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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.
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Hey, ok well ok im 14, and i recently lost my virginity a few days ago. I didnt use a condom, and im scared. Do you think i could be pregnant? But we probably only had sex for a minute. Please help im wooooried!!
If anyone tells you other wise, they are just dumb. But yes, of course you could be pregnant. Having sex without a condom is a sure fire way to get yourself pregnant or with an STD.
So yes, I think you COULD be pregnant. It doesn't matter if he finished in you or not how long he was in you, you had sex without a condom. When you have sex, no matter if you do it with or without a condom AND birth control there is still ALWAYS a chance at getting pregnant. Always.
This is going to be harsh, you should be worried. You're only 14 years old. You really shouldn't even be having sex. But I'm not going to judge because that's how old I was my first time. Of course I regret having sex that young.. but shit happens.
For now, you need to chill out. If you worry about it your period will come later than expected and you'll be even more freaked out.
Wait until you are due to get your period. If you don't get it within a week of your due date, take a pregnancy test.
my boyfriend told me, i have the curiousity of a cat but the heart of a saint.
can someone translate it? i have no idea what it means, please. (: thanks loves.
It means you are nosy. (Curiosity of a cat)
But you are a very good person; whole hearted, sweet (Heart of a saint)
ey im the kid that you answered back to by being honest and i just wanted to clear up that it has been a few months since i last did this, but i still cant get her out of my mind. So thats why i am asking for your help.
It seems to me as though you are completely infatuated with this girl. I personally wouldn't go as far as saying you are in love with her, because most highschool kids don't know what love is. But then again, I claim to be in love but what do I know? I'm young and stupid just like everyone else.
Anyway. Start talking to her don't tell her that you like her, that you are meant for eachother. Talk to her be her friend. Try to take baby steps into building a relationship. Don't jump right into the "Be my girlfriend, we're meant for eachother, why don't you see it" yadda yadda yadda. Take it SLOOOOOW.
If she shows no interest in you, I would definately advise for you to leave her alone. Because the more you nagg her about having a relationship the more she is going to be pushing herself away from you. Which, clearly, isn't what you want to happen. But honestly, you need to give her time.
Best of luck to you =)
-Emily
i got my belly button pierced a little over a year ago and i took it out a couple of weeks ago. how long is it going to take to close up?
should i put neosporin on it or what should i do?
It should take a few weeks. Putting neosporin on it should help speed up the process a bit and help for there not to be a scar.
It should be at the MOST a month until it is fully closed.
Hi. I like this girl alot and she wont realize how much we are meant to be. Yes i am only in highschool but i know she is right. I told her several times but she just keeps saying not now or i cant see you as more. I need to know how i can tell her that we are meant to be. Please help.
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Please don't take this the wrong way, I'm going to be more honest than I'm sure anyone here is going to be.
You like her alot, you tell her all the time that you are meant to be together. Did you ever think that maybe she doesn't like you that way? You keep going on and on about how you two are meant to be.. If I were in her position I would honest to God be freaked out by your actions and your persistance for a relationship with her.
By her saying "Not now" or "I can't see you anymore" take it as her way of saying "No, we shouldn't be together" or "No, I don't want to be with you, not now or ever."
You've told her, so your problem isn't how to tell her that you are meant to be together. She already knows that you think that.
You need to let her go. If you've been telling her numerous times that you should be together and she isn't giving into any of it, then you really should let her go and TRY to move on. If she hasn't realized it now, then honestly she may NEVER realize it.
Let her go, find someone that is going to give you the time of day, someone who is WORTH your time, your love, your dedication... She doesn't seem to be it. If she is truely right for you, and she felt it too she would be with you by now.
Maybe in time in a few months, years maybe she might realize that you are the one for her. But she isn't right now. Give her time.
Ok I don't really get this so could someone please explain to me how to do it thanks...
Rewrite the equation in slop-intercept form.
y-3=-2(x+1)
Thanks!
Okay, slope intercept formula is y=mx+b
M is the slope
B is the intercept (line crossing the y axis)
Do it just like regular algebra. And use the PEMDAS thing to help you along (Parenthasis, Exponents, Multiplication, Division, Addition, Subtraction)
y-3= -2(x+1) ---> Start with 2(x+1)
y-3= -2x-2
Now, add 3 to both sides so that it cancels out the -3 that is next to Y
y= -2x-2+3 or y=-2x+1
Do you get it yet?
