Gossip_Girl answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 7:15 pm: i am have never had it and i won't for a long time but in human growth and development our teacher said that it doesn't hurt at all. You just don't wear the condom if you want a baby but you won't get a baby for sure. I don't know much about this stuff and i only know b/c of human growth and development. So don't be surprised if you hear different answers but i think i am right. Please rate me high i am trying my hardest to help. Thanx. How old are you?????????????????????????????? [ Gossip_Girl's advice column | Ask Gossip_Girl A Question ]
sweetchic06 answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 6:04 am: You should always use condoms or some sort of birth control until you know that you are completly ready to have a baby and then follow all the signs to know when its right.
However dont go out and have random sex there is so many diseases out there its unreal.
Sex for the first time is different for each female.
You will need to try to be relaxed, if your not it will only hurt more for you, if your not relaxed then more than likely you wont be wet so sugest a lube to your sex partner to make things easier.
It will vary if the guy is small it wont hurt as bad and if your wall is not that think then it wont hurt you just dont be suprised if it does hurt or if you might bleed both are normal parts of having sex for the first time. [ sweetchic06's advice column | Ask sweetchic06 A Question ]
syireen answered Monday January 2 2006, 8:39 pm: hun if your trying to have a baby you dont wear a condon and no birth control either and to answer your other question sex hurts for some and not for others it depends on how thick a girls hymen is (a layer of tissue lining the inside of the vagina) also how big the guys penis is anyway hop e this helped
Linds answered Monday January 2 2006, 5:30 pm: yeah it hurts the first time.. but it depends if the guys dick is big cause if hes like little.. then it doesnt haha.. you should wait till your married.. cause now theres so many desieses (i cnt spell ) and its not worth it.. or just do it with a long time boyfriend..
and also.. wen you love the person it doesnst really hurt as much..
secretcrushx3 answered Monday January 2 2006, 2:57 pm: yea if you want to have a baby don't wear a condom or use any type of birth control pills and yes sex does hurt for the first time it hurts some more then others but no matter what if it's your first time it will hurt [ secretcrushx3's advice column | Ask secretcrushx3 A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Monday January 2 2006, 2:41 pm: If you do want a child don`t wear a condom or use any sort of birth control.. And depends on how you handle pain.. But yea sex isn`t going to be real comfortable the first time.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
sensual20008 answered Monday January 2 2006, 1:11 am: 1.no you do not have to wear a condom if you wont a baby but you should because the person that you are with may have some type of STD/HIV so you wont to where one they have condoms for men and women and also gays. 2.the first time that you do have sex it will hurt because it is something hard and thick going into you little hole but then when the person gets it in then it starts to feel great any more question ask sensual20008 [ sensual20008's advice column | Ask sensual20008 A Question ]
SWEETXLOVE answered Monday January 2 2006, 12:18 am: yes you should not wear a condom if you want to become pregnant..because a condom is for protection :) and sex..yeah it usually will hurt the first time.
♥ Kristen [ SWEETXLOVE's advice column | Ask SWEETXLOVE A Question ]
AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu answered Sunday January 1 2006, 11:26 pm: ♥ yes, if you want to get pregnant, than you don't wear a condom, that is what it is there for. [protection so you don't get pregnant, and so you don't get and STD.]
♥ and it depends on your first time, on how big the boys penis is, how tight your vagina is, how wet you are [that means how much discharge you are letting out - this happens to girls when the get horny], and other things like that.
Behnnie answered Sunday January 1 2006, 11:23 pm: Not wearing a condom is a good place to start, but that won't necessarily insure pregnancy. It helps to also pay attention to your menstrual cycle to determine when you're ovulating (when the egg has been released from your ovaries) because that's when you are the most likely to become pregnant. Some women know when they're ovulating because it can sometimes cause cramps.
I always heard that sex hurt the first time, too. But the more women I've talked with that have had sex, the more I'm beginning to doubt that that is always the case! Most women I've spoken with said they experienced little to no pain the first time they had sex.
I think a few reasons why we hear so often that it hurts is because that's what has been passed down by word of mouth from one generation to the next, and there have been a few changes in women's lives over the past few decades that might have made part of the difference, ex. the use of tampons.
Also, having sex with someone you are very comfortable with is likely to make you feel a lot more relaxed and at ease so your muscles may not be as tense which will- hopefully- keep things from being too painful. [ Behnnie's advice column | Ask Behnnie A Question ]
broooke answered Sunday January 1 2006, 11:22 pm: Yes, sex hurts the first time. And don't wear a condom if you want to have a baby, they're used to prevent pregnancy and diseases. Happy New Years, girlll!
yesiliketobeme answered Sunday January 1 2006, 10:58 pm: a condom is used to prevent pregnancy and std's, so if you are trying to have a baby then dont wair a condom.
and yes sex usually does hurt for the first time but dont worry its not that painful and it doesnt last long
hope i could help [ yesiliketobeme's advice column | Ask yesiliketobeme A Question ]
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