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my best friend
me and my BEST FRIEND EVER went to pre-school together and thats how we met. we go to different schools, different dance places, and just about everything else diff except for our moms work together. we were born 2 days apart (mine december 18th and hers december 20th) and if we were standing next to each other u would think shes my little sister. im a head taller than she is. in the summer we do a lot of stuff together bc we used to belong to the same swimming club... but she moved so now she goes somewhere closer to her house. when we get together we have a such good times. i just feel that were growing apart though in some ways. shes inviting me over less and stuff idk what to do should i just hang out with her more or just dont worry about it?
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If you're best friends, then even the miles between you two will ever let you grow apart. you may see less and less of each other, but that's not what matters. what matters is that when you two are together, you enjoy to the best of your ability and you make memories. <3 much love.
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Thats a long time to know your best friend and you can't just put that friendship down the drain. You should call her up and tell her how you feel, tell her what you just told us. Just make plans with her and hang out with her a lot more and that you miss hanging out with her. She should understand because she is your best friend. So just call her up and just be like "Hey, we should hang out because we're not hanging out that much and I really miss that." And then just tell her how you feel about it and what you just told us. Good luck!
xoxo Kourtney
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Tell her that you think you guys are growing apart and need to start making more plans together. Start calling her more often and emailing her. Tell her you miss her being around-trix
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Talk to her, and get together more, like the good ol' days.
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you definitly need to talk to her call her up or im her if she hasz a screen name dont let your friendship qo without tryinq to make it work. try and find a time where you two will both be able to hanq out but maybe she thinksz your qrowinq apart from her have u invited her anywheresz at all? please reply and rate me
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I wouldn't worry about it. Shes farther away now so she can't see you as often. I wouldn't look at it as she doesn't want to hang out with you but, it's harder for her to see you. hope i helped! -candace
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You should call her randomly and ask her to do something. If she is important to you (which you've made it clear she is) then you can't just let yourselves grow apart. If she doesn't invite you over, invite her over. You have a lot of fun together so why would you risk losing that? Call her.
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i have friends Lyk this .. just try and push yOurseLf mOre intO her Life .. make yOurseLf avaiLabLe fOr pLans and just ask her if yOu can hang Out with her mOre and see hOw she acts abOut it
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hey if course u should still hang out with her. i mean u dont want to ruin the relation with her that u still have. i mean i would try inviting her over to ur house and get together whenever possible. my advice would be to not let go of that relationship cause it seems like it is a good one.
*~Random Kitty~*
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TO: my best friend
totalie dunt werry bout it...theres nothin wron with alla thah stuff..you guys prolly dunt hang out as much because she er you is getting busier and busier so ya both prolly dunt hab as much time...if ya wanna see her more then invite her to more shoppin er sleepovas er watebe...ya noe?
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Sadly,this isn't uncommon.Friends that have been friends since they were really young,tend to sometimes grow apart as they get older! I've been thru the same thing.I met my best friend in the 3rd grade and by 9th grade our friendship was on the rocks,and sadly now we no longer speak.We just grew apart.But that doesn't mean that has to happen to you.Talk to your friend about your concerns and your feelings on what's been going on.She should be willing to listen and to talk it thru with you.There may not be a thing wrong at all!!Best of luck sweetheart,if you need anything more just drop me a line in my inbox!!! :)
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