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Q: hey my name is rachel and i have put in alot of questions on the same guy and i am wondering i hung out with him last night and i am really bored right now and i wanna go over there but do u think that he'll think that i am obsessed? becuzz i wanna know ASAP!
thanks

Go over there-trix

Q: ive been with mi b.f for 5 months and we love each other TO DEATH!! but lately he's been getting mad at his parents easilier. is it because of me? or no? help please!!!

I dont think its you so much there is probably other things that is going on and he might not talk to anybody about it but just ask him what is going on and if he is okay and let him know you will be there for him thru thick n thin. Hell or high waters-trix

Q: Hey,
I need some help. Lately my gfs "old friends" are talking about me and trying to get in fights with me....she instsits she loves me more and everything and they call her names on aim and everything and she says we wont talk to them anymore and she asks me if I promise. I say yes and then the next day shes telling me if I want to see her again she HAS to sleep over their house. Also let me note that everytime she sees this so called friend we get in a fight. Last time she slept over her house she snuck out at 2 in the morning to another boys house wich she promised to never talk to again. I think shes lieing to me also...we've been in a ton of fights lately because shes on the computer almost 24/7 talking to people. Also, her parents don't even allow her on aim, she and I have to lie to them about it, when I would rather not go on it at all. Everytime I'm over her house she gets on the computer, then we go to my house, and she gets on, then we go home to our own houses and she gets on right away...she hardly even calls anymore shes to busy on the computer. Then she says online when we get in a fight that I want to break up with her and I don't....now she wants to go to her friends house...what should I do...she makes me cry and throw up almost everynight. What should I do? Should I break up with her?

She doesnt seem like a trusting gf to me. I would sit down and talk it out with her because i am sure you dont want to lose her cuz she probably means a whole lot to you. Let her know you miss her calling also. But i would talk to her about it and if that doesnt help then i would dump her because you deserve so much better-trix

Q: ok this guy is my friend but he just told me he liked me. he sed: i like u and i care about u but u if u dont feel the same way about me than fuck it well be friends. he seemed mad about it but i couldnt tell cuz he sed it over the internet. idk wut to say.cuz hes cute and i like him as a friend and i do care about him but not that away. but he liked my sister a couple of months ago and i didnt like that. and now idk wut to say. please answer soon.

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Just tell him you odnt want to risk the friendship you to have.. let him no its speacial to you-trix

Q: ok i idk wut to do. i think i like my best friend. and i kinda know he likes me. but theres this other guy i kinda like to. i think i like the first guy more cuz i always wanna talk to
him. but idk. please help

i rate good

Go with the first guy you liked-trix

Q: hey ummm well i have this friend and she is kool and everything but she also has some really really really annoying things about her that i CANT STAND!! well like she wants to hang out and all next yr in school but like she is a prep and i am a punk and idk it just isnt going to work. i think that i will be better off with out her. but rite now she thinks that i am like some kind of saint or something and she is always there. i dont want to hurt her feelings but how do i break off a good friendship that has been going for 2 years without her knowing that i dont really like her ? ? ? ? ? ?

Well tell her that you think you guys are spreading apart and you to need to take a break because you guys are on 2 diff. paths. -trix

Q: what do i do here...

i wish that my parents would get a devorce at
points. there a very unlikely couple i guess u could say and i really dont like my dad that much...he walks around with no shirt on, beer belly, and the house that we moved into i have to walk through there room to get to my room and its really annoying when i have friends over. my parents get into fights a lot and i go into my room and cry and my mom thinks im stupid for doing that, like she thinks i exagerate. in the summer my mom just works on the weekends and leaves me home with my brother and dad which i hate. my dad will buy me practically anything i want-cellphone, trampoline but i think he just gets me all this stuff bc he thinks i love him more or something. and i feel worse for my brother bc he has to put up with even mor eof his crap. i so scared im going to grow up like my dad or something. please help...tell me, am i being a brat?

Well i guess you are at that age were you favor one parent over another.. everybody goes thru that age and your dad probably just wants you two to have a good relationship between eachother and he i am sure wants to be there for you-trix

Q: when ur making out with a guy do you stick ur toung in his mouth or shuold he do it to you first?

Well that would be the guys move.. but you both stick your tounges in-trix

Q: me and my BEST FRIEND EVER went to pre-school together and thats how we met. we go to different schools, different dance places, and just about everything else diff except for our moms work together. we were born 2 days apart (mine december 18th and hers december 20th) and if we were standing next to each other u would think shes my little sister. im a head taller than she is. in the summer we do a lot of stuff together bc we used to belong to the same swimming club... but she moved so now she goes somewhere closer to her house. when we get together we have a such good times. i just feel that were growing apart though in some ways. shes inviting me over less and stuff idk what to do should i just hang out with her more or just dont worry about it?

