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Should I?
I am a 11 year old female and my boyfriend is a 15 year old male. I want to have sex. Should I?
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omg. thats wayyy too young. so since your asking, NO. your going to regret it, and i dont even get why your thinking of having sex @ your age. thats ridiculous. sorry, but seriously. dont try to grow up too fast ok? your only 11 & why do you have a bf thats 15 anyways? your still a kid, whats the hurry?
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First question: How long have you been going out? Even going out for five YEARS isn't enough for someone to have sex.
You are ELEVEN. I'm fifteen and I don't even DREAM of having sex until I'm MARRIED! He is 15 years old. Most 15 year old males want sex. I'm a 15 female myself. Why would a guy in high school date a middle schooler? (I'm assuming this from the ages you gave me) Maybe he IS different and he really DOES love you. But if that's the case, he will not have sex with you until you are old enough and ready.
So what if you want sex? That doesn't mean you should have sex. Everyone has urges, it's normal. Hormones kick in.
If you have to go online and ask for advice on whether you should have sex or not, I think you answered your own question: you are not ready.
Don't do something you will regret. You have your whole life to have sex. By having sex you will never have a 100% guarantee you will not have STDs or get pregnant. You know about STDs right? If you do, then you should be aware of the risks you are taking if you have sex. If you don't even know about STDs, you shouldn't even THINK about sex. HIV/AIDS is something that CANNOT be cured.
Having a baby is something you can't give back either. A baby is a life time commitment. It will ruin your education. You will never get to go out and party. And you will NOT have time to have sex either. Even if you had an abortion, the knowledge of you killing your own baby and never giving it a chance will stay with you forever. The only 100% guarantee is if you do NOT have sex. Do you really want to put yourself at risk and maybe even your boyfriend?
How do you know your boyfriend will be with you forever? What if you break up someday? What happens when you get married and you have to say to your husband "I've already had sex with some other dude already"? If you want to save something special for your future spouse, I'd say you should save your virginity.
You asked a question, and I answered it. You may like it, you may not. I'm not here to lecture you. I'm here to give you advice and help guide you through life's troubles. Nowhere is there something that says you have to listen to me. So if you don't want to listen to me, then so be it, it's your life.
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Well you are really young.. but if you really feel like you love your boyfriend. I guess the only advice I can give you is to use protection. Also if you have just started going out with your boyfriend I think you should wait a while. Because if you just started going out.. then im afraid he might be using you. but i dont know him so i dont want to judge him.
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NO!! Not to be rude but you are not suppose to be on this site. Sorry!!
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no you shouldnt- hes a lot older than you now but in 10 years the age difference wont be bad, but wait a couple more years at least until you feel more comfortable
if your asking for advice on this.. its probably not a good idea
good luck-
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terrible idea. you're way too young to even think of sex.
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no sweetie thats a bad idea you are way to young. you would regret it BIG TIME
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no yuou shouldnt your 11 hes 15 not to sound mean but you will probally break up afterwards any way and your 11 !! you have your whole life toworry about sex and btw later on if you were to tell a guy you had sex when you were 12 he eill think you are a slut. No offence
Hope i helped you with your question.
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Bad idea..
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