I have a friend that is a boy. His name is Marco and he is really nice. We e-mail each other, and I sit in back of him in language arts and social studies. I really would like to hang out with him, but I don't want to tell him that. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????
Lizzy answered Saturday January 24 2004, 1:15 pm: Desprate 4 help,
Why not tell him? That would show that you are strong and dominate, not hard to get, which sometimes can be good. Just ask him to go to the mall with you, you never know, you might end up marrying the guy.
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MichiruKaiou answered Friday January 23 2004, 10:24 pm: Why are you holding back on telling him you want to hang out? What's the worst that could happen? Just talk to him in class, and try to develop a strong friendship. That'll lead you two to start 'hanging out'. [ MichiruKaiou's advice column | Ask MichiruKaiou A Question ]
chiquitaban answered Friday January 23 2004, 9:18 pm: start talking to him.
start with small things like "what do we have for homework?"
discuss bands, politics, ANYTHING!
eventually, if you two are compatible, youll probably begin hanging out... [ chiquitaban's advice column | Ask chiquitaban A Question ]
EternalFolly answered Friday January 23 2004, 8:21 pm: Why shouldn't you tell him you'd like to hang out sometime? If he's your friend it shouldn't be much of a problem. He'll probably enjoy spending more time with you. Go ahead and ask him. [ EternalFolly's advice column | Ask EternalFolly A Question ]
dwarp answered Friday January 23 2004, 7:44 pm: What do you mean by hanging out with him? If you want him to be a friend, just invite him to go with a bunch of your friends to a movie or arcade or something. If you honestly don't want him to know you consider him a friend...I don't really see the problem there.
If you seriously like him, I suggest doing the same thing as wanting him to be a friend. Get to know the person he is outside of school and hang out with him as a friend more if you're afraid of telling him. After awhile, you'll become more comfortable around him and be able to talk to him about your feelings. [ dwarp's advice column | Ask dwarp A Question ]
Cspinoza1 answered Friday January 23 2004, 7:19 pm: Well it doesn't seem as if you like him in a relationship form, so why don't you just ask if he wants to hang out and if you feel insecure ask someone that might know if he likes you so that if he does it isn't as hard to know.
shay*shay answered Friday January 23 2004, 7:17 pm: Over an email maybe ask him if he wants to go to the mall or see a movie with you because you've got nothing else to do and you'd like to spend some sun time with him.
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
Elle answered Friday January 23 2004, 6:42 pm: Well, the question is does he like you, like you, or does he just like you. There is a difference.If he just like you, you shouldn't worry about it. If he likes you, like you, then just tell him how you feel.
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