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i have been dating this guy for over a year & i love him alot and don't want to be with any guy besides him. but, i look at other guys - i talk to them, flirt, etc... and i think it would be fun to kiss one of them, hook up with one of them.. but i don't want to be with them, i just want to be with my boyfriend. i want to be like, a slut for a day, but not a slut.. but i still want my boyfriend.
what should i do?
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If you truly love your boyfriend a lot then you won't cheat on him. At all. Period.
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okay honestly this JUST happened to me. and i broke up with my boyfriend and now he refuses to talk to me until the end of the summer. dont do it.. its a bad idea. stay with your boyfriend you will be wayy happier
xoxo
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oh man dont do that. thats a huge mistake. not if you really LOVE your boyfriend. what happens if he finds out? how will you explain it to him? theres a huge possibility that he wont understand. love is always faithful. you cant cheat on your boyfriend and expect everything to be the same. it just doesnt work that way. either you dump him and date other guys or you stay commited to him. thats only fair to him and YOU. you cant love him and yet want to hook up with other guys. think about it. one step that you make and you might ruin your relationship. you dont want that right?
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You need to kiss your boyfriend more lol. and put the idea that hes the one the ONLY one for you and you guys are perfect together and you need only each other.
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If you don't want to be with any guy besides him, i highly doubt that cheating on him would be the best thing to do. It's always okay to look at other guys and flirt, but hooking up or kissing another guy is simply out of the question -- It's called cheating.
If you want to be in a serious relationship then your best objective would be to never cheat on this guy, because all that will do is lead to a break up and breaking some guys heart just because of some bad mistakes.
Good Luck.
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You should stay faithful to your boyfriend. If you "love him a lot," you'll keep it in your pants & stay with him & not hook up with other guys.
If you do indeed decide to cheat, consider your relationship over with no questions asked. It's okay to flirt & talk to guys in a friendly way, but to do anything else would be horrible. I'm pretty sure you'd be upset if your boyfriend was a pimp "for a day," so don't be a slut for a day.
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Don't do that. You'll regret it if you cheat on your boyfriend for "just one day". He'll get mad and your relationship you apparently love will be done with. Don't make the mistake. If you want to make out with someone, do it with your boyfriend. If you love him, why would you do that? I know you have urges.. but don't act on them, please, whatever you do.. be faithful to your boyfriend.. don't give in.
--Jack
(15/m)
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