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Q: i am havin a real trouble tryin to pick a colour for my room. i have knda a big room and i dont want colours wot make it to big or to small can sum 1 help me plz

Go with your favorite color or maybe you could pick to colors and do everyother wall that color like pink white pink white or green blue green blue or something like that or put a mirro on the wall-trix

Q: why is everyone so obsessed with giving hand jobs or all this other sexual stuff. I don't get it...to me it just seems so disgusting.

Well it is gross because we're young but there are people out there that are sluts... and they enjoy that sort of stuff.. maybe they get payed.. i dont know and if its there interest then so be it-trix

Q: we r about 2 move and i have 2 get my moms furniture...but i wanna make it 2 where its not so adult like...if that makes sence....im 15 and i want 2 paint my room pink and make it really girly...hehe...so if anyone knows anything i can make adult furniture not so that way and also i need some ideas for like wall hangings and kinds of selves and really anything i can put in there that has 2 go with the theme...if this question makes any sence...thanks 2 anyone who answers!!!!!

Put cloth over it or something or a stuffed animal sitting on it-trix

Q: i want to know if any of you have made your furnature or walls look nice but by doing it youself and within a budget .. also if you had maybe a theme for your room or what you did to it & maybe what it looks like.. please help!!!

- desperate

My mom one time spunged my wall and it looked cute it was pink and purple and blue sponge marks but.. it was white wall behind it i've been thru the cloud theme the tiger theme and im moving onto the princess theme-trix

Q: I just moved into my new house and I want my room to be really cute! Do you have any ideas on decorating it? ThAnKs!

I am just moving into a new house shortly that we built and 3 walls will be pink and 1 yellow its the princess theme-trix

Q: ok i wanna redo my bedroom into a cool 80s style i cant find any 80s room style online and i dont have time or money to go somewhere far away to find stuff i need to find it now ... i really need help on how to find great 80s style rooms i really want this done to my bedroom ... so help me and tell me where to find pictures or info on 80s room i mainly need pictures.. help me ASAP!!!

JC penny's has alot of varietys like the shagged look and stuff. Go to askjeeves and Click on images or go to google and click on images but type in something about 80's-trx

Q: does anyone know any really cute things they did with their room or ideas they have.. like with picture frames, furnature, poseters, umm and just plain wall decorations!

please helP!

Well i have a poster board of alot of hot guys on there and i just have that in my room and have pictures of me and my friends around and posters.. i used to have a lil puppy but i think it makes the room look tacky if its not framed.. just my opinion~trix

Q: How can i make a room feel calm
and want to work

Do light calm colors do fall colors like a light yellow or something or light pink or light purple or blue or something like that-trix

Q: I have a very small room!!! how can I make it seem bigger?!?!?!? ALSO i have green carpet :( what can I do?!?!?!?!?!?!? HELP

Do light colors... and get some rugs to cover that carpet try to put things on the wall that draw away from that carpet-trix

Q: im really girly and i am decorating ma room but wot colour shall i do it? its a big room

Do you favorite color or do diff. colors that really is cute if you do like pink yellow blue and purple or something but i have my soon to be room pink cept 1 wall is yellow its a princess theme-trix

Q: what r some creative ideas you guys did with your rooms or want to do?

I have 3 pink and 1 yellow wall its the princess theme and i want a canopy for my bed and pink lil rugs and cute lil things but in my current room its the tiger theme so i have a tiger rug and tiger pictures and tiger comforter and pillows-trix

Q: can anyone tell me what they have for their room to give me ideas on what i should do with mine, but i need to keep it within a budget, please help .. i know stores to go to , to get the stuff i just want to know what ppl did with there rooms

Well right now i have the tiger theme and we are building a house so i am going for the princess theme now i have 3 pink walls and 1 yellow-trix

Q: Ok. I'm going to go to a murder mystery dinner party thing, and I have no idea how to play. Could someone briefly explain how you play? I'm worried I'll make a complete fool of myself and ruin the game...

Scarred-trix

Q: hey people!i was wondering if anyone heard jet's new song. if ya did please tell me the name

I saw it on my cell when looking for new ringers and i saw Make It Real or cold hard bitch-trix

Q: Ok how do i put my column into my AIM profile? Plz help me cause i want to put it in there so my buddies can also ask for advice!

