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Hey! Im Nicole. This is my second advice column. I really ♥ to give advice. I am rated pretty high here too, even though ive only answered about 260 questions. I have pretty much answered every type of question && i can certainly give you some advice. It may not always be what you want to hear, but i'll give you wat you need to hear. Also if your having trouble with finding something on the net, i am really good at that! haha. well please feel free to ask me anything! id be really glad to help you!

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advice

has anyone read the book: ttyl ?
is it good? dont tell me about it im just wondering if its really good or not...whats ur opinion on it?
thanx

yeah, i read it. its one of my favorite books.

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I'm going on vacation in a few days and I need some good music to put on my mp3 player. I listen to pop and rock music. Does anyone know some good songs? Thanks

hmm okay.
-going crazy (natalie)
-dont phunk with my heart (black eyed peas)
-dont cha (the pussycat dolls)
-you & i collide (howie day)
-mr.brightside (the killers)
-heaven (los lonely boys)
-somebody told me (the killers)
-behind these hazel eyes (kelly clarkson)
-american idiot (green day)
-hollaback girl (gwen stafani)
-we belong together (mariah carey)
-1985 (bowling for soup)
-failure by design (brand new)
-bo bice songs are great too.

♥ nicole

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would you continue to hook up with someone when they just want to have fun and not settle down but your getting real feelings for them?

do you think you would try to continue to have fun (because the guy and i had a lot of fun kissing) and try to keep the mindset of no emotions..just friends? what would you do?

nope, you should have someone who wants to have fun, and settle down. & someone that actually really likes you. it seems when people try to have "no feelings" for someone, it never works. especially if your hooking up with the person. so thats my opinion. take it or leave it. good luck.

♥ nicole

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one of my really good friends and i got into a fight with this other girl from school (shes now my enemy). and now my really good friend is becoming RLY good friends with the person we got into a fight with. i really dislike that....ive tried talkin to mi friend but shes always like 'oh im going to the movies w/ her today' and my friend CLAiMS she doesnt like her. but now shes doing EVERYTHING w/ her. and when i ask her why shes like 'oh its because im bored and have nothing better to do' and i have a feeling thats not why. and its really bugs and annoys me. my friend is always talking bad stuff about that girl and whenever she does something with her she just says 'oh great...im gonna hang out w/ her today'. i would always ask why and she would always be like 'cos im bored and have nothing better to do'. that cant be the reason. if she was bored why didnt she call me? her being friends with my enemy really bothers me. everytime i try to talk to her about it she denies being friends with her. What should i do?

hello! okay well normally, id say talk to your friend. but apperantly you've already done that. so i guess im a little confused because didnt you both get in a fight with the girl she hangs out with now? then why are those two friends? i guess thats what i dont get. but anyways. maybe try to talk to her about it in a different way. tell her what you told me. that if she was so bored, she couldve talked to you. && tell her flat out that it bugs you that she does this. how about you invite her to do things with you. and if she tells you she already has plans with the other girl. then say, "you say you dont like her, and yet you choose to hang out with her & not me." and i really dont know what else you can do. if shes acting this way, maybe you should hang out with someone else for a little while perhaps? well i hoped i helped a little.

♥ nicole

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Alright, I've been bulimic for like 8 months...throwin up about 3 times a week...how long do i have to not throw up to not be considered bulimic?
I RATE!!!

yeesh. okay, well i really dont know about this. but i think that if you just dont throw up for awhile, then you'd be okay. people who arent bulimic dont really throw up unless their like sick sick or whatever. so if you dont want to be considered bulimic just try to stop altogether. i know im probably making it sound too easy, but i really dont know what its like, because im not bulimic. but just try your best to not throw up, for as long as you can.

good luck!

♥ nicole

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Right very soon i am going to meet my girlfriend for the first time. And I don't know what to wear!! Disaster!! Should i go smart and casuall.. Or should i go formal dressed (trosuers and dress shoes) I dont know any ideas??
All help appreciated
anthony

it probably depends where your going. but id probably say casual and be comfertable. just dont freak out about it too much, do whatever feels best.

good luck! ♥ nicole

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hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do?

i pretty much agree with everyone else. try to find someone else that has qualities like your cousin. your cousin prolly wouldn't like you, because he would think of you as family. but who knows, maybe he thinks the same way as you. but still, its best you just forget about your crush on your cousin. & try to find someone like him, thats not a realitive. =) hope i helped.
♥ nicole

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i've had my period for over two years. the last two times i've had it its been really really light. like i don't have to change my pad at all during the day and by the third day its barely there. is this normal?

yeah thats pretty normal. it takes awhile until it goes into a normal cycle or pattern or whatever i think. lol.

♥ nicole

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ew this think is so gay! everytime i answer a question this thing called "chatspeak" comes up and it says that i cant use "lol" or "cuz" ... because it isnt proper english? like wtf is that?! does anyone know lol!

this pretty much happens to me a lot. and you can use those words, just not too much. i think its so people can actually understand what your saying on here. so just try not to say those words as much, i know it sucks. and i dont really get it either. but i hope i helped.
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hey guys! im looking for a new s/n for aim and i just cant seem to think of one! I love pink, umm... well anything actually. If you come up with some good ones i'll rate you nicely! =D please ++ thanks ♥

add spaces or exz & ohz or numbers or whatever to them kay?

pinkprincess
prettyinpink
pinksparkles
pinkpolkadotz
xo *name here* xo
pinksweetie
yoursunshine xo

lol, i dont know. those kinda sucked. im sorry but if you add stuff like i said, maybe they'll be cute. well anyways, i tried.

