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the name is lindsay, but call me lu. i'm crazy, calm, happy, optimistic and spoiled. i've got my best friends. yes i've made mistakes but who hasn't. i've gained some of the most amazing people but also lost a few great ones. the past is the past, i'm over it. the future scares me but i'm ready. i am very independent, i need my space. my family is definately one of my number one priorities, they never let me down and always work hard to make me happy. i look up to my brother shane, he is one of my best friends. i try my hardest not to judge others. i refuse to settle for less. i finally figured out who i really am and ive never ever been happier. i want to become successful, and someday i know i will. i'm the blonde one, thats me :) probably the biggest sweetheart, and one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet. just don't piss me off. i make the best out of every situation. i don't trust easily but i'm a strong ass girl. smiling is something i'm good at. i never give up. i keep my chin up. i stand up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. i don't get mad, i get even. i believe in myself, and in who i am. i live life to the fullest which also means taking risks and chances. i probably don't care what you think, because right now i've got everyone i need. being in love is one of the greatest things i've ever experienced. everything is meant to happen for a reason. live life with no regrets and have fun. change is something thats necessary, even though it's not always good. get to know me, i promise you won't regret it. i live my life for myself and not others. i love the life i was given, and i'll never stop being me.



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i like this guy.he liked my friend before
i dont know weather he still likes or not.but now i like him.how am i suppose to hint him i like him without telling him n lookin desperate.i really really like this guy so much
but i dont want to make fool of myself. and at the same time how am i suppose to know weather he likes me too.

definately hint to him that you like him! flirt with him! but dont over-do it!! if your confident enough then i would ask him his feelings towards you..so then you know. you wont make a fool of yourself sweetie!! hope everything thing works out! if you need anything eles let me know
♥ Kristen

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Okay, I like this guy, and he plays on my brother's hockey team. I think he's TOTALLY hott but he's a year younger than me. He's 12 and I'm 13. But I really like him and stuff.. We've stayed at hotels together for tourneys and stuff... and we've done crap. But idk if he feels the same way about me as I do about him. Please help!

lol this happened to meee one time..
but i think youu should ask him yourself! or also you could have one of your friends ask him..and like obviously he likes you if youve done stuff together you kno! keep flirting and talking to him!! if you need anything else let me kno
♥ Kristen

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What happens if you take too many sleeping pills?

by overdosing on sleeping pills..your gonna kill yourself..so please dont!!
♥ Kristen

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can people instant message eachother if lets say, one has aim and the other has yahoo instant messager

no you canttt..
♥ Kristen

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If some guy says you're both dating, but not officially going out [boyfriend/girlfriend], then does that mean you're single or taken?

i would say that you guys are single..because your officially not going outt! it means that you two can go out on dates and stuff..but your still allowed to see other people!
♥ Kristen

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how do you make the heart things not like this

& hearts ;

but there are no spaces so put it all together!
♥ Kristen

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13/f
is this werid?
i take off my clothes and look at myself in the mirror and want to do stuff but i dont kno what? it feels good being naked what should i do. i like my boobs and others ppl's boobs. i want to have sex or something what is hapening

one word ..HORMONES lol its perfectly normal hun! alot of girls go through this!
♥ Kristen

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I was wondering

if you want to have a baby, like when ur old like 25 and stuff, do you not wear a condom?

i was always wondering

and does sex hurt for the first time??

yes you should not wear a condom if you want to become pregnant..because a condom is for protection :) and sex..yeah it usually will hurt the first time.
♥ Kristen

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Is it weird that I love my daddy more than my mom?

No smartass comments!

nooooo not at all! maybe your just a daddy's girl ♥ and there is nothing wrong with that!
♥ Kristen

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ok so finaly my bf made a move on me liek alout of them he didnt kiss me bnut were getting there the thing is when ever i think about it my stomach get realy uncomfortable i want to kiss hims so so so bad i mean i know i am ready for it i have waited so long and he is so awsome and he treats me great i am comfortable around him but last night i was at my aunts house there was alout of kids (i haver a big family) so he put his arm around em adn scooted close to me except made it realy obvious and all of a sudden my stomac startes freaking out i feel like i am so messed up i dont knwo how to get rid of this feeling or what is means i mean its not jim but i dont know maybe i was around my family and i didnt want him to be so obvious but i likes it so much mayeb i need freinds i just need help so how do i get ride of this feeling adn what does it mean thatnxs i rate high

this is adorable!! the feeling that your getting is butterflies in your tummy :) its perfectly normal ..it means that you just like this guy alot but you get kinda nervous like you said. its nothing to worry about or anything..and maybe you were embarassed that he was being so obvious around your family..you'll get comfortable with him tho sweetie!! if you need anything else drop one in the inbox
♥ Kristen

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hey. theres this guy i cant get out of my head i know he likes me but he likes other girls i think more. we dont go to the same school. i really want to meet someone new so i can stop thinking about the other guy. is there any like camps or anything? im open for any ideas!
i live in oregon.
14 female.

well you could just go out to like the mall or movies or something..any activities that are around you! they're are alot of hott guys there haha. ummm well also you could talk to the guy and be like yeah we need to hang out!! just keep talkin to him if you want him to keep liking you!
♥ Kristen

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i think i might have a phobia of some sort...
before i have to give a speech or even read out loud i freak out. i have something like a panic attack. i cant breathe right, my mouth is dry, my voice shakes, i start trembling etc...
are there any medications i can take for this?

aw sweetie its just stage fright! alot of people get likes this including mee..just remember to take deep breaths and drink something before..like water?! you'll be fine..dont worry about it!!
♥ Kristen

