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I'm Sarah, i'm 16. I'm a typical 16 year old girl. I'm a junior in high school. The thing thats gets on peoples nerves most about me is that i'm too sarcastic. But I can be serious...sometimes. I just got a car that I love but its already very messy...like me. I am not clean, or organized...sometimes I don't even know what the term means. I just got a job and was late on my 3rd day. I am late to almost everything. As you can see I am far from perfect, but I accecpt myself as me. I'm not perfect in school, actually I am going to summer school this summer, but to me, it's not that big of a deal. Things don't phase me like they do other people...
I am a little spoiled. My dad lets me keep his credit card and gives me money on it that he doesn't even have. My mom gives me her debit card way to often and usually is to ditzy to notice what I do on it. I love my parents. My grandmother is pretty rich and gives me money to come visit her...and sent me money to buy stuff for work...she sent me way more than I needed and I love her very much too! =)
I lost my grandpa 2 years ago and i miss him to this day. He was one of those people that you can't forget and no matter how much pain it causes you to think of them, you never even want to forget them, becuase you feel somewhat empty. He was one of the greatest people to me and I love him and miss him very much and cant wait until we meet up again.
When i'm am not working or not in school...i sleep as late as possible and stay in my pj's all day. I am not one of those people that gets dress to sit at home. I will go out in my pjs if i have to. To me, what people think about me is not as important as what I think about myself.
Some of my favorite things:
tv, movies, summer, not having school, beach, vacations anywhere, music (country and alternative rock), my mom (she is hilarious and i couldnt live without her...shes one of my best friends), my job (i love making money), my car, my fanily.
I am very typical but unique in my own way. I can sing very good, by myself in my car or in the shower...thats it! When i get bored I love to color...but i am really 16...not 10.
I have been through so much...my parents were divorced when i was 2 and i lived with my mom...she has had many boyfriends, and we have lived with a few...she has been engaged and married once before. That was really hard on me, harder than she or anyone thinks.
1. i had to leave all my friends and move an hour away to somewhere i had never lived before and move in with people I bearly knew.
2. i am an only child and the man she married had 2 kids. peroid.
Dont get me wrong, I loved his kids but when you are an only child for 15 years then get mixed with a 13 year old boy and a 9 year old girl that are used to getting everything they want and never doing anything....cant be good.
Me and his daughter got really close and as much as I dont like to admit it, it really hurt me when we couldn't be step sisters anymore. and her brother, he and I were alike in some ways and not in others, he was very carcastic like me which isnt always a good thing but sometimes is. We got along but i was shy and he was a little to. But we had just gotten used to each other when my mom told me they were getting a divorce...i wasn't suprised.
There are many other things about me that I am not going to bore you with because I want you to get to the end without falling asleep...if you have even gotten this far...
Now if you have read this far already which i really dont think you have...then you can ask me a question. I like giving advice...it makes me feel wise, and people tell me i am not to bad at it...so go ahead...its its stupid...you will feel the warth of my sarcasim....but its serious...then i will be as serious as my sarcasim permits....so just find out.
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do u thinnk beagles are cute?
yes i think they r very cute...i have a basset and they look alot alike...they r adorable!!!
i think is is totally gross and disgusting to be a gay guy or a lesbian is it wrong to think that i dont think it is
its ur opinion and ur totally intitled 2 that.
what do you do when your are tottaly flirting with a guy one day and then the next day he pretends you don't even exsit it like really confusing? i'm not sure if i sould forget about him or go after him
if u really like him then u should go after him..just keep trying 2 talk 2 him till he listens but if u just were flirting to flirt...then let him go...hes kinda shallow 2 do that to u...and find someone else :]
okay i am an 12 year old male. and i like this girl at school and i keep on having sexual fantasies about her am i to young is this normal
yep its normal!!!:]
umm i havent had sex yet and i want to, with my boyfriend. he is really special to me and we have been together for 3 years !! i know were ready to have sex but OMG I AM SO FREAKEN NERVOUS. if your not a vergin then, does it hurt??? how bad does it hurt?? omg i am so nervous. i just wanna get it over with.. HELP ME PLEASE !!
(P.S IM SO SCARED OF THE PAIN AND THAT IM GONNA LOOK LIKE AN IDIOT CUZ IM NOT GONNA NO WHAT IM DOING )
ur not gonna look like an idiot...if u feel like ur ready then u should do it and im not gonna lie it will hurt and u may bleed a little but thats normal...and dont be nervous....cuz that could build stress and u may think it hurts more than it really does...good luck...:]
ps...dont forget a condom (or whatever kind of birth control u use)
what is douching???? and why do women do it???? what is its purpose??? is it healthy???? should i be douching???
its when women clean out there vagina and its not healthy and no u shouldnt be doing it...the vagina is self-cleaning and doesnt need that...:]
Alright ive had sex before but its been 9 months ive been fingered like 4 tymes since then tho.. im scared to do it agen did my cherry grow bak? am i going to bleed again like the 1st tyme? is it going to hurt as bad? please help beacuse i really want to do it again im just nervous beacuse its been so long please answer if you can ASAP!!
no...it cant ever grow back...it is mostly normal 2 bleed a little the very first time but u shouldnt bleed the 2nd time and it shouldnt hurt...it should feel good...-_-
WHAT DOES idk STAND 4
i dont know....
idk y so many pple answered this question....but i am one of them so i cant be talkin...hehe
Hey Advice columnist i was wondering if you coud help me with a problem I have.
Okay I'm a 14 year old gurl and have had my period sence I was 12, But I have always used pads. What my question is, there really as many risks to using tampons than just pads? my mother keeps saying that they'er awful and that they can get stuck. I have done my home work and know that they'er is very slim chance of getting TSS. But what I want to know is do they really get stuck? I don't believe that they do but I'm asking this for a reason to make sure.
