really active and now i cant even play basketball next year in hs because of this stupid injury. before you start excersizing [besides like 6inches and chunches and planks and stuff] you have to get your knee bending atleast a little and be able to put pressure on it. right now im in the leanr how to walk stage and it sucks. i waddle around my school and people say i look like a penguin [ haha ]. i know some of this didnt help much, but im just want you to know youyr not the only one going through this. and im sure if you go to physical therapy or something they will give you plenty to do..

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I went to the tanning salon yesterday for the first time. I went into a low pressure bed for 20 minutes and I got a little burned. Not to the point where I don't want to go back again. I'm planning on going back tomorrow but how long should I only stay in for? And I wasn't using lotion or anything. What do you suggest for someone who got kind of burned?

deffinitally use suncreen. and put it everywhere. because once when i went i only put it on my face and arms and my legs got burned. the burn hsould go away in a day though. you are supposed to start low and work your way up. maybe go for 8 minutes. then the next day for 10. then the next day for 12, and just work your way up. and dont be scared if you are in there and really hot - to get out. i suggest using the sunscreen they have there. it works really well.. but if you get like one ones from CVS or soemthing then your not supposed to wear them in the tanning beds. so if you wear that kind, do it at home. good luckk

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hiii i have question
im 5'1 and i weigh 103 pounds
do you like i should lose some weight/?

i think your perfect. your right where you need to be. the average weight for a small framed girl thats 5'1 is between 101 and 109. i went to this site [ www.am-i-fat.com ] and clicked on weight tables for women. check it out if you want. but like i said, your great! ofcorse if you have alittle excess flab here or there - then do some crunches or something, but its not like huge. like i said - your at the perfect weight.

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what are good places for a "double date" if you wanna call it that, its just me, my boyfriend, my best friend nd her boyfriend.
where can we go other then the movies or the rollaidium, its geting boring!

hey, well.. heres some ideas.
*laser tag
*bowling
*an arcade
*go out to eat
*watch movies at home
*go rollarblading outside (on a nice day)
*take a nature walk
*miniature golf
*go to the zoo
*horse-back riding
*ultimate frisbe
*picnic in the park
*football/basketball/tennis in the park
eh, thats all i can think of now.. sorry. but have fun!

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and i dont want the world to see me
cuz i dont think that theyd understand
when everythings meant to be broken
i just want you to know who i am


whats the name of that song?

hey hun, its called Iris by the Goo Goo Dolls. i lovee thiss sonngg =)

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im the same girl that askd about tampons being uncomfertable. well. im small for my age, i just turned 14 and i just got my period. so yeah, im small and i use slim fits. shouldnt that be ok?

it might be, its all up to you to decide. but like i said, your supposed to wait a couple times. but if you want to wear tampons - your welcome too. i dont see why its not fine. it shouldnt be uncomfortable if your doing it right though. good luckk =)

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well at my school there's going to be a dance. i have a dress already but not shoes. but anywayz i'm not sure if i should go. i mean like, i'm afraid it's going to be wack. and i KNOW no one is going to ask me, but should i go?


note- a semiformal i'm 13yrs.old and in eight grade

i deffinitally think you should go. just go to ahng out. and have a good time. dont worry about the stupid boys who dont ask you. you never know who could end up asking you to dance once your their anyway. i doubt its gonna be wack because its your 8th grade dance so no matter what - its gonna be memorable. and for the show problem - go to like DSW (if you have one near you) or like a khols or target or even homegoods. they all ahev ADORABLE shoes for really good prices. and alot of times people cant even tell that you got em from there. good luck and enjoy yourself. atleast you can go to your 8th grade dance.

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someone please tell me a good foundation to hide pimples and acne.. and i need a REALLY good one and i dont want one that will be really obvious if you know what i mean.. but if you dont just tell me a good foundation you have used. and i dont want it to be alot of money and thanks! ill rate high

personally i use Cover Girl Clean Makeup. its fragrance free, oil free and wont clog your pores. ontop of all that its lightweight and blends in super well. then on top of that [ sometimes ] i use Clinique Superbalanced Makeup. again, its oil free and no fragrance. then usually i put a bronzer over it that has biult in sunscreen. also, i knwo that Dream Matte Mousse works amazing. good luck

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Is it possible to gain 2 lbs in two days?

yes it is.

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I really like you but I am afraid to ask you out in person. But I am afraid I am going to get rejected. Are you single? If so would you like have a boyfriend, maybe not me ut a boyfriend in general? Obviously I am a man in need of a woman.

From anonomous.

im flattered. really - i am. uh yah im single and i dont know if i want a boyfriend. maybe i guess. i dont want you to just like me because your a man in need of a woman. and you pick a random girl for you to like. maybe you should IM me and we can chat.

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heyyyyyy i need help on how to use a tampon

im guessing by saying using a tampon you mean putting it in. there are a couple ways you can learn how. the way i reccomend is asking your mom. dont be scared and just be honest with her. tell her you need help and really wanna wear tampons. you shouldnt be wearting tampons till after you knwo how heavy your flow is & stuff. no matter what it shouldnt hurt you - the inital feeling is kinda wierd but you deffinitally get used to it and you are so happy to have it instead of a stupid diaperish thing. haha. anotehr way if your not comfortable about talking with it to your mom is to look on the side of the box. it pretty much always has the directions of the side. and if you dont wanna do that.. then you can go here [ http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html ] and scroll down to "How do you insert a tampon?" . sorry that it shows some pictures - but its helpful and its good if you dont wanna ask her or soemone else. if you have anymore questions - im here =)

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