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The name is Leah. I live in Cincinnati, OH. I really love to give advice! I have been here since November of 2004. But prior to joining here, I was always been seeked for advice. Still to this day, my primary concern is always helping someone out in need.

I am likely not the best columnist here, but I can quarantee I am very dedicated and concerned when I answer a question. If I answer a question you're not satisfied with, I will ask why, so I can try my best to change my answer. I only give people information that I know; not information that I might know. And if I notice a columnist giving you a wrong answer, you'll know I'll be correcting their response!!

I do allow everyone and anyone to ask a question. I may have listed favorite categories, but I really have no preference. I do love making new friends!! It's no problem to contact me by e-mail or IM. I do have a Myspace, and I will gladly give it out if asked! If you ever need advice, if you feel like ending it all, if you feel like no one cares, I am here!! Talk to me.. I will listen and I will help you!!

♥Leah

advice

I am 15 years old and my ex boyfriend is 16. I just had a baby he was born January 2nd. Before the baby was born my ex and i decided the baby would not go to his dads house (not is biological dad) because his father does crack in the house. he called me a whore and a bitch and other names. he said awful things about the baby before he was born and after.
He also says rude things about my family. Who has never said anything wrong about their family. Anyways the father of my son wants to take the baby away for a weekend but he does not hear him at night when he cries. he never feeds him correctly (gets him to finish the bottle) my question is i dont know what to do

Never leave your baby to him, especially unattended. Since he might be new to the whole father thing, try teaching him how to take proper care of the baby.

And he really should take baby/child care classes. This is seriously important and I think he should join one. He needs to be prepared to help you take care of your son, so get him prepared.

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you konw that song ghetto super star, that is what you are. well who sings that?? i know most of you will be like GOOGLE THE LYRICS. and trust me, i have but nothing has came up.

That came familiar with me, and I started to think of who it could be and one person came up.. Mya.

And it doesn't take googling the lyrics because that takes too much time, so hopefully I got you the correct answer.

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Okay, so my myspace layout was basically default with a background, and I had a code in there to make it skinny. I accidentally replaced the layout and saved it, and it took the skinny code away. I went and put the original layout back, then I got a skinny code. The code didn't work, my profile is big. The skinny code just made the font smaller. Then, I went and tried a different skinny code. Then I tried them both with a different layout. What is wrong? Why won't my profile go skinny anymore?

Some times when you switch your settings around, whether accidentally or intentionally, some times the code changes a little bit after activating itself on a profile. There's one explanation.

A solution would be to go back to the website you got the code from (or whatever source), and re-insert it in there.

If you already tried that, or just now did and it did the same thing, then it's myspaces's or the code's fault. Are there any ActiveX controls in the code? Any Java or Javascript in the code? Or any viruses?

Plus check for any typos. It happens a whole lot. More than you think! If you are unsure about the ActiveX controls or Java, go to the MISC section of the code (usually at the bottom), and delete the parts. This can mess up the layout.

Also, Does the code start AND end with < STYLE > and < / STYLE >. This is one of the ways the profile can successfully be appeared correctly.

I am a major web-design nerd so if I confused you at all, just leave me feedback, and I will edit my response a bit.

But take the first step of getting the code again, and checking if there could be anything wrong with. If you are unable to get the code, there could be several other things wrong.

If [you understood this] and tried all of the above suggestions, contact Myspace and see if it has anything to do with them, or if this is a habit of Myspace to mess up profiles without a reason or cause. If so, you may have to get a new layout.

So let me know what happens! =]

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My breasts are kinda cone shaped, they're not round. Is this normal? It seems as if so many girls' breat are round, not cone shaped. I'm very self concience about this and won't even let my boyfriend see me naked. We've been together for 8 months now, and he gets pritty upset, 'cause he thinks I don't trust him. But please, tell me..Is it normal? I feel so weird and disgusting when I look at them. And plus, one is WAY smaller then the other, and that just adds to the self concience-ness. It's not like it's a small differce, it's a HUGE differnce between sizes. It's very noticable, but I cannot have surgery being as I've only just turned 17. So again, please! Just tell me if this is normal or not. I want COMPLETE honesty. Thank you so much. God bless.

This is completely normal! Don't worry about it. Some girls have cone-shaped breasts; some round; and some saggy-looking.

