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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.
I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..
My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]
I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥
I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.
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Well, my friend and I were supposed to hang-out this weekend. I have called her numorus times, maybe 3 or 4. Most of the time somebody didn't answer, the line was busy, and then one time, her brother answered and told me she wasn't home. But, sometimes her brother will say she isn't home, even when she is. Well the thing is, I really want to get intouch with her. So should I just keep calling; it has been about an hour since I called. Should I just not call and wait til' she calls me. Or does anybody else have anymore suggestions?
Thank you so much if you can help!
Don't call anymore. Call her later on when 2 or 3 hours passed by. Email her. IM her. Call her cell if she has one. Anything like that. ♥
please help i had a dream last night about a man i know and he is realy old and he felt me up and i was shouting my gran but she could hear me but she heard me in the end and she got him off me then i looked and he started abusing her and she just let him like if she did not let him then he will hurt her then i went to walk out of the room and he thretened to hit me and i said i am not scared of you go on hit me my dad is in the next room and he said thats why yours saying that but i said i dont care then i told my grandad then my dad came sat me on his knee and said tell me all about it i know somthing has happened then i was just crying and he was cuddling me and kissing me and said it will be ok but i have know ideal what it means i keep having dreams like this can anyone tell me what it means they are getting me down please help me i will rate.
You can't really control your dreams. Obviously. Dreams have no meaning & there's nothing you can do about it. Just realize that this may never happen since it's a dream. Cheer up. Don't let these dreams bring you down & make you a little depressed because then you'll be having bad dreams like this forever. Try & get your mind off of this dream.
Just because I`m really nice, i've managed to look up some sites for you. I don`t know if they are any good, but maybe just give it a shot & read along and see what you come up with.
http://www.dreammoods.com/
http://www.mydreamvisions.com/index.html
I really like the second one, but if you don't like these then try googling something. ♥
i am 18 and under weight doe anyone know how i can put weight on it is realy hard for me to put weight on i have always been under weight please help i will rate
Kalteen Bars. Something like that. Ever seen the movie "Mean Girls" ? Well they really do have them & they really do make you gain weight. I have no idea where they sell them, but you can possibly go ask a doctor. Either that or you can also ask a doctor for some SAFE weight gain pills. ♥
Hey guys,
I already asked a quesion a while ago about Valentines Day. I really don't know what to get my best friend Daniel. I'm wanting to get him a stuffed animal off of this one site, but I'm having a hard time picking between all 4 bears I like. I was wondering if anyone would like to go to the site and look at the bears I'm choosing from to maybe get him, and tell me what one you like the best. I can't really decide, so if anyone wants to look at the bears I really like they are on www.bandannabear.com-I like the 2 bears in the very first row and the 2 bears in the fourth row. Those are the ones I'm choosing from to get him. If noone wants to do this, it's alright. By the way I am 15/f and he is 14/m turning 15 on the 31st of this month. He is very sweet and mature for his age. He lives in a different state, and I plan on meeting him as soon as I can save up enough money for me and my mom because she wants to go too. We've been talking now for over 6 months and aren't going out yet. We consider ourselves going out though. We already sent each other gifts for Christmas. Someone help me out if you want! If not, it's alright. I love everyone on this site anyway! Thank you so much!
Aww! I agree with Alma. The bear that she chose is really cute & having your names in the center of it is even cuter!! I really do hope he likes it ♥
Are you expected to moan while a guy is fingering you? Or do you just lay there silently? And does being fingered usually lead to an orgasm? Thanks.
Most girls do moan when a guy is fingering you. It's because of the "sensation" your having. It might hurt for the first time, but it feels good.. You don`t just lay there silent. MOST of the times when a guy is fingering you, you get an oragasm,but not always ♥
i get a lot of popups and there are some nasty ones like porn.. and it gets really annoying and i use ad-aware but it doesnt work well.. i also use limewire so would that be the cause of it? can someone PLEASE tell me what to do cause im sick of these popups
I've had Limewire for almost 2 years now & I don't get pop-ups like that..You should just get a pop-up blocker. Maybe a little change..ya?
Before you download anything, make sure you read what it does or the description that it gives so you can fully understand what you are getting. ♥
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If you think that it's Limewire, then just download another music program thing. BearShare. Also good. ♥
well i really do not like my job. i don't talk to any of the people there except for one of them because i go to school with him and i like him. also my job interferes with a lot of things like my friends and how i have been doing in school. it just stresses me out a lot where i had a melt down the other night. so should i keep it and see how things go or quit so i can finish high school and not have so many problems.