It's a fairly simple question (I think) but I need some help! You could say I'm a pretty preppy girl... not like (omg I'm really flippin annoying and too perky and I'm stuck-up!) not that kind of preppy. But, I wear polos, jeans, cute shirts from like... american eagle, aeropostale, abercrombie and fitch etc., sweatpants all that stuff that's so called, "preppy". I also like chucks... converse, whatever you would like to call them! But... some people say that converse don't really go with the whole preppy look.
What do you think? Would it be okay if I got them?
Thanks always, Christine
First of all, don't listen to those assholes.
Chucks are the best mother fucking kicks EVER. I wear polos and girlie "preppy" things and I wear my beat up black and white Chucks all the time!
And plus you'd be different from every other stuck up preppy bitch in your school that wears like those 9000 dollar sneakers from A|X (armani exchange) or wherever else they buy their shoes from. I think it's a cute look. I
Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then.
Yes. It is still rape. Regardless of whether or not they have sex before with eachother, and are sexually active and are addicted to sex with eachother, if someone refuses sex and says NO and the guy FORCES himself on her, it is considered rape.
Okay I am a bit scared right now. I have been having sex I am on the patch and when having a sex my boyfriend always uses a condom. Well He is in college and he only comes back on weekends. The weekend (last weekend) he came back was also week 4 (my period week) from the patch. So I decided to skip over to another patch instead of taking the week off. So it was week 1 again. Well, the next week I took the patch off, this is what would have been week 2 but I changed it to the off week so I could still have my period, I decided one day after my patch change day to do this (patch change day= wednesday, day I changed it= thursday)It is now sunday and I still have not had my period. Could I be pregnant, or is it just that I was not supposed to have it yet or something else? Pleas help me!!
Well, the entire point to being on the patch or the pill is to REGULATE your period. So, by not using the patch when you don't want to is just screwing up your period.
He used a condom, so you really should be fine.
Wait a few days and see if you get your period. If you don't get it by Wednesday, then take a pregnancy test.
Also, you might want to see your gynocologist to make sure that everything is okay.
Really though, you shouldn't be skipping around with the pill OR the patch. Cause that's what gets you pregnant. You need to have a set schedule so that way things like this doesn't happen.
I highly doubt you are pregnant but wait it out and then take a pregnancy test to be sure. If you get your period this week, which you should, when you are done continue using the patch again and chang it EXACTLY when you are supposed to. Even with the pill, skipping a day can get you pregnant.
Also, you need to chill out. Because the fact that you are freaking out over it isn't going to help you any. Stress causes your period to be late. If your period is late as it is, you'll freak out even more. So, calm down kiddo. It's all good in the hood. You should be fine.
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When December comes, it will be 2 years since my first period..however, my flow isn't even...like I get it every 2-3 months...It's unexpected..I don't know what to do because I don't want to tell my mom to take me to a gynocologist...however I don't want to have a fertility problem when I'm older. I don't know what to do..should I just wait a couple more months to see if it straightens out or should I take action now?
The first 3-4 years you have your period, it NEVER comes on a regular basis. So what you are experiencing now is completely normal and nothing to visit the gynocologist about. It's normal and happens to all girls who just got their period. I've had mine for nearly 5 years and sometimes it STILL isn't on a regular basis. There IS a way to fix this and that is by going on birth control pills. However, that is something you would have to discuss with your mother and a gynocologist.
I'm almost out of space on my c: drive. is there anyway i could move files from the c: drive to the d: drive?
Of course there's a way.
Select all the files you want and drag them into D: Open up drive C, select the files, open drive D then drag and drop them into D: it should take a few minutes depending on how many files and how big the files are.
I don't know... For some reason I feel you're one of the few columnists I can trust for good advice...
I was just wondering for your read on something. I've known a girl for 6 months now. We're online talkers, that's it. Well, for the first time ever, she said "I love you", and said it twice in the convo. I acted as if I took it as a joke. What I'm wondering is if it means anything at all, be it that we're friendlier or what...
Thanks! :)
Sorry this took me so long to answer, if it took long at all. My internet has been down for a while at my house due to a virus so I'm answering this from my aunt's house.
Anyway, well I'm glad to hear that you can trust me for good advice =) I'm very happy to hear that. Thank you.
