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long distance.
I like this guy I met online. I don't know if he likes me or anything but we seem to get along really well. I dont know if I should tell him or what because I really like him. Wht are your views on long distance relationships? Do yuo think they work or not? We're both 15 if tht helps.
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Hmm, this is kind of tough.
My views on long distance are, if you're both willing to commit and be honest within the relationship, go for it! I'd probably tell him, or at least hint it to him. Life's too short not to. But first, make sure you really know him. I'm going to go all "safety crazy" on you and tell you to check out who you talk to. Where did you meet him? Myspace? Because they have alot of freaky guys on there. Just please please be very careful. He could be some 40 year old freak or he could be who he says he is, but just looking to hook up. I know both of those are terrible, but it's true =/ But if you're positive he is who he says he is, then I guess you can like I said, let him know, or hint it to him. You never know, he could feel the same way. I think long you guys could make it work if you really trusted one another and wanted to make it work. Good Luck!
<3 Laura.
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Well, in my personal opinion, it takes two very responsible, selfless people to make a long distance relationship to work. well, I was 12 and I met a boy who was atm 16, and we've been together for 4 years now, and Im very happy with it, we're going to meet after I graduate, but we also have the same standards and such. It will only work if you can fully dedicate yourself to this person, and thats hard to do when you cant actually be there, physical pleasure and lonliness tends to develop problems. I definatly wouldnt reccomend long distance relationships beacuse theres just so much pain included with it, and you really have to be dedicated, i also wouldnt reccoment meeting irl until after you're 18 (then again I have no clue how old this kid is, but either way it applies). I dont think its a good idea, as it is theres only a 6 in 10 chance of people going out, making it in the world, and chances are cut in half when it comes to online relationships, no matter what e-harmony says.
long answer short, you probably shouldnt do it.
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I dont think they work. If you cant see the person enough then eventually someone else will start giving them the attention that you cant give them. when something comes up, They arent going to tell you the full truth because they know that you arent going to see them, or have any proof.
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