If you really need the money, then stay. But if you're just having that job just because you want more money, then quit. You shouldn't have to work somewhere if you don't like it. Maybe you should just a summer job & when collage starts get a part time job. Something like that..♥
srry if this is confusing but i will rate 5's
okay have you ever seen those edited photos and like say the whole picture is black and white and then their shirt is lke...pink or whatever...how do they do that do you have to download something?/ and what is it?
I think you just open the picture in paint & just color whatever you want with whatever color you want. I heard people do that..so I might be right ♥
i got my period about a year ago and i still have discharge even 2 or 3 weeks before my period comes..i know its not a yeast infection..is this normal?? 13/f
Totally normal. Some girls get discharge everyday. ♥
Okay I don't know if this is sex or something but like i've been getting this white snotty stuff in my underwear. I don't know what it is or what it's from. I'm 13/f to if that will help.
It's discharge. Every girl gets it when she is about to start have her period. Not all the time, but most of the time.
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My ex-boyfriend just got locked up in juvi. We only broke up a week ago and we dated on and off for about a year and a half. We both still have feelings for one another. Anyways, his grandma and grandpa (whom he was staying with) called me last night and told me the whole story. His grandpa was on the other phone (different #) with Justin. His grandpa was saying Justin said he loved me and he wanted my address and stuff (to write, no phone calls or visits allowed.) The deal is, his grandparents were really sweet and sincere to me the whole time, though they were pretty broken up and crying, as was I. The thing is, since me and Justin were kind of on the verge of getting back together (that has nothing to do with what I'm about to say...just some info) his grandparents get to go see him tonight at 7. It's a half an hour away from town and its almost 4 now. Should I give them a call to check up and see how things are going, or would that seem like a pest? I don't think they would mind in the least, I just wanted to make sure it was an appropriate gesture and what I should say.
P.S. I'm pretty sure they would call me after they got back but I didn't know if I should call just in case.
Please help, I'll rate all 5's! THANKS!
Call. You said they were nice, so they wouldn't consider you a pest. And you guys went out for a year and a half & you know the grandparents & they know you, so they shouldn't be calling you a pest. You're concerned & you want to know what's going on, so call. =)
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Woahhhhh ..lol sorry i forgot to read the addtional info...SORRY!! I didn't know i wasn't suppose to answer it ..haha =P
There's this song, it's kinda rock
but the point is
that I've fallen in love with it
and I only know the name
it's called "My black deliah"
[i think]
Some of the lyrics are kinda like...
remember? I loved you. You made me...I used to be lovestruck, now I'm just fucked up...and I lost it all It fell today It's all the same....and i've been abused I feel so used
help if you can.
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I ♥ Hollywood Undead! =)
Here's the link for the lyrics.
http://www.skaponk.com/lyrics/21735/
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what do you guys consider to be "popular? "
do you think someone that everyone knows of
(as in if sum1 said their name they would automatically know who your talkin about)
or someone who has a large group of friends?
(somone who hangs out with like 15 friends)
this is for a health project, those were questions to ask but let me know what you consider to be "popular" if you dont think its either i rate high thanx alot!
I don't know why everyone thinks popular girls are snobs. I'd say I'm pretty popular(not to sound..conceided or anything). I'm actually really nice. I talk to the "losers" or "nerds" or whatever you want to call them. I have so many people know my name is unreal ! I wear Hollister & Abercrombie & all that preppy stuff, but clothes doesn't "make" the person. But mostly, some people are better off NOT being popular. Being popular has it's bad side. People who aren't popular; think the worse of you, people who are supposibly your friends ; backstabb you, & sometimes getting all the guys isn't really great, because they can hurt you..easily.
For me, I think it's both. Having someone know your name, can get your name passed on veryy quickley. And if people see you with 15 friends or more, then they automatically think "Oh wow she must be really popular."
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Alright im having this pointless little fued between me and my friend and on that song smooth criminal by Alien ant farm.. what does it say? on the chorus?
Annie are you OK Are you OK?
is that what is says? My friend clains it doesnt really say Annie
Yup. It REALLY does say Annie. You should've bet on it, just to get money =P.
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I'm a tiny little person (13/f) and my mom wants me to exercise. Aside from burning off fat and staying at a healthy weight, why is it important to exercise?