It varies with everyone, and we weren't made the same as anyone else. It's like our breasts first becoming uneven once they start growing out, then later on (once you hit 20), your breasts will even out. They will form round, evened, and fully grown.

But if it really does bother you, there are bras out there that can make them rounder. Usually padded and full-figured bras do this. And your boyfriend will most likely love them! Be confident about yourself, I'm sure you're a very pretty person!

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does anyone know if there's like a reason jt got killed off degrassi. like in real life. like was ryan a bad actor or something? did it have anything to do with ryan?

I am a total Degrassi addict, as well. And no, there really wasn't a specific reason for him leaving. It was just part of the script, and he had to do it. As far as I am concerned, it had nothing to do with his acting quality or anything.

On the-n, they some times play a little "behind-the-scenes" and they had one about Ryan Hooley leaving Degrassi, in case you never saw that one. Pretty sad. It's so horrible he left because he was a wonderful actor!

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If I ever come across a moving .GIF image on the internet, I might try to right click to save it. When I click "Save Picture As", it only offers to save as a .BMP, which terminates the moving animation. Does anyone know how to fix that?

Pretty much what the person below me said. When you click on it to save it, change the extension .BMP to .GIF. This keeps the animation.

I apoligize for not reading your question correctly. But that's what I thought you meant, so I misunderstood. =[

I'm thinking of suggestions so I will probably come up with an alternative answer soon. Thanks for your feedback.

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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.

Hey, thank you so much for choosing me to answer your question, and supply you advice!

Some wonferful ideas that I have tried myself was to design your own picture using dye paper and album stickers. You put the dye paper first on the table or flat surface, and get some photo album stickers (they are like small pictures you can paste under the photo sheets in a photo album), and design patterns on the dye paper. Then, frame it with a wooden frame, yet paint the frame to any color. But for the best, try matching it with the design. You can come up with themes on this, too, such as walking on the beach (using sandpaper and stickers of footprints or feet), candlelight dinner (using black paper, and stickers of candlesticks), a garden (using different kinds of paper, shredding it into pieces, and pasting it on another piece of paper, then using flower or tree stickers). I know it sounds a little confusing, but once you go at it step-by-step, you'll get the idea and get through it easily. So frame this 'masterpiece' of yours, and you can save it or sell it. (approximate cost - $8.00)

Make a pillow! Go to your local craftstore, and pick up some colorful cloth. It can be velvet, polyester, cotton, or nylon. But avoid wool. Solid colors may be around 3 dollars a square foot, and special decorated ones can run a few dollars more. Next, find embroidery floss (if you HAVE to use thread, combine it with 3 pieces ot thread together to give it the same strength). Then get polyester stuffing. They're cheap. They go just a few dollars a bag. Turn the cloths upside down, and make a line using a ruler on the edges. Use any kind of shape or form (you can make it circular, rectangular, or triangular around the edges). Then stich up the edges following the line, and leave a small hole to put the stuffing in. Afterwards, put the stuffing in and stich up the hole. Then you are done! You can also decorate the cloth before stiching it up, like writing your name, whether in pen or using embroidery floss. There are stencils you can use to draw out design and stich it. (approximate cost - $10.00)

Go to a local pottery shop and make your own ceramic pot! It's easy and fun. You can make your own flower pots, vases, cups, bowls, and other common household objects. (approximate cost - $6.00-$15.00 - depending on size of pottery)

Also, Valentine's is coming up, so click here http://www.craftown.com/val.htm and design Valentine's decorations. They look really cute to make =].

Paint a small wooden statue (of a flower, house, pet, etc) you can find these at any craft store, too. I love doing these!

Also, are you in High School? Because a lot of high schools have fun architecture, photography,sculpting, and art classes that can get you creative and imaginative. If not, there are soo many clubs and organizations out there that offer art-related classes and just for-fun activities.

I hope I helped! I am not very huge on designing ideas with art-related stuff but I have tried a lot of methods I gave out, and It really entertained me, especially making pillows and blankets. That's always fun! If you weren't satisfied with my answer, I'll be happy to edit it! Just leave your comments and suggestions on the feedback and I will get to it soon.

Have fun! =]

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i have this kitten, she's about 6 or 7months old, i've had her since she was born because she is the kitten of one of my other cats. anyway she's always had good health but recently she's been throwing up all her food. this happened two days ago and again tonight. she also has diarhea, gross i know. i recently switched food but we always switch the food so i dont know if thats the problem. the other cats are fine with the food. but i was wondering if there was anything i could give my kitten to settle her stomach??

