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one of my really good friends and i got into a fight with this other girl from school (shes now my enemy). and now my really good friend is becoming RLY good friends with the person we got into a fight with. i really dislike that....ive tried talkin to mi friend but shes always like 'oh im going to the movies w/ her today' and my friend CLAiMS she doesnt like her. but now shes doing EVERYTHING w/ her. and when i ask her why shes like 'oh its because im bored and have nothing better to do' and i have a feeling thats not why. and its really bugs and annoys me. my friend is always talking bad stuff about that girl and whenever she does something with her she just says 'oh great...im gonna hang out w/ her today'. i would always ask why and she would always be like 'cos im bored and have nothing better to do'. that cant be the reason. if she was bored why didnt she call me? her being friends with my enemy really bothers me. everytime i try to talk to her about it she denies being friends with her. What should i do?
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hello! okay well normally, id say talk to your friend. but apperantly you've already done that. so i guess im a little confused because didnt you both get in a fight with the girl she hangs out with now? then why are those two friends? i guess thats what i dont get. but anyways. maybe try to talk to her about it in a different way. tell her what you told me. that if she was so bored, she couldve talked to you. && tell her flat out that it bugs you that she does this. how about you invite her to do things with you. and if she tells you she already has plans with the other girl. then say, "you say you dont like her, and yet you choose to hang out with her & not me." and i really dont know what else you can do. if shes acting this way, maybe you should hang out with someone else for a little while perhaps? well i hoped i helped a little.
♥ nicole
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