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help plz!
well my problem is i have this guy friend and i dated him b4 but it didnt work out..well recently i found out from him he still has feelings for me but i dont have feelings like that for him..we're like best friends..well the other day he told me bcuz of his feelings for me we couldnt be friends anymore..but i know if i dated him again id be miserable..plz tell me what to do..i dont want to lose a friend.thankz.
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tell him that a past relationship should'nt get in the way of friendship
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chynna
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Tell Him you consider him your best friend. and that you would never want to lose him. but LISTEN! don't go out with him to save him as a friend. if he really cares for you that much wouldnt he want to be a closer friend? this guy confuses me. maybe he's looking for you to be upset about him not wanting to be friends. if this is the case...keep acting like you need him in your life. keep tryinN!
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Tell him "I'm sorry I don't have feelings for you like I do with you, but I don't want to go out with you when I don't have feelings for you, that would be wrong, and that would only leave you with hurt, and I wouldn't want to do that to you because you're like one of my best friends." "And just because I don't have feelings for you doesn't mean we can't be friends, you can just put our relationship down the drain like that just because I don't want to go out with you." Just say something like that and how you feel about this situation and stuff. Just sit him down and be serious too. Hope this helps and good luck =D
xoxo Kourtney
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alrite, well u need to tell him the truth,and be be shy or anything, he need to know that u only want to be his friend only and nothing more.good luck!
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Tell your friend that you dont wanna go out with him and you just see him as a friend and thats all if it didnt work out the first time then it prolly wont work out the second time..Tell him you luv him but only in the friend loving way..If you ever needa talk IM Xo_lilshawty_oX@yahoo
XoX-Kayla
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All you can do is tell him how you feel and that you don't want to loose the friendship you have together. If he's to immature to deal with his feelings and just be your friend that's his problem and theirs nothing you can do about it.
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Dont just date him so you'll lose a friend. Give him time i'm sure its hard to be bestfriends with someone that he likes so much but they dont have feelings for him. Talk to him and tell him that you dont want to lose him as a friend but you dont have those feelings for him anymore. But you got to understand its probably real hard for him. Just tell him that you understand if he doesnt want to be friends but you dont want to lose a bestfriend. Tell him how you feel about the situation.
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Wow intence. Well Some things deserve a secound chance. Mabye things will be diffrent. Dont hate them befor you try them(again in your case) Talk to him. Rate me!!
~Bianca~
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ahh what a hard situation to be in!! tell him that you care about him a lot and your making your decision for the both of you and you don't want to lose him but you don't want to hurt him either.. just tell him exactly how you feel but in the nicest way possible haha.. hopefully this helps!!
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Well maybe you could go on a date and see how it goes not like a official couple but just as friends or maybe a lil bit more-trix
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Wow...Umms...I really have to think about this one. I really think you should talk to him, and let him know that you don't want to lose the relationship you guys have now over mixed feelings you both have. Tell him how much he means to you as a friend, and make him realize that it doesn't have to be about gf/bf feelings. Just for both of you to love eachother like brother and sister. That's all I can really tell you. I hope somebody else can help you out in a better way. Good luck hun! <3
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Tell him you like being friends with him and you dont like wanna lose him as a friend and you dont want to lose him
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