Question Posted Thursday December 27 2007, 3:56 pm
ok we started going out the day befor chrisstmad break and we need to get together to kiss and she wants to french kiss but i don't want to do that yet and i don't want to hurt her feelings and make her break up with me so now idk what to do i neeeddd heeelllpppp!!!!!!!
Just explain to her the situation, and the awkwardness and it has nothing to do with her but you're just not ready to french kiss yet. However explain to her you're still comfortable with hugging, a kiss on the cheek or maybe even a peck on the lips if you're comfortable with that.
orphans answered Thursday December 27 2007, 7:12 pm: Don't do anything you don't want to. Tell her that you don't want to go that fast and that you want to take the relationship slower, and hopefully she will understand. And lets be rational, she probably-most likely- won't break up with you if you don't french kiss with her. And your probably not hurting her feelings because you want to go at your pace not hers, and thats fine. Just don't make a big deal out of it to her, don't be like, "NOOO WAAAYYY!" just be cool about it. If she tries to french kiss you, don't let her. Its just a kiss, it shouldn't ruin the relationship :]
Good luck!
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orphans answered Thursday December 27 2007, 7:10 pm: i know this is what everyone says but its true she doesnt really like you if she will break up with you unless you kiss her its really stupid of her just tell her do you really care about me or am i just around cause you want to kiss me no dont say that girls are so emotinal uuuhh say somthing like if i really matterd to you you wouldent make me kiss you thats better say somthing like that to her you will know then hope i helped a little good luck and hopfully you will spend your new year with your girlfriend [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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