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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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for two weeks, and he has to stay there 2 more weeks. i miss him like crazy! ike ive been crying a few times each week, and it feels like hes been gone way longer than he really has. what can i do to make the time go by faster??? its driving me insane!

Hang out with your friends & occupy your time with something else. You'll still miss him, but you won't constantly be thinking about it so it'll be better for you.

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what age can u start working here?

Working where?


If you want to be apart of advicenators, you need to be 13 years old. And if you mean in the country of the US, the age is about 16.

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i have a small thingy and i was wondering if girls even care

Some girls do, but for me it depends. If a guy is too small, you wouldn't get pleasure, and if he's too big, it'd hurt, so it all depends.


But honestly, it doesn't really matter. As long as you know what you're doing & you work it right, it shouldn't matter.

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I'm not sure if I'm still sick or not so what temperatures will tell me that I'm not? my body temperature measurement goes by Farenheight.

98.6 degrees is what you should be. A few degrees below that, like about 96 or whatever & you're still fine, but if you're a few degrees above that like 100+ and you're definitely sick.

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ok. look. my best friend asked out this guy. but i liked him before she asked him out. and i didn`t tell her how i felt about him cuz i keep these thing`s to myself. and she told me to call him to see wat his answer was. so i did and i asked him. he said i don`t knoe wat do you think i should say.? and i said i don`t knoe i ain`t you. and then he said well then.. i don`t knoe. and ever since that me and him talk non stop like friend`s. and she doesn`t talk to him that much as me and him talk to each other. and when i was talkin` to her on the phnoe. i asked her s0o have you talked to him.? and she said yes that she called him and asked him for his answer. and he said he doesn`t knoe that he will tell her 2day. and then she said i don`t care what he say`s. and i`m like wat.?! how can you not care wat he say`s. but LISTEN rite here. it`s stupid she still with this guy and i thought they broke up && i told him they did. and she said if he say`s no then she still going to be wit that other guy and if he say`s yes then she gonna dump the other guy. and i really care for *him* and he doesn`t really deserve her. what do you think i should do.? please help me out thanx.

Tell them both how you feel. You like this guy, & your best friend is about to snatch him away from you, and it's not like she gives a damn about him since she's with someone else, right?


Do what makes you happy.

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what's the difference between oral sex and the real thing?

Oral sex & actual sex have a really big difference. With oral sex, the penis isn't going into the vagina, & with actual sex, it is. Oral sex is just going down on someone.

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Hello =)

I've had an Ipod Nano 2 generation for a little over 6 months, and I love it to death. But it's just a silver one, and it only holds 2gs and i'm afraid i'll soon run out of room on it. I was looking on the internet and seen a new mp3 player called a Zune, and thought it was just the cutest thing. At first I wouldn't dream of trading in my Ipod, but the I noticed that the Zune held 30gs!

What do you think? Should I trade in the Ipod for the Zune or not?

If the Zune holds more & you like the way it looks, then do what makes you happy. I would do it.

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what does "going down on someone" and "riding someone" mean?

"Going down on someone" is giving/recieving oral sex.


"Riding someone" is normal sex where either the male or female is on top.

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I don't have many extra curricular activities
All I have is: field hockey, piano, track, lacrosse, and a lottt of community service hours.
I also speak three languages fluently, but I don't think that's an extra curricular activ.
Does anybody know if this is enough to get me into a GOOD college, like UCLA. My GPA is also a 3.8.
Any other extra curricular activies I could do?

That is enough to get you into a good college. If you want to do more, do yearbook club or something like that. But you've got enough skills & extra activities. You don't need anymore but can get them if you want to. =)

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http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=13
How come you're allowed to ask yourself a question? Why would you do thaaat?
I understand that you CAN ask yourself a question, but why doesn't it result in your banning?

Asking yourself a question gives you a chance to experience all types of questions, AND it helps with your way of giving advice.

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is there any way that you can make your info on aim unavailable to a certain group of people on your buddy list? i have the orriginal aim and my mom wants to get a screen name so she can have another way to contact me and my info has stuff in it that she wouldn't approve of so if i put her into a certain category on my buddy list can i make my info unavailable to her?

Nope.

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Hi im 14m and i was wondering...im about 6 1/4 and about 1 inch thick...i was wonder if thats big or small..please answer
thanks..

You're about an inch over average.