My kitten was the same way. Some causes would probably be she consumed something poisonous (plants in the house, chemicals, and food not meant to be for cats).

What helped my cat get better was to give her a nice warm bath, using no soap or cat shampoo. Just warm water. Also, give her PLENTY of cold water to drink. Drinking water helps the stomach. And don't try giving her food because kittens don't really eat up on food while sick, but just set a little portion of food next to her and a lot of water. Let the kitten rest.

If the problem persists or worsens for a day or two more, really get the Vet because it could be something serious.

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like someone has said that i liked him and i pretend that i dont like him and get all mad because i am scared AND i want to see what he will say back. Someone has talked about us making out and he has said-- i will never let that happen-- so i feel really retarded saying anything. But he is really sweet and he knows how i feel about if guys ask me out i will ALWAYS give them a chance. So if he felt anything i would think he would ask. He is very open about things and ALWAYS is willing to listen to me about my personaly problems. But im still scared. Im not sure if he is also pretending not to like me or if he really doesn't. Im not the hottest girl in the world and i do have some mental isusse. But he still seems to except me.
What do you think?

Hey, foremost, thanks for choosing me to answer your question! =]

In my opinion it sounds like to me he just wants to be friends. I could be wrong because just based on the information you gave me he doesn't sound interested.

But just like a lot of guys out there, he could be hiding it from you. But does he ever give out hints he may possibly like you? For instance, does he call you often? Does he spend time with you more than anyone else? Does he ever ask hypothetically what would happen if you two went out? Anything similar to that may tell you he might be interested at some extent. Some guys show it; some don't, so it's just a matter of testing him out a little bit. Don't ever try to pretend that you don't like him because then that will just tell him you are not interested.

Just keep your ears and eyes open. If you feel strongly that he may like you, try asking him how he feels about you.

You can either take it naturally, by spending more time with him, or talking to him more, and do various activities with him to let him know you are interested, or make the first move and ask him out.

Just show him you are interested without saying it.

I am not an expert at dating advice so I sincerely apoligize if I didn't answer the question so great. However, if you feel I didn't give you enough advice, I will not mind going back and editing my answer so you will get the answer you need. But hopefully I helped! =]

*it's ok about taking that information thing I just didn't want people copying my stuff and claming its theirs since that's plagarism.but when you take someone elses stuff you give them credit for it. it's cool though

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So i like this guy and he is like my best friend. we tell tell him like everything and i would trust him with my life, but i am afraid to tell him that i like him because i think he might freak out or not like me in return. I'm scared that he will not feel the same about me. He has been singal and i dont think i will lose my chance but i dont really want to ruin a good friend ship. No one in the world knows i like him and if they did they would probably not aprove of us going out, and i have always lied and told him that we are just friend and that it would not be right if we went out, if people had ever said anything about us going out, and he has always agreed. He is not the hottest boy and he can be quiet a nerd. But he is so sweet and just an asome friend. Do you think i should tell him, and if so how?

Thanks for choosing me to answer your question =].

This is hard, but does he ever drop hints he may be interested? Like does he say anything like, "what would happen if we went out?" or "have you ever thought about going out with me?" If so, he might be interested in taking things to the next level. Getting hints could make the decision easier. But if he is completely closed on dropping hints or showing any emotion other than friendship stuff, then he could be shy or just uninterested.

If you two were really good friends, if you did ask, no matter what his response is, he should still be a good friend to you, and not be upset, because that would be a real friend. Whether he said no or yes, he shouldn't get upset for you asking.

Also, if you feel strongly confident that there is something more there than friendship, then there most likely is. Try privately asking him if he has feelings for you. You could say "Well, we have been friends for such awhile but it feels like there may be more than that there...what do you think?" If he shrugs or looks unsure, he just may not know what to say back. But if he answers the question, then that could give you the hint what he thinks. If he says yes, then ask him out. If no, ask him why. Then tell him your feelings.

It is hard to tell someone how you feel, but the only way to know for sure is if you give it a try. Just a reminder that if he was a good friend, he would accept you no matter what you think or he thinks.

