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How do I stop getting really bad razor burn right below my knees? I already change my razor blade every few days, have tried different razors, use shaving cream, and don't shave when I have goosebumps. Is there anything else I can do?
I hear that running your razor blade under hot water before you shave gives you a better blade. Try that. You can try hair removers like Nair or something. Also, try to let the hair grow out for a few days maybe a week, then shave. I don't shave alot because its annoying, but when I do my legs get superr smooth. The smoothness is so much nicer and your legs feel way better than shaving everyday. So take a break for a bit =). Hope this helped
well i am 12 turning 13 in july and i have hugh boobs i am a 38 b is this abnormal
It's normal. Theres girls your age with bigger boobs and smaller boobs. It's fine, embrace it =)
i just got my belly piecred and im in cheerleading. for competitions we can't have them in of course and i might need to take it out other times too. when is it okay to switch it with another one and to take it out? if and when i do take it out it won't be for very long
I just got mine done too, a few weeks ago. And im in cheerleading also. It's nce because we don't compete over summer yet. But i'll have to take mine out too. Mines been pierced for maybe 3-4 weeks and I've taken it out and switched it and washed it already. Lately it's been hard to get back in but I've done it. I say for cheerleading take it out right when you go on to compete then put it back in right after. Unless you HAVE to take it out- if yuo don't have to then get a clear ring, or try taping over it. Hope this helped
can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]
My cousin was 13, going on 14. She tells me that she'd been inlove with the guy for over a year and would have done anything for him. They went out before and he broke up with her. She was devistated about him for over a year and couldn't forget him. No matter what she'd always go back to him when he told her they'd be friends with benifits and stuff. They'd hook up then he'd never speak to her untill the next time he wanted action. They did it once and then he had to stop durning it becuase he loved someone else and she was so broken up about it. But then by the time she was almost over him he started talking to her again and she could never say no to him. They did it again. Then the same thing happened. It happened again too. And she tells me she doesn't know if she regrets it no matter how many times they did it. I mean, it was with someone she liked which was good.. but he never liked her back. They don't talk anymore really. Right now she is single and not sure how she feels for him. I think she's okay though.. and it must take a lot of heart power for her to get threw all that.
Sex is fine with me with any age. Really, it pisses me off when people say that kids are too young. It's there discion and if they make a mistake then it's there problem, so don't lecture them about what someone thinks is right or wrong because most teenages know more than most people give them credit for. But my cousin is fine with it, and she wouldn't take it back because who knows what would happen if she never did that. Hope this answered your question =]
does getting your cartilage in your ear hurt to get pierced?
Not at all. Its just afterwards when you have to clean it and turn it.. thats when it can hurt a little. And sleeping hurts a little too. But the piercing is nothing.
Umm... I think I'm obbessed with my b.f. Zac! I go over his house almost everyday but not right now because I have mono. I check his messages on myspace to see if he's been talking to another girl. Plus I call him whenever I get the chance and I can't stand to be away from him for even a day! Is this healthy ????
I think you might have a little problem.
1. if you keep doing this and he finds out you check his messages he'll think you don't trust him and he might get pissed.
2. obsessing over him can be a turn off, so try to cool it down. Or atleast hide it.
3. if he breaks up with you, or vice virsa, you'll be a wreck. If you can't stay away from him for a day how can you manage not being with him at all?
Just try and cool it down. Maybe limit yourself to every other day to start off. You should be able to handle yourself on your own.. don't become dependant off other people because you can't always rely on them. And stop going on his myspace haha =). Maybe just relizing that you have a problem and all the bad consequences that can happen will snap you out of these bad habits. Hope this helped!
I run about 2 miles everyday and after I run I'm pretty hungry but I don't want to put all the calories I lost right back in. What should I eat after running?
