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should i have sex?
me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple weeks
but weve been talking for like 2 months. i trust him and everything but should i have sex with him?
or should i wait?
im not a virgin so its not like my frist time.
what should i do?
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no idont think you should you should wait longer cause he might just be going with you for the sex what do YOU want to do!?
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Honestly, the only advice I can give you is, what do YOU want to do?
Even if it isn't your first time, you shouldn't throw sex around like it's nothing. If I were in your position, I would wait longer.
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WAITTT thats not long enough wait till u guys have been going out for a lil longer!
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In my opinion, a couple weeks isn't long enough to determine if you truly love someone.
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Well, in my opinion, I think you should only have sex when you're 100% sure you truly love the person you're having sex with. But I mean, if you think you're ready to have sex with him, I think there's nothing wrong with that.
But honestly, I don't think 2 months of KNOWING each other is long. And going out for a couple weeks isn't that long either. I always told myself I'd wait AT LEAST a year if anything, but people vary and are different. So it's your choice, but I suggest getting more into the relationship before trying anything.
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If you don't know whether or not to have sex with your boyfriend, then you probably shouldn't.
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dont rush into anything, i mean yes you trust him but if thast also teh case then wai ta while to see how much you trust him. you dont want t o do naythin gyou regret and if he likes yo uas much as you like him wait to get to know eachother make sure hes not just in it for the sex.
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hmm welll if you're questioning the idea of having sex with him..then you probably shouldnt. i mean yeah you trust him and you like him but when you're ready to do it you won't even think about not having sex with him, you would just do it..but its up to you..but i think you should wait till you have no doubts about doing it..hope i helped..holla atcha grll
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Honestly,just because u have talked to him for 2 months and you trust doesnt mean you dont know everything about him but every decesion is up to you and know one elses just make sure you want to do this before you go and make your final decision just because your not a virgin does not mean your giving up something special
Hope I said something inspirational
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Think about it: You've known this guy for two months. I wouldn't just have sex with him because you "trust him". And you've only been together a couple of weeks. Your relationship is only in the first stages.. how could you possibly know how long you'll be together or whether or not he is a genuine guy not just looking for sex. I wouldn't have sex with him, nor would I give in to him if he asked you to. Do what you want, but it certainly isn't worth it. Two months isn't that long to know someone and then just have sex with them.
--Jack
(15/m)
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honestly if you're asking if you should or not on this website i would suggest not having sex. asking means your hesitating, and yeah your not a virgin, but sex is still a big thing. im not saying never have sex with this guy, but maybe wait a while for the relationship to get stronger to make sure that your guy isnt just in it for sex.
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no you shouldn't. definitely wait. if you have to ask a website to know if you should do anything involving having sex, being in love, etc.. don't do it. even though it's not your first time, don't do it just for the hell of it.. save that for later on in the relationship. when people have sex early on in a relationship, it makes it crumble faster than those who take their time.
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Personally, I would wait if I've known the guy for only 2 months.
But it differs from people to people and if you think you're ready and if he is ready, then go right ahead =) If you're having doubts about whether or not to do so, wait, because that probably means that you don't want to [yet] and seeing that you're asking whether you should or shouldn't have sex with him on here, it kind of points out that you might not be ready as much as you think you are. But who knows. Maybe you do want to have sex with him
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