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is he still in love?
alright so last night i asked my boyfriend if he was ever in love and he said yeah and i was like do you still have feelings for her? and he was like i always will but its was over along time ago and always will be.
so in a way that got me thinking would he ever love me?
or always lover her?
what if she ever came back, would he leave me for her?
even though it was along time ago.
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no,he loves you.
what he means by he still has feelings for her is that when he thinks about her,it's still with alot of feeling.
but he still has feelings for you that will grow.
and he would not want to leave you because of those feelings.
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You never forget your first love. It doesn't mean he would leave you for her. It also doesn't mean he'll never love anyone else. Your first love is just the one person who captured your heart first. I'm still in love with my ex, but I love my boyfriend now even more. I would never leave him for my ex. If you're truly committed to each other, you have nothing to worry about. He'll probably never forget this other girl, but obviously he's trying to put her in his past and move on with someone else. You can fall in love more than once, or at least thats how I feel about it.
He may love you someday, you just have to give it time. A relationship has to grow over time. Don't rush anything and don't worry about it because if you're going to worry, it could cause problems between the two of you.
Just live every moment to the fullest and just put that in the back of your mind. Everything will be okay.
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This can be tricky. I think that people always still have some feelings for people they once loved, because I believe that once you fall in love, you can't not be in love with that person. Since he said that the relationship was over along time ago and always will be, he doesn't have any intentions to be with her again. He probably does still care about her, but the thing to remember is that he is with you, not her.
He is able to love you just like he loved her, just maybe he was hurt in that relationship and needs time before he says that he loves you. At least he is honest and open about this, instead of just saying he loves you without any meaning.
Kate <3
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Its true that "first loves never die" but that doesnt mean he'll actually love her forever, from what he said he knows its over and doesnt expect to ever get back with her. If he's with you then remember that hes with you and not with her, i dont think theres anything for you to worry about, he can fall in love with you & i dont think he'll leave you for her, if he wanted to be with her they would have stayed together...hope i made u feel better :)
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I don't think you could ever, ever, EVER forget your first true love. The feelings can go or can stay, depending on how emotionally attached people can get or are. But the first person you experience everything with, you can't blame for not forgetting them, you know? I don't think necessarily that he can never love again though either. He may end up loving you more, depending on how ya'lls relationship goes =]
Only time will tell what happens, that's how life is. If he's really into you, I doubt he'd leave you for her. If ya'll are really open and comfortable with each other, you can ask him and tell him to answer with 100 percent honesty. You can't let it bother you either because I doubt you'd ever forget your first true love as well, and jealousy may bloom if she comes back to visit [[hell yeah]], but just remember who he's with. YOU. =)
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he may still have love for her but ur his girl now. if he was to ever leave you it would be for a reall reason not because he likes someone else. if the other girl was his first lover then he may still have feelings for her. but im pretty sure that he has a lot more feelings for u now. : )
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Well this is difficult to awnser. I mean, is she his first love and how long ago was the the relationship. Those are the questions you should be asking yourself or him. Ask him those questions to him and get an awnser that you might like or you may not. If it'll make you feel better to talk to him then you should do what makes you feel better. '
I hope everything turns out ok. If you need anything then just send me a message, and ill help you.
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Was she his first love? Because I can tell you that you NEVER forget your first love, but that does NOT mean that you'll never love someone else as much, if not more.
So yes, he will love you if everything works out between the two of you, but he will still have feelings for her. But it doesn't mean that he won't truly love you. But don't pressure him to love you or anything.
And he won't leave you for her if he really is into you. And you've got to learn to trust him & just ask him straight out the questions you asked on here. If he has nothing to hide, he'd be glad to answer, I guess. =)
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