Tell her that you think you guys are growing apart and need to start making more plans together. Start calling her more often and emailing her. Tell her you miss her being around-trix

Q: ok this boy i liked (mike) asked me out and i was really happy. he asked me to go over his house one day n i did. he asked if we were going to do stuff and i said yes. but i never mad out or n e thing .. can someone please tell me how to , and how do you no when they wanna make out or do something with you?

Well usually they will make the move and you usually can tell when its coming because its kind of a awkward feeling you have and you know its coming.. but its fun.. if you like the guy-trix

Q: ok...i went out wit this one guy..for not that long but i still have feelings for him...should i c if he has feelings for me too..or just forgwt about him and move on....what should i do

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I would see if he has feelings for you-trix

Q: I really like my boyfriend but hardly any of my friends do and they slag him off in front of me and his best mate (angus) says that my boyfriend's changed since he started going out with me and now loads of people who *did* like him, dont like him. I don't want to lose my boyfriend over this but i dont want angus to lose him best mate either and i'm sick of my friends slagging my boyfriend off. what do i do?

Well i would talk to everybody and find out how he has changed.. and try to make it back to normal but remember friends do come first before your loved/liked one.. your friends will always be there for you but sometimes a bf/gf wont-trix

Q: Hey!, could anyone tell me who to make a layout or background for my Greatest Journal?...Thanks! xoxo // Lyss

You could go to paint and make your own that way or search for really cute backgrounds on the search engine or askjeeves-trix

Q: ok i was having sex with this one guy tony and i couldnt stop. but finnaly it was time u know to take off my thong and put on a condom (on him of course) and so my thong wouldnt come off (it was one of the ones that u r supose to tie) and so he ripped it off and when i was putting the condom on him the door bell rang so i had to get up u know and i was like oh damn we have to stop but he was like oh let it ring we need to do it anyways i hope i am going to do it all night and i was like oh u bet ur luckie ass on that and i couldnt stop and we were burning rubber (when u go really fast and it starts to burn) then i had to go pee so i told him i had to stop so i did then when i came back i saw his friends looking and they have been looking since we started! so i told them they can come in in 10 mins so they were still looking and i was yelling oh tony oh tony and he was like oh jenny oh jenny and then i told his friends to come in. then i got drunk then i was having a three sum and then another guy came in and so in was like a 4 sum. and then they had to go home but i told tony to stay and we were doing it all night. then the next day was school and everyone was staring at me and i was asking the guys i did it with wut wuz going on and they told the whole school and i turned around and 3 guys were humping me so i told them to come to my house so when we went to my house i grabed a whip and everything so i was doing it all night with them! but i took a pregnantcy test and it said i was pregnant but i didnt know whos baby!!!!!!!!!!!

What the heck 4 diff. guys? Are they gay? I wouldnt worry so much about having a baby right now maybe get yourself checked for STD's or something like and you can tell by a blood test and you should shape up if you continue to act like this you will be getting used.. just like those 3 guys!-trix

Q: I told my friends and family that I was thinking of becoming a lesbian and they just laughed. What do i do to make them believe me?

Have them sit down and make it a serious moment and stand firm and say it and say you are serious when you say it and you would like for them to take it serious-trix

Q: I have a friend that is a boy. His name is Marco and he is really nice. We e-mail each other, and I sit in back of him in language arts and social studies. I really would like to hang out with him, but I don't want to tell him that. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

desprate 4 help

In one of your emails ask if he would like to hang out one day-trix

Q: when can a girls really notice that a boy likes her??????

Draws more attention to her then he normally would or begins to get shy around her-trix

Q: MY BEST FRIEND IS MOVING TO NEW YORK AND I AM ACROSS THE U.S. WHAT SHOULD I DO???

get her address and email address and keep in touch there and if calling long distance isnt a problem then get her number-trix

Q: how can you tell when a guy likes you?

Wow! there is trillions of ways! he could either playfully joke around with you! like put you down but be there to hold u and say he was jk and he could be real flirty it depends on the guy-trix

Q: OK, yesterday, I was in my bedroom and I was getting my journal out to write in it and i couldn't find my pencil, then i saw it on the table and it was too far for me to reach it and when I was stretching my arm to get it, it moved into my hand. My window wasn't open so that rules out wind. Am I telekenisis?

You most likely would have had symptoms of it when you were younger-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"