Also, don't let the world stop you from going out with him. When people realize you are in love, they'll accept it, but they may feel that way because they couldn't imagine of you two dating. But right now don't care about them. Just confront your friend how you feel. But let make sure he'll be your friend no matter what the question is or the responses.

Good luck and tell me how it goes! =]

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When you're about to wear your acne medication, SHOULD you wash your face before you put it on? Should you use hot water or cold water? because hot water will open it up so that if i put the medicine it'll like get rid of the pimple and make it go away right? but maybe if i use cold water and the pimple is already closed, then with the medicine it'll go away faster

Yes, you should wash your face before you apply any other acne medication on your face.

Also, you should wash your face with the cleanser with warm water (opens pores), and when you are done, rinse with cold water (closes pores), then you put the medication on. It keeps pores closed, and the medication prevents pimples from forming anyway. Just make sure you use warm then cold, because if you just use warm your face can be more susceptible to oil and bacteria. Using warm then cold works more effectively when treating and preventing acne.

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hey, i'm doing a paper on teenage stress
& i need to come up with a cute title
for example, a paper on peer pressure is called
'but everyone else is doing it!'

anyhelp? :]
please&thanks!

"I'm stressed out!"
"Why am I stressed out"?
"Being a teenager is stressful!"
"I hate teen stress!"
"Stress is what teenage years are all about!"
"Teenagers these days are too stressed!"
"I am a teen so I must be stressed!"

There's a few. I tried to make them catchy, so I hope I helped =]

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I want to go counciling but I'm not sure of how because
1. I have no idea where one even is
2. I don't know which kind because I can go to so many differnet ones, anger, theripist, family
3. the BIG ONE is that I don't want my family to know. for sure they won't let me go and they'll say "why you need to go?! just tell us if you have a problem!" not in a comforting way because my parents are very mean and stuff and if i tell them about my problems then they won't make it better or comfort me. they'll just yell at me and call me stupid.
any ideas?

I used to be in the same spot where you were. I was having really tough problems and I didn't know what step to take. So my friends helped me out.

For counseling locations, there are many free counseling spots locally. Do you go to school? If so, [hopefully] your school offers a free counseling program. They are very awesome people. They keep your information confidential while trying to help you through some stuff.

For the kind of counselor it really varies. If you just want a general one, child psychologists and school counselors do general counseling. That is where you should first go anyway. If they feel you need to go to a specific one, they'll take you to one.

And my parents were the same way, as well. I wanted counseling but my parents were not supportive of me having one, but I went to one anyway because I knew I really needed one, and I needed help. They did contact my parents, and as I felt scared, things went OK. And they told me it's mandatory they support you or they could get arrested for that, not just because they didn't see the signs and not take you to one, but because they didn't support the idea when you really needed it and refused to refer you to one. That's almost like being sick from something serious and not go to the Doctor's for it because your parents felt you didn't need a Doctor visit. That kind of thing is police business.

Please go with your gut instinct and go to a school counseler or contact one from the yellow book. They will evaluate you and recommend more counseling and/or medication, depending on the severity of your mental health. And they may have to involve your parents, but it's mandatory and important. If they refuse, they can suffer consequences. And they are being bad parents for not supporting you, so prove to them you need a counselor.

It's ok to feel afraid because I cried when I went to one, and found out my parents had to be involved, but the counselors convinced them this was for the best, and I needed it (after evaluating me).

And you don't need your parents' consent to see one. You can go to one with your own free will. School counselors help out even if parents dissaprove. So it will be for the best at the end.

Good luck =]

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I've dyed it about 3 times ever...always waiting about 3 months in between to let it retain moisture and get stronger before I do it again. About 3 months ago I dyed it and a few weeks later got it cut. Ever since then it has grown extremely slow. How can I get it to grow fast again?

Shampoo such as Pantene ProV and Garnier Fructise can strenghten your hair, and get it to grow faster. Conditioner can give hair moisture, making it more likely to grow.

Also, like what the columnist below me said, trimming it every-so-often can keep your hair from getting split-ends. But you don't have to do it every 2-4 weeks. It varies for everybody. But if it's growing that slow, give it another months before you get it trimmed.

And with dyeing hair [so often], hair can slow from growing and weaken, so shampooing and conditioning it daily can help out.

Hope I helped =]

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will getting ate out show up on a pap smear test?

No, unless you tell your Gynocologist that you have been eaten out, and/or he or she finds STDs or some infection down there (from getting eaten out), and it will show up, and may question how you may have gotten it.

