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My friend just came out to me that she's bi and that she like likes me... I like her too, like that but both of us are still really confused and need advice. Thanks to you all in advance! (link)
then get together there is nothing wrong with it i hope you guys have a good ime together good luck


Okay... So, a few months ago, I won an iPod shuffle in a contest. I used it for a few weeks, but something was wrong with the charger/loading dock. So I called everywhere, and I kept getting hung up on by Apple, so I gave up.
For Christmas, I recieved a portable iSound charger, that has a USB transfer port/charge mechanism. It also runs on batteries.
It charged the iPod, amazingly, and I was all excited.
However, when I went into iTunes, to try and move songs into the iPod, it didn't register under devices.
How do I make it register??? (link)
just call the company they will know what to do sorry i couldnt give you much info good luck


When I Masturbate or get ready too sometimes i get this clearish stuff thats on my vaginia. What is that? (link)
its just vaginal lubrication it just happens when you masturbate its no big deal nothings wrong with you


how is manhattan part of new york? what is it? a city? or a street? A state? what? like is it like "los angeles" from California? so i guess its like "manhattan" from "new york" correct me if i am mistaken (link)
manhattan is pretty much a city, but every one uses it in refrence to NY because its close by and idk, everyone just says it. So yeah, I guess your kinda right when you say its like "manhattan" from "NY"
I know, kinda confusing but whatevss.


okay so this girl named jaslen is getting me mad she keeps on trying to steal my best friend erika & shes to nice that she goes along with it she cant say no. & they i got a pic comment from jaslen saying your to concieded i felt like screaming at her telling her that im not concieded im just prettier than herrrrr she cant get any guy! i wanted to scream and tell her the plain truth but i just wrote "no hun im not concieded trust me i would know / go get a life :)" & now im just waiting for a reply i dont mean to pick a fight with her but shes getting me madddddddd erika my best friend shes sleeping over her house again tonight and shes been selling me out a ton :/ can someone help me what do i do ? (link)
if she decieds to trade best friends then she was never your friend just tell her that you miss her she will understand trust me and if she says somthing like your just being greedy you see me all the time just walk away she is not worth it trust me good luck i will pray for you this same thing happend to me and she said i was greedy and i wish i could of just walked instead of talking back and making that gult stay in me forever and ever good luck again


My question,

Everyone at work knows that our boss who is married is dating someone at work, when the gossip started he call everyone in to his office and told them if the gossip continued he would give everyone a 3 day lay off or some would lose their job..Can he do this if the gossip is true?
by-the way his wife also works @ the same place...

Thank you,
Babyblue2323 (link)
he can do it in LA some one got fired cause of the way she smelled its weird i know but anyone can fire anyone because of most anything sorry hope you keep your job good luck


get a code so you can comment every one of your friends at once saying the same thingg? (link)
well if your talking about email than just type in more than one address its simple just tell me if i didnt answer it right and tell me what it actualy is about good luck hope i got it right


how is manhattan part of new york? what is it? a city? or a street? A state? what? like is it like "los angeles" from California? so i guess its like "manhattan" from "new york" correct me if i am mistaken (link)
well its kinda like manhattan from new york and its a city i hope i helped enuf good luck


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love it its great did you make it


I need to lose about 40 pounds and want to try NutriSystem. have any of you been on it and do you like the food? NutriSystem is the cheapest compared to Jenny Craig and Weight Watchers.

Any insight on N.S? (link)
well weight watchers is defently the chepest but it takes forever and ever one of my friends tryed jenny craig she lost 17 pounds and she looks pretty good but she dosnt look the best she could and i have tryed nutrisystem i think jenny craig and nutrisystem are the same price and guess how much i lost on nutrisystem...i lost 50 pounds its so great and so worth it go for it really it rocks good luck hope you lose as much as me


is friends gonna have a movie coming up ? Thats what i heard b4.. its gonna be called "Friends In Money"


is itt rue? (link)
yeah its true i cant wait YYYYYYYYYYYYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYY GO FRIENDS


whats the difference between preceded and suceeded? For example, "Preceded by
Sex and the City Emmy; Succeeded by
Everybody Loves Raymond "


WHAT!? (link)
uuuuhhhhhhh i think i know what your talking about its like the sings say preced with caution ya know what i mean and than i think you know what succeed means good luck


Ok I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now. We technically arent dating, nor using me for sex. But his friends know about us he kisses me in front of them....what I wanna know is he is looking to settle down/serious relationship do you think hes just taking things way slow because he sees me in his future? (link)
oh dont worry about that i have a friend thats a boy we are like brother and sister but we would never date EVER and we do hug and kiss its no big deal we are just like best friends he might like you but problay not enuf to say anything i hope you think about what i have said good luck


16/f

i can't stand my boyfriend anymore, we've only been dating a couple months and he is always telling me how much in love he is and how he never loved somebody as much as he loves me. he made me meet his entire family, church members, friends, etc. and always tricks me into going to his grandma's house so i can become "friends" with his grandparents. and for christmas he got me a bracelet that has an engraving of "i Love you more than anything"... i just got him a blanket? again, we've only been dating about a month and a half!!! This is moving WAY too fast for me and i told him that he just got mad and ignored me.