My sister told me that after you run or work out that your body still burns calories. So go ahead and snack after you eat! Try fruits or veggies. If its later in the day.. like before you sleep.. try to stay away from carbs and sugars. You don't want to sleep with a bunch of carbs in your stomach haha. Try a tuna, chess stick, or some low fat milk. I also hear that a slice of turky is okay before bed too. Hope this helped. Hey heres a site you might be intrested in if your looking for weight loss or health stuff.
http://health.yahoo.com/topic/weightloss/overview/article/prevention/17888;_ylt=AmLOwDPfUIHXfgbhOkj6fBTOtMUF
Yahoo has alottttt of good articles. Read up on them and I'm sure you can find one about bed time snacks. Hope this helped!
I need help. I've been watching my weight for an extremely long time. I do ok, I eat about 1200-1500 calories a day & run 4 times a week for about 20 minutes. I eat a lot of fruit, yogurt, cereal, veggies, etc. I was really depressed today. I'm not sure why. I went downstairs & I just started eating. I had 100 calorie pack chocolate chip muffins. I have no idea why I ate them. That's usually not the way I behave. I don't eat those sort of things, but they were in my house because they're 100 calorie packs. After I finish eating them & drinking milk, I just lose it. I start crying & basically have a panic attack. I work so hard & randomly I just eat something I know I normally wouldn't eat, but my mind just does it's own thing & I end up eating something I don't want to. I'm going to be upset for the rest of the day & I'm not sure if I want to eat dinner. How can I get over this?
I know what you mean. I watch what I eat so much now. I used to eat horribly and i hated how I looked, so then I started running, then I ate healthier. Ive been doing this since maybe Feburary. I lost almost 10 pounds too. Sometimes even now I go insane and eat something I want to but shouldn't. Like espically since theres alot of graudation parties this summer.. I always loose it and eat like 2 sandwiches and cake. I hate myself so bad for it. And when im eating I always think, "whatever I won't gain weight and I just have been doing good lately I should be rewarded". And then the next day I gain a lb and think, "okay omg I will never do that again, Ive got to stick to eating good". And then it happenes again and yeahhh.. But I haven't in a while. A lot of the time I have lunch then want some more stuff and I just keep looking threw my kitchen. And eventually I'll go on the computer for a while and then 10 minutes later I'll be like .. "wow I totally forgot about eating more". But some times I am like, "okay I just NEED a little icecreme" and when I have some I go out and be active, trying to burn it off. So basically, if your infront of temptation.. litteraly get your mind off of it by walking away. Get as far as you need to before you for get about it. If you dooo happen to eat a little treat (which is okay if its a serving size and you can controll how much you eat) and feel guilty about it then work it off. I hope this helped! Heres a article I think you'd like.. (its small and easy to read so check it out)
http://health.yahoo.com/topic/weightloss/overview/article/prevention/17888;_ylt=AmLOwDPfUIHXfgbhOkj6fBTOtMUF
i wanna lose my belly
but how?
Get healthy. Try cuting out pop, sweets, and fast (shitty) foods. Do crunches and throw downs. I do over 100 crunches a day, sets of 25. You can do sets of 10 if you want.
http://www.self.com/
You can check out workout videos here. Trust me, even just doing alot of crunches, cutting out bad foods, and eating healtier can help. I used to weigh 124 and now I weigh around 112. =)
me and my boyfriend just broke up i want some sad love songs to put on myspace and just to listen to.
This isn't about love, but this song might make you sad. Soco Armaretto Lime- Brand New. The beat and his voice and everything.. it just makes me cry. The Boy Who Blocked His Own Shot- Brand New (also sad). Sorry, hope everything works out.
who are some of your favorite comlumists?
..like who on this website do you really look up to? who gives amazingg advice?
you can make a list or just write one name.
thanks, love youuu all.
I really like going to MikeCFT for health or fitness stuff. I think hes amazing with that topic.
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=MikeCFT
I go to Teza too I think shes super experianced and gives really honest good advice.
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=x0
Those are my two favorites. But in reality, everyone on this site is good. Everyones got different opinions and each one is right.
