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I was wondering
if you want to have a baby, like when ur old like 25 and stuff, do you not wear a condom?
i was always wondering
and does sex hurt for the first time??
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You should always use condoms or some sort of birth control until you know that you are completly ready to have a baby and then follow all the signs to know when its right.
However dont go out and have random sex there is so many diseases out there its unreal.
Sex for the first time is different for each female.
You will need to try to be relaxed, if your not it will only hurt more for you, if your not relaxed then more than likely you wont be wet so sugest a lube to your sex partner to make things easier.
It will vary if the guy is small it wont hurt as bad and if your wall is not that think then it wont hurt you just dont be suprised if it does hurt or if you might bleed both are normal parts of having sex for the first time.
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Ok here we go. Ok im 16 and ive made a commitment to myself that i would never have sex until i am married. Im not saying now but in the future..can i still do stuff that wouldnt be considered having sex. and is that all guys want...i mean i had a bf for 2 and 1/2 weeks (not long) and he told his friends that he was going to have sex soon. I dont know y he thought that b/c i was uncomfortable even kissing him..(he was 2 yrs older) and im just worried that in the future ill find this amazing guy and all he'll want is sex and i wont give it to him (unless we get married) is that so hard for guys to handle...will he end up cheating on me and have sex w/ someone who will give it to him? so is there pleasureable stuff that we can still do ...thats not sex? (link)
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Alright being several years older than you and expeirencing alot seeing things the way I have makes your question very logical. I made a promise at age 12 not to have sex till I was 18, I hung out iwth sexually active people who had sex and everything. I had a steady boyfriend and he respected my wishes, i kept that promise that I made. Anyways... find someone that you can talk to, it is always good to be friends first and lovers second, if you cant talk with him and let him know that you do have morals then you dont need him. Usually religous guys have more indepth morals, some other guys have them as well dont feel shy about talkin to them about sex, ask questions as if have they ever done anything with a girl and if so what and if not then do they intend on saving it for the right person.........Dont feel bad about not having sex with a guy.... there are many out there that only want sex but you will find that special one that is willing to stand by your side and wait with you.
Anything less would not be worth your time
As far as other things that arent sex, depends on wheither you mean intamite or just bonding..As far as intamite there are many things such as foreplay and passion. You can do everything but entercourse however one step always leads to another.
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I'm friends with a married couple. We've been friends for about 3 years. I am single but a christian who is saving herself for marriage. Well recently I had ran into the husband of this married couple and he told me that he struggles with pornography. I was pretty shocked and thought that it should be something he should be telling his wife before me. He also told me what bad taste his wife had and that he wished he were single.
Other people who are friends with him have told me that he is always yelling at his wife and saying she's "a stupid woman" behind her back. I have another female friend who's told me that he's come on to other woman and even asked someone to bed. She refused because she knew he was married. I've also heard he's really wild with some of his friends and frequents the porn shops, gets stoned AND drunk then roars around on his motorbike.
I'm pretty disgusted with him, and really don't want to be his friend anymore. But the problem is what is his wife going to think? What should I tell her when she asks why I don't want to do things with them anymore? When I first met him he said he was a born again christian and that he hated porn and drugs. What a lyer.
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Its very understanding that you dont want to be friends with him anymore, however as a loyal friend to his wife you should at least let her know what is going on. The truth will hurt her but in the long run it would hurt worse is she knew that all this time you knew and did not tell her. Think of the easiest way to tell her and then take things from there.
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