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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Okay...
i wanna work at dunkin donuts
do you have to go through a interview first?
not so good at those

Yeah. You need to have an interview for every job you get. They're not gonna hire someone they know nothing about & a piece of paper they had you fill out won't really tell them much either.

Okay so, basically, I have braces, but I really want a monroe. But I'm scared that A. it won't look good and B. it won't work real well with my braces. I need some opinions on this.

I think both of the fears you've got are correct. It's too much metal, and it won't look right.

Wait til your braces come off & then get the piercing. It'll look a lot better. For now, why don't you get your eyebrow or something?

okay, so theres this boy. and hes 5/4 years older then me. and everyone hated him, so i eased off with talking to him. and he was so sweet to me, and my bestfriend told me she wouldnt be my friend if i dated him. and all this stuff, so i stopped acting like a girlfriend type. and he was so heartbroken.

and now he has a new girl, and all i want is for that to be me. and please, tell me how to show him i do care about him.

Punch your friend in the face for her behavior, then date whoever the hell you want.

Your "friend" has no right to tell you who you can & cannot date. If she doesn't like who you date & she's willing to stop being friends with you because of it, then honestly: she was NEVER your friends. Friends are never supposed to be that shallow.

So you know what? Tell him how you feel. Go out with him. And if your friend has anything to say about it, tell her to fuck herself. Don't let her run your life. Do shit the way YOU WANT to because if you let people boss you around & if you let them run your life, you're never going to be happy.

Sorry if this is the wrong category.

But I was wondering if there are any modling agency's in Chicago, Il. For 11 year olds? (my sister and I are close and she really wants this and I want to help her)! But seriously any good ones. Maybe even for acting and stuff! Anything would help! In Chicago Please!

Thanks in advance!

You should check the phonebook. They have everything.

Ok you know the word either?

how do you spell eye-ther? Ither doesn't look right. Or is it spelled either and it's just how you pronounce it?

It's spelled 'either' & you can pronounce it both ways. It all depends on context really.

What is the offical age you can get your permit and than lisence in massachusettes. Theres been many talk of the age being higher but i dont know what is true and what is not. Can somebody tell me who defiantly knows what it is. Thanks!

15/m/uk
right im in desperate need of help. i cannot sleep and its effecting everything. im always moody because of it and im always getting realy stressed i always feel worn out aswel.
please dont say anything stupid like you dont do enough exercise because i do a hell of alot more then most people i train every night.whenever i feel tired at about 11 o clock i try to go to sleep but then have a massive energy spurt and cant go to sleep till say 6 in the morning. when i do try to go to sleep i cant because my mind just wonders. does anyone have any ideas on hw i cn go to sleep i even went 5 days without sleeping then triied to go to sleep at 11 and that didnt even work please some one help.

You may have insomnia which is a sleeping disorder that keeps you up at night & doesn't allow you to sleep for days, and sometimes weeks at a time.

Nobody here can diagnose you with that though, so you need to see a doctor. Anymore information about insomnia or ways to fall asleep can be googled.

Do you know any love song's that are rock/punk/indie? If so. Please tell me. And thank you.

I can name bands & that's about it.

Cute Is What We Aim For.
All Time Low.
This Providence.
Love Me Electric.
Plain White T's.
Madina Lake.
Matchbook Romance.
Mayday Parade.
Rooney.
Metro Station.
Paramore.
Saosin.
Secondhand Serenade.
Sugarcult.
Taking Back Sunday.
The Academy Is...
The Higher.
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
Boys Like Girls.
The Used.
Yellowcard.
A Heartwell Ending.
A Static Lullaby.
AFI.
The All American Rejects.
Bayside.
Circa Survive.
Brand New.
Cartel.
Cobra Starship.
Dashboard Confessional.
Envy On The Coast.
Down To Earth Approach.
Four Year Strong.
Take The Crown.
Fall Out Boy.
Flyleaf.
Four Letter Lie.
Head Automatica.
Greeley Estates.
Hellogoodbye.
Jack's Mannequin.
The Format.
Lostprophets.
Meg & Dia.
The Dollyrots.
New Found Glory.
My Chemical Romance.

is there any ways to get past private profiles on myspace? like to view private profiles and the pictures on them.

Nope.

I have been dating my girlfriend Caitlyn for two years in October. She is the most amazing girl i have ever met and about 7 months ago i gave her a promise ring and i know Cait is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes we get into little fights and blow them way out of proportion. About a month ago we had one of these fights and she wouldn't come to a party with me that night. At that party, i got pretty drunk and slept with a girl from another school. I didn't tell her about it and everything seemed like it was fine until this girl i slept with showed up at my baseball game and just so happens to sit down next to Cait and her best friend without knowing it was them. They start talking and pretty soon Becca, the girl from the party, has to go so she asks my girl friend if she could give me a ring back that i had left at her house (the promise rings we gave each other. i guess i left it there that night) of course my girlfriend gets curious why this girl has my ring and so she asks becca about it and she told her the whole thing. After the game Cait brought the ring up to me and said that my "little friend Becca" thought i would want it back and asked her to give it to me. I was totallly shocked and had no idea even what to say. Cait broke it off right then and there. I need to find some way to make it up to her. She is the love of my life and i totally regret what i did but she won't even talk to me which is really awkward since i am at her house all the time since her brothers are my best friends and her dad is my football coach. How can i get her back?

