Question Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 7:47 pm
Me & my boyfriend broke up yesterday over a stupid reason. Tomorrows supposed to be the last time we see each other.
I really want to have a serious talk with him, because I don't want to lose him. What's something special that I can say or do for him?
Thank you!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? wex3cameltoes answered Sunday December 31 2006, 3:28 am: well heres what i think man.. ive been in the situations MANY times before and it sucks but when you see him just say we need to talk wanna take a walk or something? and then start off saying.. im really sorry for what happened and i feel horrible im sure we could work things out if we just try it was stupid anyways and we both overreacted and then let him tell you how he feels and felt and im sure everything will go your way... i really hoped i helped good luck!
killerface answered Saturday December 30 2006, 8:03 pm: Tell him that you're sorry and that you were being stupid and were over reacting about [whatever the reason was.] tell him how much you care about him and how much you want to stay with him.
And even though you don't think you deserve him, you want him to stay with you because you think you deserve another chance.
DefiantAngel answered Saturday December 30 2006, 8:02 pm: Ouch, I'm so sorry about the break up. My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days before our one year anniversary. (Is it me, or do I tell everyone I'm writing advice to about that?) Anyways, if it was a stupid reason over something like how you dress or act, then it's not worth it because you deserve someone better who will love you for who you are. If it was about something you did to him or didn't do to/with him just think about that for a second. Whatever the reason is, if it is 'stupid' you deserve to move on and stop wasting time on someone who won't waste time over you.
If you're still adamant on leaving him with a few last memorable words that he will always remember, the type of words he'll tell his grand children and he'll tell them he regretted ever letting you go, you tell him,
"You know, you were right. I'm sorry that it ended like this. But I guess, I really deserve someone who cares about me."
I don't know, maybe I'm just voicing what I should have said to my own boyfriend. But if he truly loves you and the argument was stupid. There's deffinitely the possiblity that you two should be together.
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