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I don't know... For some reason I feel you're one of the few columnists I can trust for good advice...
I was just wondering for your read on something. I've known a girl for 6 months now. We're online talkers, that's it. Well, for the first time ever, she said "I love you", and said it twice in the convo. I acted as if I took it as a joke. What I'm wondering is if it means anything at all, be it that we're friendlier or what...
Thanks! :)
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Sorry this took me so long to answer, if it took long at all. My internet has been down for a while at my house due to a virus so I'm answering this from my aunt's house.
Anyway, well I'm glad to hear that you can trust me for good advice =) I'm very happy to hear that. Thank you.
You must be aware that most young aged girls and guys have a hard time distuinguishing the difference between love and infatuation. So, maybe what she's saying she does mean it as "I love you, I am in love with you" or it could just be her thinking that she has very strong feelings for you and THINKS she may love you. Also, I know alot of people that will say "I love you" but mean it as "I love you as a person, as my friend". Whenever someone says I love you, it always means SOMETHING. However that meaning can be greater or lesser of what they want it to really mean. They way you took it was of a lesser meaning. She could mean it as something greater. But the way to find out for sure is if you were to ask her. Ask her what exactly she meant by saying that she loved you. Did she mean it as I love you as a friend, as a person, etc. or I am in love with you.
I'm sorry if that was at all confusing, but I do hope that it helped.
-Emily
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