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Do any of you have realyl good strategies to keeping calm? I get mad a lot and when I get ultimately mad I can't take it anymore and just burst out crying!

Go with what the columnist below me said; taking deep breaths can get you calm.

Also, counting to ten can get the frustration naturally out. If you close your eyes, take a deep breath, and count to ten, your anger will be released. If you need more time, count to 20. Some times counting a bit more is needed.

Talk to someone when you are under stress, too. Talking to someone can get the anger out. Try getting a counselor or maybe just try talking to a friend when something (or someone) upsets you.

Meditate! Great way to release stress and anger out of you. It takes a few times to make it work, but all you need to do is take deep breaths, and light aromatherapy candles around you (you can find these anywhere you go), close your eyes, and dream of being somewhere relieving like a beach or a waterfall, and just imagine only yourself there.

But avoid imagining of hurting someone or something, because that can just give you ideas. You don't want that.

Hope I helped =]

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I have a deep fear of germs and getting sick. Even the thought of catching a regular cold drives me crazy. I was my hands for 10 minutes, and at school, I wear a bandanna that covers my nose and mouth to help keep the germs away. I mean, hey it's not my fault that kids at my school go swimming in 10 degree weather over the weekend, and then catch a cold. Basically Everyone is sick at my school ALL the time.

Some of my teachers get mad at me when I wear my bandanna, but if they make me sit next to, talk to, and help out sick people, why shouldn't I be able to wear it? I'm not going to get sick because of one stupid person. Last week, I skipped alot of my classes just because I sat next to sick people in them and I don't want to get sick. Mainly because I just started working out, and if I'm sick, I won't be able to work out. (yes, working out is REALLY important to me.)

Now my question, I guess my question is, is there anything else I can do from getting sick? Any healthy tips that you can inform me on? (Besides obvious stuff like washing your hands.) Do you think the bandanna is a good idea? I've actually considered wearing a surgical mask but then people would think I'm even weirder.

Also, how possible is it that I'm going to get sick if I sit next to someone sick, for about 45 minutes every day? (Keep in mind that I'm wearing my bandanna over my nose and mouth.) ANY advice you have would be helpful because I'm flipping out right now.

Hey, foremost thanks for choosing me to answer your question! =]

I know quite some people who are just like that. It's excellent that you are washing your hands frequently, and exercising -- great ways to increase your immunity.

Understand that no matter how many things you do you will always be a risk of getting sick. It's just a matter of how healthy you are, and how well your methods are into decreasing your risk of getting sick.

You do not have to wear a bandanna over your nose and mouth. You can still catch viruses through it. So there is not much of a point. It's like comparing that to using a condom with a person with STDs. The STDs can still go through the condom, so condoms are not effective in preventing STDs.

Keep up the washing hands. But you don't have to do it for ten minutes. That's too much washing. That can just make you more susceptible to germs, (since you are also washing away good germs on your hands). Just wash for about 20 seconds before and after your eat, before and after you handle animals/pets, and whenever someone accidentally sneezes or coughs on you. Avoid touching your face when you need to itch. Wash your hands first, then itch, and wash again.

Also, it must be somewhat annoying if you wash your hands a thousand times a day, so try carrying hand sanitizer with you. So you can apply it on freely when around sick people so you don't have to get up and wash your hands. Take a multivitamin with you every day, the vitamins E, A, and C, can boost your immune system so you'll be more immune to the common cold and flu.

And obviously, always maintain hygiene. To you this may be common sense, but to some maintaining hygiene properly is a mystery. Use antibacterial body wash (containing triclosan) such as Dial Antibacterial body wash. It's a wonderful product! Also wash your face in the shower with Triclosan. You can find that in most Noxema facial washes.

When you shave you can also use Triclosan with Nozema shaving cream (that says on the top it contains triclosan) Make Triclosan your best friend because it kills germs!

Clean your clothes daily. When using whites, use bleach (it kills germs pretty easily).

Avoid sharing objects with people. You probably may already do this method but this is one of the biggest ways people get viruses. Avoid sharing pencils, pens, and other writing ovjects. Avoid sharing beverages and foods with other people. When you use silverwear or disposable ones, make sure they are cleaned and nobody has touched them.