I'm jsut so tired when i have my period that im wet. EWWW!!! and summer will come and I can't go to pool parties with my period unless Im wearing a tampon.
no they cant get stuck...and yes there is a very slim risk of getting TSS but if u use the light tampons there less of a risk than if u use the heavy ones...i use tampons and i like them better than pads...hope this helps:]...
Lately I've been getting on my parents nerves. I can tell cause they're always mad at me. They say it's because I have a really bad attitude. Even though I really don't think I do. I usually have a great attitude about things. I've also been really into acting and every time I talk about it they just ignore me so I get mad. Just the other day he told me I did something when I knew I didn't so I calmly told him I didn't and he told me I was lying so I got mad. He told me to get rid of my attitude so I said no because he called me a liar. Then He got up in my face and just started screaming at me. I'm really confused right now and don't know what to do. Could any one give me some advive.
I'm 14
it sounds like u do have a good attitude but when someone doesnt agree with u it changes...i am the exact same way and me and my mom r the same way but just try and talk 2 them normally and no matter how much u want 2 get made..dont...and they should start talking 2 u like u talk 2 them...calmly...and tell them how u feel about them ignoring u and how it makes u feel when they call u names.....hope this helps :]
im 14 and ive never kissed a guy b4. and im nervous. is there anything that i can do?
nope...and its perfectly normal...and there is really no way 2 get ready or anything...just do it and it will come 2 ya...:]
The otherday i was having sexual intercourse on my pierod and we were doin the reverse cowgirl and i bled all over my bf and when i cum sometimes there green blobs..i dont even know anymore but my bf is getting grossed out what should i do?
sence u were on ur period its normal 2 bleed but green blobs are definatly not normal...u may have an infection like a yeast infection or somthing...if it happenes again u should go see the doctor especially if it starts itching so something...
wut is discharge?
dischare is a vaginal liquid that u sometimes see in ur underwear...its white and may have a slight smell to it...if it has a stong odor or a different color than white or has a thick or chuncky consistancy...u could have an infection...other wise its normal
If you have had cyber sex does that mean you have lost your virginity?
haha...no!!:]
im 14 years old and im really skinny. im 4 11 and weigh only 79 lbs. im not happy about my weight. im going to high school and i want to fit into a size 2 or 3. i eat alot but i just dont gain weight. what should i do to gain weight.
eating a lot of fatty foods is not good...eat some but not a lot...eat a lot of complex carbs like breads grains and pasta and rice and stuff..and also lift weights that will help u gain muscle and that makes u bigger in a good way!!:]
I don't wanna clean my room! should I?
if ya mom or dad is makin ya...then yes...if they r not then no ya dont have 2...
What would u do if you found out that your worst fear came true and that u HAD to face it because no matter what it's gonna happen? (Like, u couldn't just avoid it like bees or spiders.)
I can't describe my fear because it's to complicated. My best friend and i have known each other for a very long time. We planned our life together and now that we are growing older our plans are totally ruined. We're going to different schools and she has already kissed a boy and i'm a bit nervous around them. And i'm afriad of being alone. I want to freeze time because talking and playing games with my friend is changing to more mature things for her but not me. Everyone seems to be getting older and the change and time and me are all just clashing. Fears are usual stupid but how can u be brave if you aren't afriad of anything??
When my friend first told me she kissed sum1 the feeling was deeper than depression...fear, and i wasn't completely sure why. Is there sumthing bigger that i'm afriad of??
you need to talk to your friend about your feelings...even if she cant do anything it always helps for someone 2 listen. and plus yawl seem like really goo friends so she should understand and i know it starts feeling weird when u hit that adolesent stage....thing seem 2 go everywhere..but just give it time...everything will be ok...even though yawl r going 2 different schools u will still see her and yawl can talk on the phone. i know it wont be the same trust me i know the exact same thing happened to me but we r still best friends...sure we dont see each other as often but when we do its like where we ended and we still have just as much fun 2gether!!! and about the kissing...its not a big thing...its not like they r in love?!?! but talk 2 ger...talk 2 her about anything and everything!!! things may change but ur friendship wont!! if u need any other advice or this question or any question dont be afriad 2 ask!!:]
My best guy friend of 3 years asked me something really weird last week and I just can't stop forgetting it. We were hanging out w/ his friend, and we somehow started talking about the fact that a guy in my math class was looking down my shirt. Then my guy friend told me to bend over, jokingly. I was like "only if you pay me" sarcastically. Then he was like "I'll give you $6 if you give me a lapdance!!!!" And then his friend offered to give me $10 for one. I refused, of course, cuz that's just gross. I still can't get over that, though. I feel really disrespected. What should I do about it?
if it did make u feel uncomfortable or disrespected then tell them...otherwise it seems as if yawl were just joking around...like u said.it was all sarcastically...:]
im 15... i have noticed that there is cloudy substance on my thong constantly.. it is embrassing and sometimes smells... what is it what can i do am i normal?
*sCaReDdDdD*
its called discharge and its normal but if it becomes discolored (yellowish or brownish) and becomes a stinky odor then it need 2 be checked my a doctor cuz it could be am infection...:]
My legs aren't actually fat , they are just normal,maybe slightly bigger than usual . I used to love wearing skirts , especially mini skirts , until this guy told me that i had "fat legs " . How can i slim my legs down ? I have heard that doing squats and lifting your heels off of the ground help , so do they ? What excercises can help me tone my legs down without them getting more muscular ?
Thanks for your time =)
yes those help and just any weight lefting in ur leg area but make sure u do plenty of cardio exercise 2 like running and stuff!!