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My boyfriend is moving and I really really like him, and we have been going out for 3 years and I wont see him anymore should I break up with him or not!
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im sure long distances r really hard.. && i think u shud probably break up && see what else is out there. but if u REALLY love him. then try && make it work. but chances r it wont. long distance relationships seem very difficult. ya i probably didnt help too much, but i hope i did.
♥ nicole
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Well you probably don't have much of a choice. The fact that he's moving and you oviously can't move with him pretty much kills the relationship on its own but you don't not want to break up and feel like you cheating on him when you finally move on. Explain to him that the only reason your breaking up with him is because he's moving and you don't want a long distance relationship and you don't want the guilt when you move on. If he's as good of a guy as he seems, he'll understand.
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yes it's definatly time to break up. You can still be friends but hes movin and he will want to go out with new people. And you will probably want to too.
~~good luck~~
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wow, thats very hard to deal with 3 years in a long time! But if u feel comfortable and can trust him with a long disance relsonship than it's up to you but if u feel kinda stressed out about it i think you should talk to him for a while
xoxo
lex
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well..first off how old are you? will you be able to drive and see him...or old enough to take a train,bus, plane, etc to see him once a year? if that can be arranged and he can travel to you..there you have it..you can see each other every 6 months. if your going to be getting your lisense soon you can drive ..maybe meet him half way. maybe twice a year your parents can drive you out there...or you cann meet half way.
so if you can take a plane (for example)once a year to see him and he can do the same;...AND both your parents and his parents will drive out there once or twice a year....there you go...you can see each other 2-6 times a year. between that and talking on the phone,online,email....you might be able to keep it going.
3 yrs is a long time...dont give up now
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well 3 years is a long time and if you think you two can still keep in touch through mail and phone then i would keep him. I'm sure you will see him again. You could always scedual time during vacation. But if you think that it's not worth it then dump him. I personaly would just keep contact and still go out.
good luck!
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If you really like him, you'd at least try and give it a chance. I know you might be scared of losing him or get hurt from a long distance relationship, but it's worth a try. And after you try it out, you can always break up with him if it doesn't work out. Sometimes long distance relationships CAN work out if you both are willing and try hard to make it happen. You can still talk on the phone, keep in touch online, and try to make arrangements to see each other in person once in a while. And it also depends on your age. If you were close to adulthood and you were moving out soon, you two could move in together and all that jazz. But I'm assuming you're a young teen...mainly because most of these questions are from teens, so it might be a little tough. Just take a risk...you'll never get anywhere without taking risks so just go for it! Good luck!
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if your not going to see him anymore then freakin break up with him.. theres no point in being with somebody you wont see him.. Not unless your into a long distance relationship that most likely wont work out cause one of you guys will meet somebody else or one of you will cheat on one another... See its freakin POINTLESS.. Move on the best you can.. or try to find a way you will see eachother.. ♥ Dez
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If you still like him then don't break up with him. Before he moves find out ways to keep in contact with him and set times on the weekend or some time to see each other (if he didn't move too far.) Talk to him about it. If he still likes you, just try your best to keep in contact. You have been with him 3 years so I'm pretty sure you can trust him. Long distance relationships can work if you really try. Maybe one day you'll move in together. =)
♥ lAuRa
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