You must be aware that most young aged girls and guys have a hard time distuinguishing the difference between love and infatuation. So, maybe what she's saying she does mean it as "I love you, I am in love with you" or it could just be her thinking that she has very strong feelings for you and THINKS she may love you. Also, I know alot of people that will say "I love you" but mean it as "I love you as a person, as my friend". Whenever someone says I love you, it always means SOMETHING. However that meaning can be greater or lesser of what they want it to really mean. They way you took it was of a lesser meaning. She could mean it as something greater. But the way to find out for sure is if you were to ask her. Ask her what exactly she meant by saying that she loved you. Did she mean it as I love you as a friend, as a person, etc. or I am in love with you.
I'm sorry if that was at all confusing, but I do hope that it helped.
-Emily
Hey,
I'm 16 and I want to try contact lenses. My optician says it's all OK. I was just wondering if anyone had any really good/bad experiences with contact lenses they could tell me about, or if there are tips any of you might have? Are they really weird to get used to? I have a real thing about touching my eyes, I don't like it at all. Will I find this really difficult? What happens if you can't get it out?
It takes about a week to get used to putting them in and taking them out, but it's really all worth it.
You just have to make sure your hands are clean before you put your contacts in, and make sure they aren't inside out. Your eyedoctor will show you which way is inside out and which way isn't. THey will show you how to put them in, which way is easiest etc. For the first few days you will find this difficult. But I promise you WILL get used to it.
If you cant' get them out, which happens sometimes but not that often, just put eyedrops in your eyes, keep your eye closed for a few minutes and rub your eye then try taking it out again. NEVER shower with contacts on, they get stuck to your eye and it's extremely uncomfortable.
If you aren't comfortable touching your eyes, then I honestly wouldn't suggest getting contacts, because you obviously have to touch your eye every day twice a day if not more than that.
It feels awkward being able to see without your glasses on that's for sure. But I like having contacts better than glasses though.
is it really a smart investment to buy dinar? if it was a scam why is everyone spending ungodly amounts of money on ebay for it? i am thinking about it. what do you guys think?
Well first, it's spelled DINER. Before you invest in a diner, you need to know how to spell it.
Anyway, diners aren't exactly the best things to buy out. Because, sometimes when it's under new management you get less business and end up paying more in the end. So, I don't think it's a good idea.
when i put on deoderant in the morning before i put my shirt on, it gets all over the shirt while i am putting it on. if i try to do it when my shirt is on, it is difficult to lift up my shirt. i do not want to use a spray deoderant, so please don't suggest that. how can i put it on eaisly with out getting it all over my shirt?
Happens to me ALL the time.
What you do, take the bottom part of your shirt and flip it inside out so it's kinda folded so there is like a flap then put your shirt on that way so then the deoderant gets on the inside of your shirt instead of the outside. If that doesn't make any sence to you then try putting your deoderant on AFTER you put your shirt on.
If you had to pick one over the other, would you pick diamond earrings or a pearl necklace?
earrings--http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=52U4&start_id=66&CategoryId=501&category=Diamonds&
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necklace--
http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57I5&start_id=91&CategoryId=66&category=Jewelry&
I'm more of a pearls kinda gal. And you are aware that the pearl necklace is 15,000 dollars and the earrings are 9,500?
Cause that's a bit much for jewlery. But whatever floats your boat or sinks your ship.
I think the necklace is way prettier and much classier than the earrings.
how can i get my site out there for people to come to it to ask me adivce? :) thanks.
Just keep answering as many questions as you can to the best of your ability and you'll get your name out there. But don't put your name in people's inboxes and tell them to ask you things. That's spamming and you'll be banned for that.
i was just wondering if this makes me fat.. because i think i am.. im 16 i weigh 107 and i wear size 5 pants.. just wondering what you think please be honest.
Well, it would help if you gave us your height. But a size 5 in pants is NOT bad at all. That's actually a really good size. And weighing 107 is really, not alot at all. That sounds skinny to me.
k well I am a 14/f and i have been thinking about sex i am a virgin but i have not kissed anyone any guy i mean but i want to it is just i am scared that i will mess up i think a bout sex all the time is this normal
Most definately. Your hormones are racing, you're a young teenager. I don't know what teenaged guy OR girl hasn't thought about sex at least once. It's normal to think about it, but you shouldn't be thinking that you're going to have it any time soon. You're still very young and you haven't had your first kiss! You need a first kiss, a guy to be in love with before you can take yourself to that level!