Also eating healthy and boost the immune system. The fruits are the big guys who help the most with this, and some vegetables should get credit with this too. So get those vitamins from eating this!

If you have any more questions about this, or if you ever have any other things to ask about, feel free to drop another question in my inbox and I will be happy to answer it! =]

Or if you were not satisfied with my answer, then I can always edit it!

Hope I helped =]

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Okay, so I'm confused when to use an ice pack or a heat pad if you:

Sprain something
Pull a muscle
Muscle ache
Cramp
Feet hurting from walking too much
From wearing heels
From uncomfortable shoes

AHH!! I just don't know when to put what..help?

Pretty much what the columnist below me said. If something on your body is swollen, use ice (or cold water) to decrease the swelling. You use heat to relieve the pain (temporarily in most cases).

For spraining something, use cold;
When You pull a muscle, use heat;
Muscle aches, same as pulling a muscle, use heat;
Cramping, you use heat;
Feet hurting, you can use ice first, then heat;
Same as wearing heals or uncomforable shoes, putting your feet in cold water for awhile (reduce any swelling), then apply heat (warm/hot water) to it to relieve the pain.

I know this is a little off-topic but for convenience you can use Icy Hot®. It first cools to reduce swelling (contains menthol) and then it switches to the hot feeling, but I forget the main ingredient in that. It really works when you are on the go, rather than sitting down for a half hour, applying cold water, then an extra half hour to apply warm water to the area.

Hope I helped =]

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Okay, so I'm a 14 year old female. There's this guy in one of my classes, and he's a junior. Since the beginning of the year, he has always paid "special attention" to me, like teasing me and stuff. I even recall a while back in October-ish, I was walking in the hallway afterschool, l and he was with his friend, and he stopped to talk to me for no reason at all. Back then, I thought he was kinda hot but never seriously considered him as a potential bf because a guy 2 years older than me having a crush on ME? The notion was impossible.

But as time went on I noticed more and more hints being dropped by him..for example, he always holds open doors for me and makes a huge scene of it "HERE, [myname], LADIES FIRST!". And when any of his friends try to talk to me, he instantly turns and stares at me. Whenever I talk to HIM, he stares right at me and gves me this huge grin.

Now, he's always like looking at me in class, especially when I talk to any guys. But I don't know if I'm just imagining the signs or if he teases me just to look cool in front of his friends. Or maybe he's just a friendly guy.

Oh, let me add some more details about us, I guess. I gave him a present over christmas break (it was just a card lol) and he seemed to really like it, he had this big smile on his face. And he's always telling me how nice I look. Also, I'm the girl he talks most to in class (this isn't much though, because there arent a lot of other girls in the class and all the girls are freshmen) I expect HIM to tell ME if he likes me or not, because he's a junior, and if I say no to him (which I wouldnt), it shouldnt be a big blow to his ego. But he keeps on dropping hints that he likes me as something..more. That's where I'm getting confused. Luckily there's a winter formal coming up on the 9th that he can ask me to AND valentine's day 5 days later. Think I should ask him to the dance?

oh and there was also this time in December, when we had free time in class and him and his friends were talking about THE basketball game of the season, and suddenly the guy turned to me and asked me if I was going. I told him I wasn't, and he asked, "why not?" Of course, me being STUPID and MISSING the hint, I said "i'm kinda busy," when I really wasn't (i was completely and totally free!!), because I was embarassed at being singled out like that. If i were smart i would've said "no, because I can't get a ride". and he mightve invited me to come. sorry it's so long T_T

It definately sounds like he likes you! All of the input and information you gave me really seems that he has some feelings for you. I also can tell he's a bit of a flirt. Very cute =].

But yeah, you should ask him out! There's like a 90% chance he'll say yes, from the information you gave me in your question.

So I can't really put down more information about this, since you plainly asked if you should ask him out. But if you need more tips or information, I can always edit my answer!

But definately ask him out. Let me know how it all goes, girl! Good luck =]

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Would masturbating me considered a sin? I guess this question would be for Christians or something, but it doesn't have to be...

As a Christian, I personally believe Masturbation is NOT a sin. It's better than premarital sex, and if God really would be disappointed, He would be glad you chose that over sex anyway. Premarital sex is a sin. Also, the Bible does not mention anything about Masturbation, and its consequences, or anything. As a conclusion, masturbation isn't bad. If it makes you happy, and if that's what you want, then freely do it.

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