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would you?
would you continue to hook up with someone when they just want to have fun and not settle down but your getting real feelings for them?
do you think you would try to continue to have fun (because the guy and i had a lot of fun kissing) and try to keep the mindset of no emotions..just friends? what would you do?
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alright the guy probably doesnt have true feelings for you if he only wants to hook up.. if i knew i wouldnt get too involved with this guy, and expect so much from him, id keep having fun with him. theres really no harm. but if your developing feelings for him, its best to stay away before you end up with a broken heart. dont expect him to have all his attention on you even though yinz are hooking up. he could be flirting and kissing other girls, and if your ok with that, then thats fine.
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I've been there before, and I regretted it..so def. just stay friends. Its for the best.
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Friends with benefits almost always end badly.
Making out with a guy isn't exactly going to help smother your feelings for him.
I would try talking to him. See if maybe your feelings are being reciprocated. If they are, lucky you! You can continue your fun on a higher, and ultimatley more rewarding level.
If not, than you should break off any kind of contact that isn't purely platonic.
I know it's hard, but ultimatly, talking about it is the only way to truley resolve something.
I hope I helped.
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i would have sex with the guy
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nope, you should have someone who wants to have fun, and settle down. & someone that actually really likes you. it seems when people try to have "no feelings" for someone, it never works. especially if your hooking up with the person. so thats my opinion. take it or leave it. good luck.
♥ nicole
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Ugh, been theRe, done this. USUALLY it ends up in ONE paRtneR wanting moRe. WHY it ends up that way?? Because life is unfaiR. Honestly, if you feel the few nights of passion and pleasuRe is woRth teRRible heaRtache.. keep it up. If not, I wouldn't suggest it, Hun. :)
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I wouldnt hook up with them anymore because even if i had feelings for them they dont like me back and they are probably a player and who wants someone that doesnt care about them? Hope I helped!
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