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I am a 11 year old female and my boyfriend is a 15 year old male. I want to have sex. Should I?

omg. thats wayyy too young. so since your asking, NO. your going to regret it, and i dont even get why your thinking of having sex @ your age. thats ridiculous. sorry, but seriously. dont try to grow up too fast ok? your only 11 & why do you have a bf thats 15 anyways? your still a kid, whats the hurry?

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hey , well this guy has told alot of people he liked me but was scared & he was afraid that he got on my nerves too much that thats why he hasnt already asked me 2 be his girl friend what should i do ? plz help if u can thx 4 tryin !

well do you like him? if you do, why dont YOU ask him out? then he'd know that he doesnt get on your nerves. or you can just tell him that he doesnt get on your nerves. did you want him to ask you out? im kind of confused here.. lol. but oh well, i did try. good luck.

♥ nicole

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my brother is 17 and he just came out. i mean he told us he was gay. im shocked and i dont know what to do because me and him are close but i feel okward now. im having a hard time accepting this. what do i do?

you kind of just need to learn to accept that he wont change && thats who he is. && he is still your brother && your guys closeness shouldn't change because of it. I know you feel akward about it, i know i would too. but i think you should just not let that affect your friendship. plus gay guys seem fun to have as your friends (i know hes your brother, but same thing). you can always talk to him & tell him it might take awhile for you to get used to this situation. i know i dont really believe in gay marriges or people from the same sex being together, but if it was my sibling, i would just try to understand & accept it best i could. i dont know really, but i hoped i helped a little bit.

♥ nicole

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ok im really confused and i REALLLLY like matt ((hes this guy that i goes to the place where i dance and hes always my partner))...but i kinda like Max and MarC ((which are like my BESTEST guy friends)) and like they all like me and i like dunno what to do..if enyone has adive PLEASE HELP..cuz i dont wanna hurt enyones feelings!

well i was going to say that you should choose matt, but then i read your additional info. and now i think thats not such a good idea. well you dont want to hurt any of your guy friends either, so that kind of sucks. because if you choose one of them you might hurt the other one. so, im thinkin just see whoever asks you out first because if they like you, they will, right? or think of which one you like more or which one would be a better boyfriend or whatever. and if you do really like matt, give that a shot, even if hes kind of far away!

hope this helped a little, good luck! *

♥ nicole

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Does anyone know any ways to loose weight in 3 days cause o have a dance on friday and its monday night. Any Ideas?
From Jess

hmm ok, well i dont know really but you can try to just excersize a lot, eat healthier && go swimming && stuff.. ive tried that for one day *nothing happened the next day* so i really dont know if that will work in 3 days. but just try your best to work out & stuff. just do whatever that will make you feel confident on friday!!

good luck hun!
♥ nicole

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any one have any good 2 line quotes...
like " lets be nothing...
i heard it last forever"
somethyn like that
I RATE HIGH

i'm just a raggedy ann girl
living in this barbie world

your the one who makes me smile
when i dont want to

just hit play and watch
my life fall apart


lol, i dont know, is that what you meant? well theres a few... if you want more, or if you needed somethin different, leave me a message in my inbox! && i'll give ya something better!

♥ nicole

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My boyfriend is moving and I really really like him, and we have been going out for 3 years and I wont see him anymore should I break up with him or not!

im sure long distances r really hard.. && i think u shud probably break up && see what else is out there. but if u REALLY love him. then try && make it work. but chances r it wont. long distance relationships seem very difficult. ya i probably didnt help too much, but i hope i did.
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13/f
What should you talk about when your on a date or movies etc?? Im always scared its going to be uncomfterable and its going to be silent! please help! i give EASY 5s!

talk about yourself && ask questions about him. just anything that comes up. =)

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I just got new liquid eye liner. I thought it would be easier than the other stuff, but it isn't. When I put it on it looks weird and I can normally fix it but it still doesn't look right. Are there any tips I can use to make this stuff not look so gross? I'm pretty good with make-up, but when it comes to this stuff, I can't get it to look right.

i like crayon eyeliner. it works the best for me. i dont really like liquid eye liner. but thats just me.
♥ nicole

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i'm 13 and my best friend likes the guy i like and he likes her back..but they're not going out. so my friend and i were talking online right? heres the convo
jamicanmecrazy13: ok well i wus talkin to phillip and i wus like so who do you like and he goes i dunno and he goes you? and i go i dont like any1 atleast not any more and he goes who did you use to like and i go you should no and he goes o yah *him* and i go yah i dont know y tho and he goes how cum? and i go well theres no point in wastin my time on a guy that dusni't like me and he goes poor *him* and i go y poor *him* like 6 gurls like him and he goes yah but your the only gurl that he likes and i go wut ever and y would he like me and he goes b/c ur the only gurl that he liked and that liked him bak and i go no ell likes him and he goes yah but he likes you more he always has and i go yah shure and he told me that that is wut *him* told him at his house and i go shure and so he said for me to text *him* and see if evrything that he said is true and it wus
her: ru done readin?
me: cool
her: ooh sry i forgot that you liked him im sooooo sry babe i feel so bad
me:oh its ok

but it wasn't ok i was feeling horrible and i was so sad. like beyond sad like hysterically sad and so now i dont know what to do. please help.

um, sorry but i didnt understand that. explain better to me in my inbox kay? and then i'll try && help. =) bye

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