Thanks so much!

Alright go to Your advice column copy the link of your advice column from the top and go to edit profile and then click on link and put the link on the hyperlink URL and then put my advice column or click here or need advice? at the Hyperlink Text and there ya go!!-trix

Q: when should i look into a boyfriend? i'm 11 now, and i think i'm way too young. whenever i have sex, it will be when i'm married. i will not ever use a condom, because it's against the catholic religion, which i am. so i'll have two kids at the most (maybe). and i will definately be having one child. when should i have a bf? i don't want to go throuhg a break up...should it be when i am old enough to get married, just in casE?

start around 13 but its never to early or late. Well if your married you could use a condom.. thats not against the religion they just want you to wait to have sex. But you can't plan your life out like that because things happan but yes you can set your boundaries but for the kids what if you end up with 1 kid the first time and triplets the next? But you need to date alot of diff. kind of guys to get to know what kind of guy you want and you will seem retarted if you dont date until around college dont you think? But being your only 11 its not that big of a deal to have a bf right now... your still young and every guy around your age is just like a bro to u more then just a crush but maybe its possible at your age i know but im catholic to and i know whats right and whats wrong and im still a virgin and if im married i may have the guy use a condom.. you may not want a baby right away in the marrage-trix

Q: well my problem is i have this guy friend and i dated him b4 but it didnt work out..well recently i found out from him he still has feelings for me but i dont have feelings like that for him..we're like best friends..well the other day he told me bcuz of his feelings for me we couldnt be friends anymore..but i know if i dated him again id be miserable..plz tell me what to do..i dont want to lose a friend.thankz.
xoxo
in need of advice

Well maybe you could go on a date and see how it goes not like a official couple but just as friends or maybe a lil bit more-trix

Q: How the hell do you get a tampon it! i have been trying for ever! i even used some KY Jelly and the slender sized ones! i found the hole and all but i just cant get it in! anyone have any tips or anything??!! EMERGANCY!

Ask a parent-trix

Q: I have a question that i hope someone can help me with. Is it right to change for a guy? I use to have this one boyfriend that was a punk and I was jusst a normal 13 year old girl. all of his friends were punks to and at that time I was overwhieght and diddn't care about what I looked. Well then all of a sudden my boyfriend just dummped me w/no explanation. And a little while later I started getting into the punk music and cloths and i lost 20 pounds. Now I'm obsessed w/punk music and cloths but i don't know if it's b/c i want him to see what he missed out on or if it's really what i want. About 6 months have passed since my break up w/him. Since our breakup was just b4 the summer no body not even my friends have seen me, so I can't wait till school starts so i can see everyone's reaction esspecially his. But do n-e-of you think this is righ? Pleae someone help me.

Always
Nat

Alright when i just read the first line i had to say its not right to change for a guy because 1) what if your never with them you are pretty much forever changed and 2) would you want him to change for you? maybe lil things but not outer appearences or personality 3)its not the real you 4) your just like a creation but a real human that he created and now ill read the rest... How come none of your friends have seen you during the summer? are ya ok? But if you are cooping yourself up you shouldnt do that but if you really interested in it then it is okay but if u r just changing for him then its wrong-trix

Q: Hey, l'm 13 and I've liked this boy for 13 months..lol.. and we started going out in april and he broke up with me in june. i was heartbroken but i kind of saw it coming..i dont know he kind of just stopped calling as much. then i found out after he broke up with me that it was because he felt bad because..he still liked me..but he still had feelings for his ex. but i still like him A TON!!!! we have kept talking and hanging out after we broke up. i have noticed that hes starting to act like he likes me...also he usually tells people who he likes..he wont tell any of my friends..i wont dare ask him myself because i dont want him to know that i still like him if he doesnt like me..i dont want him to feel uncomfortable. my friend has also noticed that it seems like he likes me. What should I do? haha i dont even know what im asking you..just tell me what you think about this whole thing and what i should do..please?

Lol confused are ya? its okay but i would think that you to should just continue as you are and go about that and if something happans like you to go out then so be it that would be good but if he still gots a few feeling for his x.. then that is going to be in the way for awhile so i'd leave it at that or try to get to the bottom of weather he still really likes you as you do like him-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"