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Boyfriend and Porn
Alright, I know most teenage boys have looked at/look at porn. I'm pretty positive, considering the fact he just got all these pay channels in his bedroom, that my boyfriend does. Will it ever get to the point where he is more attracted to the girls on the screen than he is me? And if that happens, is breaking up the only thing to do?
I know I'm nowheres near looking like any of those girls you'd see online.
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On Exposed on MTV, a girl asked two guys this question: "Would you ever have sex with a stripper?" Both truthfully (it was run through a lie detector) said no.
It's totally two different catagories of women to them, I think.
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It won't happen. To a guy, porn is just a way of getting off--something that makes jacking off easier and more fun. It's a fantasy, basically, and fantasies don't necessarily have anything to do with what people actually desire to do in real life. Yes, your typical guy does love his porn collection, but can it ever replace a real live girlfriend who loves them? No way. It can't even come close.
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A LOT of guys look at porn that absolutely love their wives/girlfriends. Also, a lot of guys have said that they dont do it because they dont love their girlfriends..maybe its just fulfilling a fantasy. For example, he has a fetish he's not asking you to do for him because he feels embarassed to ask, so he watches porn to fulfill that need. If he watches it INSTEAD of spending time with you, or his watching porn just seems overall very unhealthy (addiction) you should definitely talk to him and tell him its putting a strain on the relationship but give him a second chance to see if it improves. By the way, I think normal girls are wayyy prettier than those slutty porn girls.
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I've watched talk shows and psychologists talk about this and this is what I took out of it all.
They actually said its healthy for him to look at porn. As long as its done in modernization there is nothing bad with it. It might even put him in the mood more to be with you and can be educational, this way they don't cheat on you but watch what other things they can do. Now I know this makes me sound like a guy answering the question but trust me I'm now.
Hope I was at least some what helpful :)
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It will never happen. No way at all. No guy becomes actually attracted to "the girls on the screen". They arent real, its just a way to satisy urges (for lack of a better word).
Girls tend to compare themselves a lot to the women in porn (there have been many similar questions before). There is absolutely nothing to worry about, guys have a very different mentality when it comes to porn (most guys anyway). And that whole porn addiction thing which people throw around a lot... never seen it happen. Every guy I have known in my life has looked at porn to some degree or another, and yet not one case of addiction.
My point: Dont worry about it.
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not likely,guys just generally like porn and they love sex and the perverts that they are they love watching it.They may find a girl "attractive" in the pornos but they know the girls just a "fantasy",the men are happy with their girlfriends/wives so their lover shouldnt ever compare herself to the girls on tv,their fake.But,if so happens your boyfriend starts to watch pornos more then he should and just constantly talks about the girls in the movies then maybe i would suggest that its a good idea too just move on,hope i could help!
♥ danielle
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