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help 14 year old
k well I am a 14/f and i have been thinking about sex i am a virgin but i have not kissed anyone any guy i mean but i want to it is just i am scared that i will mess up i think a bout sex all the time is this normal
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Please the worst thing you can do is have sex and not be with someone you've loved and dated for a very long time!!!! I mean I was like 13 when I wanted to but I mean espically if you've never kissed someone befor then definatally a big mistake! Dont try to impress him and say yeah lets have sex bc it really can make or break someone! So its ok to daydream or think but consider all youll be loosing! I hope I helped
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just because you think about sex(which is yes, completly normal lots of ppl do it) doenst mean your ready. personally, i think you should only do it when your completly ready and able to share it with someone who you like a lot, or even love so when you look back you wont catch yourself saying "omg i cant believe i did it with HIM!!!" ya know what i mean? good luck
PeAcE
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yea its normal to think about sex, just dont become a tramp. And its kinda funny that your thinkin about sex yet you havent even kissed someone yet. i suggest you start out slow.. maybe hold a guys hand first?
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Perfectly normal, please don't worry! Hey, I haven't kissed a guy either..it'll happen to you though, one day, don't worry! But for now, live like you're meant to do, don't worry about being single or having sex-related thoughts, it's all part of this wonderful thing called puberty and hormones are freaking out! Evil little things!
x Steph x
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Teenager? Thinking about sex?
Yeah it's normal.
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yeah its called puberty...
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Nope no offense but that means you are a weird slut and always thinks about sex but hey remember to use a condom personally i would make the guy use trojan.
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This is normal at your age but please dont do the sex thing. You have your whole life to do that. Its ok to think but dont act it out-concentrate on school-that will come later in life
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Thinking about sex is totally normal. Every girl goes through this..
They think about it then they wanna have sex and then.. yeah..
it's all good. it's normal.
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Hey,
Your jumping ahead hun...
you havn't even kissed a guy yet
you shouldn't be worrying about sex...yet
just take things one step at a time..
its normal for teens to think about sex all the time..really..it comes up in school convo's all the time for me..wether we're joking or not..we just have raging hormones..and we cant get sex off of our minds..but that doesnt mean we're ready to go out and screw..
:) pce
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hey if i were you i wouldnt rush anything.. i mean you havnt even kissed and your 14 so i dont see why your even thinking about sex no offense but anyways you shouldnt be scared that you'll mess up its not hard just go with the flow im sure youll do fine [♥]
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Down girl ;) It's called hormones and boy have they kicked in. It's normal to think about sex and be curious over something you have never done but heard about. It's normal to think about boys 24/7 too at your age. Hck, if you weren't I would be telling you to see someone.
Kissing is natural when it happens you will know how to tilt your head, copy movements, and enjoy yourself. Take it slow and as long as you do not shove your tongue down someone's throat you cannot mess this up.
You'll know what to do when the time comes and believe me everybody is nervous about this. The right guy will come along and being 14 and not having kissed a soul is fine. You're very young still. Thinking about sex all the time is FINE and NATURAL for a 14-year-old boy or girl. Acting on those feelings unless you are ready (and nobody is at your age) is wrong. You're fine, so relax.
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Most definately. Your hormones are racing, you're a young teenager. I don't know what teenaged guy OR girl hasn't thought about sex at least once. It's normal to think about it, but you shouldn't be thinking that you're going to have it any time soon. You're still very young and you haven't had your first kiss! You need a first kiss, a guy to be in love with before you can take yourself to that level!
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