Okay, I've been tanning - like, outside. I now have these horrendous tan lines, because I managed to get a LOT of color, with the same suit on, so now I have like a permanent bikini tan...
I can't go to the tanning salon 'cause I can't afford it. All I can do is lay outside and bake (lol). How can I get rid of these lines?
I can't exactly lay down and bare all. Is there something I can wear that won't get me arrested for indecent exposure that tans through?
If I were you I'd still lay out in a suit but just undo the straps or something. If your laying on your back then maybe scrunch up your top so you can get more color around your boobs or undo the strap so you can it around your upperchest. When on your stomach undo the strap (if it straps, if not just take it off) so you don't get the lines on your back. If youre on your stomach its not like someone can see your boobs right? If so then just take a towel and put it next to your sides so you don't show any side-boob haha. You can also try giving yourself a wedgie sorta so your butt can tan. Hope this helped
All of my boyfriend's friends tell me I'm ugly and he can do so much better than me. What are some ways I can improve the way I look? I just don't think I look pretty.
here are a couple of pictures of me (my hair isn't blonde and brown anymore it's dark brown/auburn)
http://s52.photobucket.com/albums/g14/kiirstinthegreat/?action=view¤t=DSC00108.jpg
http://s52.photobucket.com/albums/g14/kiirstinthegreat/?action=view¤t=l_77a2cb1b3f4578957a051490d299f973.jpg
Those are the only pictures I have that you can really see my face
They are asses, I think your pretty! You shouldn't listen to them, guys always do that to girls. You can maybe try going natural, like putting on light makeup, having thicker trimed eye brows, natural sorta. You can try alot of things, next time you see a girl whos really pretty just see how she does her makeup or whatever and maybe try that too. But your not ugly so don't worry about it =]
what are some fun things to do online.
dont say myspace or facebook please.
Advicenators! Your at a fun place. This is probably the first site I come to everyday. Start a column, read questions, ask questions. Whats more fun than opening peoples problems ;). Hahah. I like going to yahoo.com and looking at articles they have.
what is mastrubating?
When you touch crotch or privates to pleasure yourself. Touching yourself to feel good.
sorry if this is completely stupid but i'm just wondering..
i heard that if you straiten your hair, over time it will get thinner and thinner, is this true? thanks so much :]
I think that is partly true. I mean, when you straighten your hair so much it gets fried and dead. Sometimes when your washing your hair and you have alot of dead or damaged strands they fall out. So i guess over time your hair can thin out- if you straightened it all the time it would probably look kind of fried.
im tryibf to lose weight please tell me what vegetables are the best to eat
The brighter the colors the better. Like sweet potatoes are bright orange and they are really good for you.
okay im 12/f and i really want to have sex with somebody liek i often hump pillows and think its the guy and i just make noises when i do it ?ummm help me please i have problems but i cnat control myself. and i sometimes pretend im a guy and masterbate with myself help me
I can't really help you. I guess your just horny. Maybe because puberty or your just naturally like this. It's not really bad but it can be if it's all you think about or do.
is there a way you can answer my question i need help really bad. im the 12/f in the bets firned thing like my best bud is going out wuth the guy i like you know.
There ya go.
okay hi im 12/f and i really dont know whta to do. like i love this kid so much and my best friend is dating him. and she just likes him for his looks and i like seriously love him. and like he flirts with me and doesnt really talk to my friend as much. and i dont know what to do. because my other friend is obsessed with him and my friend that is dating him is like you touch him ill kill you and shes serious to. so what should i do to get him. cuz like should i stop flirting with him or what? well im also confused on like if he likes me or my friend well thanks=]
Try hanging out with him more, in groups of people so your friend isn't mad that your with him, and just talk to him more. If he talks to you more than your friend then he might like you more than her. You really don't want to hurt your friend though but I bet she would do the same thing if she was in your position. Instead of you trying to get him, try and get him to like you so that he leaves her and she can't really blame it on you. Hope this helped