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how do you give yourself an orgasm?!
thankss

Well nobody can tell you since you didn't indicate if you were a boy or a girl. Update your question and I'll answer it fully.

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My best friend [ which is a guy ] and I just had this huge fight. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. And he listens to all my problems even if they dont include him. I listen to his too.

So, I was telling him what my boyfriend did to me. Which was kiss another girl when I was sittin next to him. My best friend got real mad at him and said he was going to talk to him. Then the next day my best friend was all " Im not going to talk to your boyfriend. I feel bad for him. He doesnt deserve you. " and he knows that really hurt me. I have no clue where that came from. and now my best friend wont even talk to me...

I dont know what happened.
:'[

My question is: Why in the world are you still with your boyfriend? He kissed another girl right in front of your face. If my boyfriend did that to me, it wouldn't be tolerated.


Why does it upset you that he said your boyfriend doesn't deserve you? It's the truth, he doesn't. You're too good for him, and it's time you realize that.


Dump your boyfriend, and talk to your friend. They both need to hear something from you.

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How do I become a moderator?

If you've just been banned, you need to wait 6 weeks to become one.


Everything you need to know about becoming a moderator is in the FAQ.


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My birthday was June 30th. It was my 16th birthday. I don't know why they forgot my birthday.. they've never forgotten anything of mine before. There wasn't anything going on around that time.. I don't know what the problem is! I am not a bad girl.. my GPA is a 3.85 and I'm always doing chores. Why did they forget? Should I say something? Because every time I tell them they did something wrong, even if it was that they didn't put on their seatbelt, I'm grounded for 2 weeks, and I'm not even exaggerating.
Its been almost 3 weeks since my birthday..

Tell them.


I'd be pissed if my parents forgot my birthday, so they have every right to know. And I wonder how/why they forgot. It's been the same for 16 years. It's not ever going to change.

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me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple weeks
but weve been talking for like 2 months. i trust him and everything but should i have sex with him?
or should i wait?

im not a virgin so its not like my frist time.

what should i do?

If you don't know whether or not to have sex with your boyfriend, then you probably shouldn't.

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tomorrow i have an interview at applebee's restaurant as a hostess.

does anyone work there? do you like it or not? also, what should i wear to the interview?

if anyone is a hostess anywhere, can you tell me if you like it? is it easy? what do you do? the more info the better :]

My friend is a hostess at a diner similar to Denny's [and I realize your interview is at Applebee's]. Anyways, she hates it.


You stand there waiting for people to come in, some people give you a hard time, and you don't make much money. You'd make more as a waitress because of tips.


Anyways, wear nice clothes. Don't wear ripped jeans, don't show cleavage, don't wear flipflops. Wear a nice dress shirt, a nice skirt or dress pants, and nice shoes. Do your hair nice & your makeup natural. Don't look sloppy & come in confident & smiling. When they greet you, shake their hand, & tell them it's nice to meet them. Keep your answers short & sweet UNLESS you feel it needs to be a long answer.


Good luck at your interview!

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It's about midnight right now. I am really craving coffee. There's a gas station really closeby, only a 20 minute walk, and their coffee is soo good.

My house is on a semi-busy street, but there's a sidewalk. I don't live in a dangerous part of town.

Would it be okay for me to walk to the gas station, get coffee, and walk back home? I'll bring a cell phone.

Please don't say "just wait til tomorrow" or "make a pot of coffee yourself". Is it okay or is it way too dangerous?

17 years old.

I wouldn't really suggest it even if your neighborhood is safe or not. There are tons of chances to do something to an innocent person at night, so I wouldn't recommend walking.


However, if you decide to walk, bring your cell phone & try to be safe.

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i have been dating this guy for over a year & i love him alot and don't want to be with any guy besides him. but, i look at other guys - i talk to them, flirt, etc... and i think it would be fun to kiss one of them, hook up with one of them.. but i don't want to be with them, i just want to be with my boyfriend. i want to be like, a slut for a day, but not a slut.. but i still want my boyfriend.

what should i do?

You should stay faithful to your boyfriend. If you "love him a lot," you'll keep it in your pants & stay with him & not hook up with other guys.


If you do indeed decide to cheat, consider your relationship over with no questions asked. It's okay to flirt & talk to guys in a friendly way, but to do anything else would be horrible. I'm pretty sure you'd be upset if your boyfriend was a pimp "for a day," so don't be a slut for a day.

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