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okay i gots a boyfriend I got 4 days ago. We kissed on new years eve and that was my first kiss ever but i felt nothing. No spark or anything. I find myself wishing hed break up with me sometimes. I dont know why though its like I stopped liking him. There is just no chemistry. Please tell me what I should do
Ill rate high
thanks

personally i think you should break up with him..if there was no chemistry and sometimes you want him to break up with you..then you two arent right for each other! i would not keep leading him on..just because i would feel bad haha and i wouldnt want things to get any worse you know? have a talk with him and tell him that you two would be better off as friends he'll understand sweetie! tell me how things go :) if you need anything else let me kno!
♥ Kristen

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Hi...okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year on and off..and i really do love him..but he's always the one that breaks up with me..and we've huged,kissed,and madeout...and he says that he loves me...and like he broke up with me again the other day..and he said i still like you I just want to wait until im ungrounded..(he cant be on the phone or anything..for a while)..but he said i still like you and i still want you to lke me..but i want to wait...and he said we can still make out at the movies and stuff if we go and stuff like that..is he using me?..i LOVE him so much..but im not sure what to do..HELP ME?!?!

naww i dont think he is using you at alL! i think he really likes you but i dont think he is using you..like he said i think he just wants to wait until he is ungrounded that way he can spend time with you! but if your doubting him then i think maybe you should have a talk with him about it! tell him how you are feeling ..this will help get things out in the open! i wouldnt let him go hun! wait to see how things work out when he is ungrounded! hope everything works out..if you need anything else just let me know!
♥ Kristen

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lately i've just been hanging out, not really going out of the house or anything. it's kind of like my "me" time, you know, so I can unwind and have some quiet time.
lately though, my parents become so obsessed and think that i have no social life, don't want to do anything with my friends anymore, and am depressed. i try to explain to them that it's just nice to spend some time ALONE sometimes but they just don't get it! how can i convince them that all i want is some time to myself, and for them to get out of my face about it?

im like that sometimes! and my brother is always like gosh your such a geek you have no life! and im like yeah get over it and i DO have a life and i DO have friends i just dont feel like doing anything today. same with my parents their like soo what are you going to do today? and im like nothing..and they are like why dont you call up so and so and i just tell them..because i dont feel like doing anything today. just talk with your parents..tell them you need time to yourself sometimes and that you do have friends, but you just need a break right now! that will straighten things out. if you need anything else let me know!
♥ Kristen

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okay well me and my boyfriend were making out and i was feeling around down there. i started rubbing his nuts and then gently squezzed on one of them. not hard because i didnt want to hurt him but hes like "oww, be careful down there." so i stopped. and then like a week he was complaining that his balls hurt, even before i touched him. is there something wrong with him? i rate 5's

well there is nothing wrong with him but since he said "oww, careful down there" you might of squeezed a little too hard lol. guys are very sensitive down there..so be careful hun!
♥ Kristen

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Can you have sex if you're 3 months pregnent?

yes you can!
♥ Kristen

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How do I made a messy bun so it stays in place?
It always slip out after a cuouple of minutes..or directly if I run =/
Sometimes it ends up being a ponytail ;P
What am I doing wrong!?

OMG that always does it to me! i hate it! but what i do..and now it usually stays is put it in the usual messy bun then put like another one over that and it should stay in place..if there are still some hairs out..put bobbypins in! those always work. well hope i helped hun. if you need anything else let me know!
♥ Kristen

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well my bfs friends who i thought disliked me with a passion recently told me he had liked me but he was a fraid of what his friend would say so he never said anything to me about it well i like him to but i love my bf im really confused and dont want to make the wrong decision well his friend kevin (the one that lieks me) doewsnt ever want to see me and mike ( my bf) together and it drives me crazy b/c i really want to see him well mike is already thinking that i like kevin but i denied it and now im lying to mike and that scares me plz help ~~~guy tug a war~~~~

hmm..tough.
well first i would just talk to your boyfriend Mike, you have to be able to tell him everything i mean he is your boyfriend right? the main key in a relationship is trust!! i would first see how things turn out with Mike and stay with him for a bit and see how things go =) if things are going great and there are no problems i would stay with him because he was the one you were going out in the first place right? but then Kevin..hmm i think its kinda wrong of Kevin to be like i dont want to see you and your boyfriend together? but thats just me! do you have feelings for one more than the other? follow your heart sweetie..it will bring you to the right place..trust me! sorry if i couldnt help much..but hopefully this helped!
♥ Kristen

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Okay yesterday I asked for help on this kid..who I decided to (on here..) call him A.
I asked him who he would ask out, if he had to pick and he said a girl who we will call E. She was going out with this kid who we will call P. So I knew A had no chance with E becuase E was with P. So..I just now found out E and P broke up. Now I'm scared that A is going to ask out E and it will make me miserable ..who KNOWS how long they will last!! Me and A reallyyy have something going on, he told me he loved me and that I was the second person he would ask out out of anyone. I love him back of course!!
I'm really good friends with ALL of them and don't want to ruin any friendships.
My question is :: Should I just pretend like nothing is wrong, or should I make A feel bad for me lol and play hard-to-get with him. I really don't want A and E to go out!!
Please help I rate 5's!!

aww i hate these situations..they're tough! what i would do is..well sometimes guys like when girls play hard to get..although A might get like too fed up with it and be like screw it..im just gonna go for E since your taking too long. do you get what im saying? i would just flirt with A like crazy..SMILE! umm try and hanging out with him alot and then he will see how much fun you are to be around! you said A already has feelings for you already, so thats good but just like dress cute everytime your gonna see him..OUTDUE E! hahaha sounds bad..but ya gotta do what ya gotta do sometimes. i know that its hard that all of you are friends but im sure that they will all understand, if they are true friends. well hope i helped sweetie! if you need any more help just leave one in the inbox!
♥ Kristen

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