Ive been there.Trust me the guys will come soon enough you just have to be patient.Try to build up your confidence like walk with your chest out and have a huge smile on your face and act like you own the place! haha guys like it when girls have confidence in themselves,it shows that your not insecure about yourself and that your happy with who you are.If you eye a guy you want make eye contact and when you both do smile at him and casually walk over to him and introduce yourself,guys like it when girls make the first move,its kind of a turn on for them.Flirt a little bit if he says something funny,touch his arm while your both laughing.Compliment a guy,tell him that he has nice eyes or has a great sense of humor.If everything goes well,tell him if he ever wants to hang out to give you a call and slip him your number.You can pretty much meet guys anywhere the mall,movies,ice skating,etc.Just be yourself.Guys will come to you in no time,you just have to wait.Hope i could help hun!

♥ danielle

nope,you can get pregnant even if its your first time having sex.All it takes is one time.

♥ danielle

well i got the responses from www.songmeanings.com on what the songs mean:

LONDON BRIDGE:Okay I'm pretty sure about this and I've discussed this with a couple of people....warning in advance this might get a lil graphic.

Aztechya had it half right.

The song is about a guy who is enamored by her and wants her so badly that everytime he gets around her all he wants to do it go down and perform oral sex on her.

When you think about it the song is both catchy, smart, and pretty dirty all at once.

Here's why I think it:

Firstly, the entire song she is dominant. Explaining how cool she is, how cool her crew is, etc. The oral sex fits that. She doesn't go down people go down on her.

case in point:

When I come to the club step aside
Pop the seats don't be havin' me a line
VIP cause you know i gotta shine
I'm Fergie Ferg and me love you long time

Besides her line that "her lips make you wanna have a taste" which can be both the upstairs and downstairs lips there's the main chorus of the song:

How come everytime you come around
My London London Bridge wanna go down
Like
Londy-londy-londy wanna go down like
Londy-londy-londy we goin' down like

Axtechya was right that the "London Bridge" is a slang term for either the gooch (taint, a.b.c., whatever) or the area on a pair of panties that covers said area. So everytime this guy gets near that area he wants to go down like...

Now do this. Just say the London part over and over out loud and conciously think of the motion your tounge moves. The back and forth motion and flicks from the tip of the tounge touching the back of your teeth mimics the same motion when you perform oral sex.

Just a theory.

CANDY SHOP- well this is my theory i didnt get this one from songmeanings.com.Its no denying that this song is all about sex.I think its oral sex because 50 cent says "ill let you like the lollipop" meaning his penis "come on girl dont you stop keep going till you hit that spot whoa" then the guy performs oral sex on the girl.Its all about sexual desire towards one another.I dont like that song and i think its so degrading.


Hope that helps!

♥ danielle

my ex boyfriend was half british,he was born in america too.He ended up picking up an accent from his relatives who were british and carried the accent with them and at first he said he did it for fun but then it just caught on.Its so cute randomly he says "bloody" he has a very good accent.So try to pick it up from your relatives if you have it.You would really have to work on it alot though.Try getting books from a bookstore on british accents.You could maybe get a tutor?You could also study abroad at england in the summer and im sure youll pick up a pretty good amature accent they have alot of those programs for the summer. I found some websites for you if they help at all: http://www.cs.cf.ac.uk/fun/welsh/Lesson01.html
http://www.antimoon.com/forum/2002/219.htm
http://ask.metafilter.com/mefi/20898
http://www.antimoon.com/how/pronunc-how.htm
http://www.ukstudentlife.com/English/Study/Pronunciation.htm

I hope these could help!

♥ danielle

Aw im Ukranian too! :]

but the girl below me is right,new france is in canada and the english,french,and british people settled there ukranians werent certainly the first people in new france you might want to ask him what hes talking about because i woudl be totally confused too.I checked everywhere and i couldnt find anything on ukrianians and canada.I went on wikipedia and it said nothing about the Ukranians being the first people to settle in new france only that like they have some ukranian churches in canada? ill give you the link if you want to check it out:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ukrainian_diaspora


I hope i could help!


♥ danielle

ugh i hate when you have those urges :/ lol anyways,since it was his first time doing anything sexual with someone then theres no doubt that he thinks about it,so he could very well have those urges that you have.Probably everytime he sees you he remembers the things that went on between you too when you were together.You can just never forget your first sexual experiences, you just dont.