It's just to keep you fit. Even if your not fat, you can still become diabetic(not saying that you will!!). Just because of sugars that you eat. Just exercise a little bit to help your body image & just to stay healthy.
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Hey guys,
I want to do my eyebrows so they don't look so like bad. Should i get them waxed? does waxing hurt? Is there a way I could maybe pluck my eyebrows at home and not have it hurt so bad? thnx much luv xoxoxoxox
Waxing your eyebrows is way easier then plucking. Plucking just takes so long & i think it's more painful. Honestly, when i first got my eyebrows done, i swear i almost got teary eyes. But that's only because i have sensitive skin around my eyebrows. Now it's been like a year and i still get them done. And it doesn't even hurt anymore. Waxing does hurt, but trust me, it's sooo worth it. =) Just get them done. =P
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Ok... im 13/f and i weigh 170lbs yes i know im fat... but ive been losing a lot of weight.. but all my friends are tiny and i feel so selfconcence(SP) around them and like i feel like they talk about my weight when im not around(but i know they dont) i just feel like really fat... is there anyway that i cant just be not selfconcense around them and i can just be me without feeling fat.... im already on a really good diet so you dont have to tell me to get on a diet.. i need mental help on this 1 ... :'(
You're trying REALLY hard to lose weight & that's great. If they are really your friends, they wouldn`t/shouldn`t be talking about your weight. I highly doubt they do though. What's really important is that your working your way to lose weight. Not everybody has the perfect body. You shouldn't let what society calls "skinny" ruin your self-esteem. Be as confident as you can & try not to think of pleasing people. Only please yourself & that`s what`s really important in your case. Just keep doing what your doing. Just think if you keep this diet going, you'll feel even greater. Your working on your diet so you should feel GREAT! =)
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Dear Advicenators-
This year one of my best friends, let's call her amanda, went into highschool. See, I was always more popular and had more friends then her. (I'm in 8th grade now)And when she was in middle school, let's say she wasn't the coolest of the bunch. We were best friends until I was in 7th grade and she was in 8th. See, then I started hanging out with my friends from school on the weekends; and me and amanda's sleepovers every friday and saturday turned into once or twice hour hang outs once a month. Yet, sure enough, when school was out, we became close again, adn real tight. Now she went into highschool and started to make new friends, when i was still in middle school. She got a new boyfriend, got a new best friend, with a new life. Ever since school started we hardly ever hang out. And now, 5 months later, she straight up tells me she doesn't want to be that close anymore and really doesn't want to be friends. Now, at first I understood she was frustrated, I didn't think she was serious. But now i really now she is dead serious. AND IT KILLS ME! I want to cry so much and pour out tears, and to know it doesn't effect her at all, and she can let go such a great friendship like that, just crushes me. Like, think of your of that one friend were you feel %100 completely comfortable wiht adn can tell anything. WE were tight, when the two of us got together we had so much fun. And now she wants to blwo it all away, and means it! But i don't know what it is! Is it her getting back at me from when I started hanging out with my school friends more, or does she just want to move on with her life and forget me. Like rigth now, we had this huge fight adn she acted liek she did't even care about me, and afterwards her away message was "hanging wiht Bridget watchign American Pie, haha"(her new best friend. When i thik over all are memories I want to cry out my heart knowing that I can never have them again with her. i don't know what to do. Should I make the first step and start trying to be friends with her again. the thing is she really meant when she said she doesn't want us to talk anymore or hang out, or even become friends again! What should I do, I'm devistaited!Thank-you :(
No way. Don't even try to bond with this chick. She's such a snob. I know it might be hard leaving a best friend, I mean, i couldn't image leaving my best friend, but this girl obviously doesn't want you to be close with her. Make your own new best friends. I think she changed when she got into highschool. People do decide to get older & leave back memories. So you can't TOTALLY blame her for that. Just ignore her for now & find some of your other friends. If you spend time with the friends that you have now, one of them will become your best friends & be better then her. So cheer up. =)
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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.
lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??
thanks!!
Okay first off..why would a sperm be in the girl's bathroom in the first place??Unless your talking about a porter potty.. And second..no you can't..
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Hi. If a person has sex and then gets her period a day or less afterwards, does it mean she can't be pregnant? A friend of mine is really freaked out right now, and I'm trying to calm her down by telling her that she can't be pregnant. Thanks.
Lol tell her she's okay. She's fine.
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