second thing, we never do ANYTHING physical,not even a peck on the cheek. I don't really find him attractive but i didn't think that was an issue because i loved his personality, but it makes it difficult to be physical and im growing tired of his dirty jokes. He is so awkward about everything, he has to announce when he is going to put his arm around me or try to kiss me it makes me really turned off.

i want to break up so badly, because im really tired of all this, but the thing is he gets so moody about things. Before when i tried to break up with him he said "this isn't going to happen again." and it really freaked me out. Now i have his entire family, friends, and church members breathing down my neck if i want to break up with him he's going to make it so chaotic!

i guess my question is, how can i break up with him in a way that i can make him feel good about it, or at least not make him upset?
what should i say?
(link)
well you could say i just want to be single for now i still want to go out with you once in a while but i just dont want to be your girlfriend for now and later i will think about it again and maybe we could hook up again is that alright with you and if he says no...hes not worth it trust me really he isnt just say what i said and you will know and if he says yes than that is wonderfal he really cares about you good luck


16/f

i can't stand my boyfriend anymore, we've only been dating a couple months and he is always telling me how much in love he is and how he never loved somebody as much as he loves me. he made me meet his entire family, church members, friends, etc. and always tricks me into going to his grandma's house so i can become "friends" with his grandparents. and for christmas he got me a bracelet that has an engraving of "i Love you more than anything"... i just got him a blanket? again, we've only been dating about a month and a half!!! This is moving WAY too fast for me and i told him that he just got mad and ignored me.

second thing, we never do ANYTHING physical,not even a peck on the cheek. I don't really find him attractive but i didn't think that was an issue because i loved his personality, but it makes it difficult to be physical and im growing tired of his dirty jokes. He is so awkward about everything, he has to announce when he is going to put his arm around me or try to kiss me it makes me really turned off.

i want to break up so badly, because im really tired of all this, but the thing is he gets so moody about things. Before when i tried to break up with him he said "this isn't going to happen again." and it really freaked me out. Now i have his entire family, friends, and church members breathing down my neck if i want to break up with him he's going to make it so chaotic!

i guess my question is, how can i break up with him in a way that i can make him feel good about it, or at least not make him upset?
what should i say?
(link)
Tough break. What I would do is tell him in the NICEST way possible that you just don't think its going to work. Like say, "I'm so sorry (w.e his name is) but I really don't think this is going to work out. We gave it our best shot and it was fun, and trust me, you'll find another girl and when I see that girl I'll be totally jealous." Smile fragilly and try to make him laugh. If he goes all psycho on you, just walk away. Your not the one at fault here, if he makes a scene don't be apart of the play. Maybe you could even tell him that you can't be tied down right now but you still want to stay close friends because you think he is cool. Compliment him, but not in a flirty way because then you would be leading him on. Just apologize and leave it at that.
Hope it works out for you and best of luck!




Okay so i'm really confused... I'm 17 and i recently started dating my 22 year old neighbor who honestly is a great guy... but he's bisexual and he is still goin though a divorce (one month before it's done). but the thing is he still brings up his ex, and he tells me about his sexual experiences and honestly i don't like hearing that stuff... i know he has a past but i'm his future and i should be all that matters right??? and now on top of that he tells me he has been with a couple of men.. not while he has been with me but it still scares me... i mean he cheated on his ex with a guy and i trust him... but i know it could happen to me... what should i do??? (link)
i dont think this is the right thing to do cause if he cheated on his other wife than he will do it with you i cant say if he really cared about you he wouldent do that but if he cheated on his ex than he must not apreciate woman so i think you should break up with him before he hurts you you are to inportant to be hurt i really hope you give what i have said a chance just trust me trust me like your best friend please cause if i was you i wouldent even go out with him in the first place good luck


ok we started going out the day befor chrisstmad break and we need to get together to kiss and she wants to french kiss but i don't want to do that yet and i don't want to hurt her feelings and make her break up with me so now idk what to do i neeeddd heeelllpppp!!!!!!! (link)
Don't do anything you don't want to. Tell her that you don't want to go that fast and that you want to take the relationship slower, and hopefully she will understand. And lets be rational, she probably-most likely- won't break up with you if you don't french kiss with her. And your probably not hurting her feelings because you want to go at your pace not hers, and thats fine. Just don't make a big deal out of it to her, don't be like, "NOOO WAAAYYY!" just be cool about it. If she tries to french kiss you, don't let her. Its just a kiss, it shouldn't ruin the relationship :]
Good luck!
Understatementoftheyearx3


ok we started going out the day befor chrisstmad break and we need to get together to kiss and she wants to french kiss but i don't want to do that yet and i don't want to hurt her feelings and make her break up with me so now idk what to do i neeeddd heeelllpppp!!!!!!! (link)
i know this is what everyone says but its true she doesnt really like you if she will break up with you unless you kiss her its really stupid of her just tell her do you really care about me or am i just around cause you want to kiss me no dont say that girls are so emotinal uuuhh say somthing like if i really matterd to you you wouldent make me kiss you thats better say somthing like that to her you will know then hope i helped a little good luck and hopfully you will spend your new year with your girlfriend


can you get a tattoo at age 16 with a parents signature? (link)
Nope not usually


where can i find lyrics to the song dont go by Qwote and trina? (link)
just type it in google its easy to find good luck




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