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I lost my best friend.

Question Posted Tuesday July 10 2007, 12:50 pm

My best friend [ which is a guy ] and I just had this huge fight. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. And he listens to all my problems even if they dont include him. I listen to his too.

So, I was telling him what my boyfriend did to me. Which was kiss another girl when I was sittin next to him. My best friend got real mad at him and said he was going to talk to him. Then the next day my best friend was all " Im not going to talk to your boyfriend. I feel bad for him. He doesnt deserve you. " and he knows that really hurt me. I have no clue where that came from. and now my best friend wont even talk to me...

I dont know what happened.

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xobabygurl28 answered Tuesday July 10 2007, 4:03 pm:
Your boyfriend should have never kissed another girl..ever..even in front of your face, i personally think you should break up with you boyfriend find a guy who will respect you you deserve so much better.
& Maybe your friend got mad because he was thinking that your staying with him and that you deserve better, maybe that was your friends way of saying "i think you should break up with him" and he's mad because your still with him.

i hope things get better for you

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christina answered Tuesday July 10 2007, 3:25 pm:
My question is: Why in the world are you still with your boyfriend? He kissed another girl right in front of your face. If my boyfriend did that to me, it wouldn't be tolerated.

Why does it upset you that he said your boyfriend doesn't deserve you? It's the truth, he doesn't. You're too good for him, and it's time you realize that.

Dump your boyfriend, and talk to your friend. They both need to hear something from you.

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MzDani answered Tuesday July 10 2007, 2:58 pm:
Well, first you have to try to talk to him and ask him to explain what he said and why. You should also tell him how you feel.

Good Luck!

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ductape_n_roses answered Tuesday July 10 2007, 2:08 pm:
Um, maybe it's the whole guy/guy thing where they stick up for each other no matter what? I don't know. Sounds cliche.

Well, first I'd like to say that you should breka up with your bf. I don't know if he was joking when he kissed the girl or what but either way, that wasn't a very bf like thing to do to you. And he doesn't deserve you. You're too good for him [that's what your bff probably meant by that]

Hmmm, I don't know. The best thing you can to is talk to him and ask him what he meant by feeling bad for your bf and why he doesn't deserve you. Perhaps he likes you and he's mad at you for still being with your bf even though he kissed another girl. Bleh. But don't assume that fully, okay? Just talk to your best friend and ask him what's up.

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