i have this rly good friend. but now....shes different?? she always blackmails me. 'if you dont tell me this i'll tell everyone ....' and now shes like best friends with my worst enemy!! she always talks about my enemy behind her back even though shes friends with her. and i have a feeling she talks behind my back too. i dont really wanna loose a friend, but if i talk to her about it she woould just make up excuses or say a nasty comeback to me.
what should i do?
I definitely undeRstand wheRe you'Re coming fRom on that though; you appeaR to be a veRy pleasent peRson to tRy to keep things smooth afteR being put thRough so much cRap.
Honestly, if it weRe me.. I wouldn't put up with heR anymoRe. FiRst of all.. if she Really says that EXACTLY: "if you don't tell me this, I'll tell eveRyone...." then all you'Re doing is feeding heR moRe shit to use against you next time. You wanna make it stop? Then quit talking. Tell this bitch to kiss youR ass, because she is NOT youR keepeR, and she most DEFINITELY holds ABSOLUTELY NOOOOOOOOOOOO authoRity oveR you!!!! If she thReatens to tell something.. then say something smaRt back like, "I'll beat ya to it" - this way she will feel telling the secRet has no affect on you if you could so easily go and blab it too, ya know??
To be PERFECTLY HONEST, if it weRe ***ME***... I would just sock this whoRe in heR fucking eye socket!!!!!! But I do NOT suggest that to you... it would be an unwise and inappRopRiate action.
Just use youR head, and tRy youR best to go about this matuRely. Just shake heR off, ignoRe heR, and make like you don't caRe. WhateveR you do.. do NOT give in... if you do.. this will go on foReveR.......
CheerGurl1064 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 2:05 pm: wow you really a bad problem. What I say is try to drift apart from her if you know what I mean like don't invite her over your house don't eat lunch with her and stuff like that.
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