To be honest, you may not be able to get your girlfriend back. What you did was inexcusable & don't blame it on the alcohol. Although you were drunk, you should've been okay enough to come to your senses & realize that what you were doing was wrong. Alcohol is no excuse to cheat on someone you "love."

That being said, trying to get your girlfriend back is going to be extremely diffucult, and you may not be able to do so. You really need to sit down & think about the shit you did, and you need to take her feelings into consideration, seeing as how you didn't the night you cheated on her. And I can understand kissing someone else, but you had SEX with ANOTHER GIRL. That completely crosses the line, and you should basically punch yourself in the face right now.

Honestly, try to talk to her about things. Even if she won't talk back, just make sure she listens to you. When you're at her house, just say "I've really gotta talk to you about what happened, and even if you don't wanna talk back, can you at least listen to what I have to say?" If she agrees, tell her everything, pour your heart out & let her know you're truly sincere. If it doesn't work, then you need to accept the fact that you no longer have a girlfriend. Trust is a big thing for people, and once you break it, it's insanely hard to get it back.

Good luck.

okay, so i've always been pretty quiet in school and never had a really 'real' relationship. i had never even had my first kiss until 9th grade. but now i am kissing like a lot of guys and let some do other things with me and now some of my friends are just hooking me up with guys just cause the guys want to get some from me but it doesnt seem to bother me. its just weird how i changed so much over nothing. but is it all totally sluttish? this is a weird question but i really just need someone to tell me not to before i can actually consider it.

thanks for all your help.

So you're hooking up with random guys you've got no interest in just because you think it's fun & you like the attention?

Yeah, that's just a TAD skanky.

hey

ok i just moved to a new school and so there is this guy i really really really like and i have neva seen anybody nore cuter than him but the point is that he likes me but he flirts with me too but othere poeple too and i flirt back but everybody dont want me to go out with him but everybody tells me that hes a perv.!!!
but idk
i really like him but at school im always hyper and i cant calm down everday i try to but i cant!!!
and i really want him but this girl likes him too and my sister likes him too and my sister always gets the guys

please help me guys!!!!

If you like this guy, & you like him back..who cares what people think about him? If he's a pervert, then yeah, he has some serious issues, but who's to say you won't like the way he is with you while dating?

Just go out with him if you like him. Fuck what people think because you have to date him, not them.

Okay, i'm 15/f
I cheated on my boyfriend, all i did was kiss this other guy. But thats not important, he says he's still in love with me and wants to get back with me but he still has trusting issues, now his best friend is also my friend, and thats how i know this. But he said I should do something to show him he can trust me, and that i'm worth another chance. I want to do something romantic, he is coming to cedar point with me and my family this weekend, but we most likely will be alone most, if not all, of the day. So, any ideas?

There really isn't anything you can do to instantly gain somebody's trust back, especially after cheating on them. You're lucky for the second chance he gave you.

You're going to have to do a lot. Try not looking at other guys, talking about other guys, or thinking about other guys. Make everything about your boyfriend & your relationship. If you go out with your friends, call him & let him know that you're not doing anything wrong. It takes a lot to gain trust back, so you need to be willing to work super hard.

Things have happened to me and everything sucks. People hate me and I feel like everyone else fits in and I really lack that. I don't know anymore but I've never been happy and its starting to make me want to end everything and not have to deal with guys that don't like me and girls that hate me and yeah guys that hate me. I really need help I think.

Get yourself professional help. If you sit here & do nothing about it, nothing is going to get better for you.

what are some songs that are 2 songs put together? such as the song that is a combination of bittersweet symphony by the verve and dirt off your shoulder by jay-z.

just some other good examples are what i'm looking for.

thanks! :)

Jay-Z and Linkin Park did a mixed CD with a few of their songs. The CD is called Collision Course, if you'd like to go pick it up.

Does anyone know what highschool courses will help me to get into psychology???

Intro To Pyschology.
Psychology.
AP Psychology.
Human Development.
Sociology.

Classes like that will help.

I'm 14 and I think I have Carpeltunnel.. Last night was the first time but I was on the computer and my pinky finger started going numb. Than my whole hand started going numb, and I was typing and using it then I started getting pains from my wrist to elbow... and when i do certain things it hurts wicked bad. Is that carpeltunnel?

It could be.

But none of us here are professionals, so you need to see a doctor.

do u have to have had your period to get plesure from masturbateing?????

sorry if that was a dumb question
Thanks!

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No.

ok so I have hair on my arms and since I have brown hair, you guessed it brown arm hair. Buut I was wondering how you could loose the hair on your arms.( But not waking or shaving) something to not notice my hair! Like if I get a tan if you wont notice the brown hair that much. And How long would you have to stay in the sun to get a nice brown tan without geting burnt. What kind of suntanning lotion should I use because my skin is very sensitive and what is a good temperature to go to the beach and get a tan. Sorry for asking so much. But I need help, because when school starts I want to look good!!!!!!

They have body hair bleach kits at places like Wal*Mart & Target that you can buy. I'm not sure how much they cost, but my friend used it & she said it works really well.

excuse me....
but you should see some of the other questions on here that are not problems
obviously advicenators staff didn't care, because my question is still up there!

so, keep your negativity to yourself

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