♥ danielle

for further reference DO NOT get ANY hair products by conair they never work and their cheap their pretty much a piece of crap that your wasting your money on,you need something thats more of a high quality.If you see a straightner that says "ceramic" on it chances are its a great shraightner those kind last a long time.For example,the gold flat iron shown in this picture http://www.sallybeauty.com/shop/default.asp-its the far left one works very well i had it and it lasted me a few years.I use "vial sassson ceramic strahightner" thats what it looks like:http://www.nextag.com/Vidal-Sasson-Sassoon-Ceramic-64345722/prices-html i got it from sallys beauty supplies store its amazing its my favorite straightner that ive had by far and i have a lifetime warranty so i can get a new one when the one i have breaks but i havent had to return it after about 2 years now and it still works as good as it did when i first got it.I would suggest if you have a beauty supply store near you (like sally's) then get your straightner there they have the best straightners.I found some websites that suggest had the best straightners:
http://www.salonlines.co.uk/advice/index.php?p=1&category_id=13&article_id=9
http://www.folica.com/appliances/straightener.htm
http://www.hairstraightening.net/Best-hair-straighteners.html

if you need anymore websites just let me know ;]

♥ danielle

if you just started your peiod then its normal to miss a few months it takes your body about 1-2 years to adjust to your period and have it come regualary so i wouldnt worry about it.If youve had your period for more then 3 years then i would suggest telling your mom/guardian whats going on and they can maybe take you too the doctors to see whats wrong.It could also be because of lots of stress and if your anorexic it really will screw up your body.

♥ danielle

not likely,guys just generally like porn and they love sex and the perverts that they are they love watching it.They may find a girl "attractive" in the pornos but they know the girls just a "fantasy",the men are happy with their girlfriends/wives so their lover shouldnt ever compare herself to the girls on tv,their fake.But,if so happens your boyfriend starts to watch pornos more then he should and just constantly talks about the girls in the movies then maybe i would suggest that its a good idea too just move on,hope i could help!

♥ danielle

seance- thats how it is spelled

http://www.soyouwanna.com/site/syws/seance/seance.html
http://www.askmen.com/fashion/how_to_100/125b_how_to.html
http://www.letsbespooked.co.uk/jargon%20buster_seance.html

♥ danielle

you shouldve used google ;]

http://www.healthboards.com/boards/archive/index.php/t-86138.html
http://www.seductionscience.com/seduction/g-spot-376.htm
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,pb47-p,00.html
http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa_100/115b_love_secrets.html
http://www.seasonsindia.com/marriage/sex_positions_sea.htm

those websites should do it,if you need more type in "what is the best position to stimulate the G-Spot"

♥ danielle

If you have on demand for comcast,theres a section called "fitness" theres a ton of exercise workouts there they have the cardio and pilates workouts which really sculpt your body and help you lose those love handles.Theres this one workout that targets love handles that i do,you lay on the ground in a position as if you were going to go sit up and put your hands behind your head and lift your shoulders off the ground then go right with your right arm to your left knee and hit it then go with your left arm to your right knee and hit it you could do a couple sets of that.

Try these websites also for more workout tips:
http://www.military.com/NewContent/0,13190,Smith_051904,00.html
http://www.prevention.com/article/0,5778,s1-2-87-1-3534-1,00.html
http://diet.ivillage.com/tone/thips/0,,qdz,00.html
http://www.webmd.com/content/article/49/40169.htm
http://www.weightlossforall.com/exercise-love-handles.htm

Hoep i could help! and if you need anymore help just leave one in my inbox ;]


♥ danielle

If you have a friend who works with you and she has the same hours as the guy you like you could ask her too ask him what he thinks about you like for example, if no ones talking she/he will say so (the guy you likes name) what do you think of (your name)? and hell tell him/her then that person can report back to you what he said and if he likes you then ask him out ;] you could also ask him out yourself,like for example say after your both done your shifts ask him if he wanted to get a bite to eat after work.That way you guys can get to know each other better and if he says sure then you know that maybe hes interested in you.It seems to me like the guy likes you so give it a shot GOOD LUCK!

♥ danielle

in my opinion yes.

♥ danielle

haha aw i wont worry about it its a good thing ;]
the guys are most likely just jealous of you.

♥ danielle

oh i like that song!

i think your talking about the song "they" by JEM.

♥ danielle

haha i used to say hollerback,i think its kinda stupid to say now really only the "gangsters" say it..but yeah the defintion is right here along with sentences with the word in it:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hollaback


♥ danielle

i found a website that gave 10 foods:

http://www.nadraszky.com/fitness/archives/10-foods-to-raise-your-metabolism.html

I also heard milk boosts your metabolism too.

♥ danielle

if you want to learn how to be a mod on advicenators look here:

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13


♥ danielle

guys dont think its gross,they get turned on by it,alot actaully.Its normal to get wet when your attacting or wanting to do something with a guy.

♥ danielle

Byes guys im done on advicenators it was a good 6 year run :)

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