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Do I have problems?
Umm... I think I'm obbessed with my b.f. Zac! I go over his house almost everyday but not right now because I have mono. I check his messages on myspace to see if he's been talking to another girl. Plus I call him whenever I get the chance and I can't stand to be away from him for even a day! Is this healthy ????
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It's certainly not unhealthy. You're just infatuated with him & you like him a lot. That's okay, you're a girl & he's a boy, you're dating, you're supposed to like each other ;]
On the other hand, if you start noticing him feeling distant or seemingly annoyed by your attachment, tone it down a bit. Or just ask him if you're being too clingy & he should be honest about it. But if he still wants you to keep doing it, just do it. There's nothing wrong with being with your boyfriend a lot. But make sure you're still spending time with other people that may feel neglected by you.
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Yes and no. No because (and no offence i know you dont want to hear it) by going to Zac's house everyday i bet your missing out on a lot of girl-time and friendship experiences. I had mono to.. kinda sucked--- but thats irrelevant. Maybe you and zac could both have like one or two days a week that he could go out with the guys and you could go out with the girls. Also give him space and let him be friends with girls, if he's not flirting or spending the night or getting to close to, there isn't a problem. Guys will appriciate that you trust them enough to do the right thing. And if you still feel akward about your guy spending time wiht other girls lay down some ground rules, i have ground rules with mine and its wrorking amazingly for us. Oh ps. I know my girls hate it when i ramble on about mine, always ask stuff about them, its okay to vent or talk a little about the guy but you look so much more cool and confident if you keep it to a minimal amount.
Good luck, and take care. Stacie
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I think you might have a little problem.
1. if you keep doing this and he finds out you check his messages he'll think you don't trust him and he might get pissed.
2. obsessing over him can be a turn off, so try to cool it down. Or atleast hide it.
3. if he breaks up with you, or vice virsa, you'll be a wreck. If you can't stay away from him for a day how can you manage not being with him at all?
Just try and cool it down. Maybe limit yourself to every other day to start off. You should be able to handle yourself on your own.. don't become dependant off other people because you can't always rely on them. And stop going on his myspace haha =). Maybe just relizing that you have a problem and all the bad consequences that can happen will snap you out of these bad habits. Hope this helped!
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it might be. i know my friend has a bf like that and we always call him a stalker, just let up a little bit
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No, it's not exactly healthy. You should just calm down. Do something to keep your mind off him. If nothing works go over to his house and just get close to him. If you keep obbsessing over him, your social life will brake down. I mean he's probably a really great guy, but he's not your life. Try calming down and calling a friend. Spill to your friend about him.
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