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What there to say about me? I'm 27 and a graduate of UCSD. Throughout my life most of my close friends have been girls so I have a unique perspective on relationships and sex. I know a lot about computers as well as random stuff in general. Feel free to ask me anything and I'll answer it to the best of my knowledge.
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Well...It started out as:
This guy IMed my friend and she added him to a chat we were having.Well after my friend left we started talking and he gave me his other screen names. We talked/talk everyday. Well, we got really close...and now I think I may be starting to develop feelings for him.

Is it wrong that I might like him as more than a friend if I've never met him face to face? I don't know if I should...because...well,I'm almost positive he is NOT a paedophile...but one can never be to sure. I don't want to get hurt like that, but I just want to know if its wrong to have a little crush on him. (link)
ive gotten crushes on girls i met online before. i kidna grew out of it now. anyways its perfectly okay but i would very strongly advise against meeting him in real life because even a live webcam can be faked. anyways keep flirting online you can even cyber of you want, or "online date" nothing wrong with that.


OK this relates to the other questions ive asked. I'm really shy around girls and its hard for me to not studder when i talk to a girl. I get all sweaty and clammy when i have to talk to a girl i like. My mind goes blank and i cant think what to say. Got any pointers on how to fix this? (link)
jsut remember the wrost thing a girl can say is no, and if you dont ask its really the same result. in gambling terms its preatty much the best bet you can make, win everything or loose nothing. anyways ive never had much trouble when talking to a girl, a little bit of trouble working up the nerve to go up to her and start talking yes, but then i jsut took my own advice. some girls might actualy find it cute that they make you so nervous.


alright..well ive been with ryan for now 6 months..and still my ex-bf brian is still in love with me (we went out for 9 months) he doesnt act it..or be an ass to me or anything, its just i know he still loves and cares about me. it kinda gets annoying that he still does..how can i ask him to just move on? (link)
ok when a guy falls in love its preatty much forever. now im not talking about the "i love you too" crap guys pull to get a girl into bed im talking about actual love. i fell in love with a girl freshman year, she treated me like crap, and part of me still isnt over her. not much you can do really.


Okay I am seriously about to go crazy! I posted a question about my moms b/f being a jerk before so this kind of continous sort of. But My moms b/f is name dale and he has a 13 yr old son. well his son and friend went to this club for 13-20 yr olds and i felt like sleeping in the basement tonight. I wake up at 2am and find these 2 chicks sleeping in my room! He let his son bring in 2 girls from the club! im about to go nuts cuz i dunno what they are going through in my room! Dale is only doing this cuz he knows im pissed! im freaking 16 yrs old and i have no say about who can sleep in my own freaking room! Do you think im overreacting (link)
step by step solution
1. go into his room
2. find his wallet/money stash
3. extract a fair amount for renting your room for a night


I know silly question but I want my last day of summer last.. I thought you guys give me some ideas to do tommorw.. and beisde nobody dont want waste there last day of summmer. i mean i am ready to be a senior.. my point is i dont want to watch tv all day beecouse i want to do something keep me busy. thanks. i know few list clean,layout, what other 18 and up do with out job and cars and beise driving.. any tips.... I know worst advice qestion but oh well i just bored lol.. thanks (link)
get some. or go out and party. or both


hi ppl . ok well heres my problem . im not bragging or nethng but i think im pretty & hav a good personality but my one thing is , i hav NEVER had a boyfriend . and im 14 . its bothering me b/c all of my friends can get them , and i cant . i talk to guys all the time and im being myself , but it isnt working . nothing is working . i dono what to do nemore . any tips (link)
you could always try asking a guy out. alot of guys like forwardness in a girl


i like cheerleading and i tried this website and it went to a cheer-porno website so i clicked out but now all these popups are coming up and its been like 3 days so how do i get the porno pop ups to stop without getting a popup blocker? (link)
1.go to google.com
2.search google toolbar
3.downlaod it
4. search stopzilla
5. dowload it
6. search spybot free download
7. downlaod it
8. run it

you should be all set. spybot is the most important one.


Hey. i have a huge problem. see my step cousin that actully has no blood relation to me is actully the perfect guy for me. he wants to be with me and i want to be with him, do you think that is incesed since there is no blood relation to us since it is all by marriage. i mean i really have always had feelings for him even b4 his mom and my uncle met. is it wronge to be in love with this guy please help. I rate!!!! (link)
not wrong at all. go for it.


I have dark brown hair, blue/green eyes, tan skin, I'm 5'5, and I'm skinny. What kinds of makeup will bring out my eyes like eyeshadow? I'm a prep so I wear preppy clothes from American Eagle, Abercrombie & Fitch, Aeropostale, Weathervane, Hollister, and other stores. Please help me with my makeup lol. Thanks (link)
wow you sound hot lol. dont wear makeup beyond the basic stuff like lip liner it jsut covers up natural beuty


what is the best way to get a babysitting job? (link)
ask neighbors if they need a babysitter


Im 21 and female. I broke up with a guy about 2 years ago and ive had feelings for him ever since. I basically broke up with him because of another guy and regreted it after. Weve kept in touch and im pretty sure im in love with him and have been even since we broke up. I recently found out he is going to propose to his girlfriend. This really upset me and i dont want him to marry her. I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to tell him how i feel about him since hes planning on marrying this other girl? Should i tell him or should i just leave it alone and try to move on?
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Yes its wrong. It probly took him a while to get over you, you broke up with him for another guy? that in itself is wrong. you regreted it ever since? you should have told him rught away. IF a guy is proposing he is in love so your cahcnes arent taht great even if you do tell him but you will make him feel bad. Don't say anything


hey im a child star, which means that i do tv shows and commercials and stuff, and my agent called me and wants me to be in this movie...and this movie will take up 2 months of the school year..i cant miss school, but i cant miss this movie oppritunity. wht do i do? help!!! (link)
there are child labor laws they cant legaly make you miss school, and heres the kicker they cant fire you becasue of it.


Hey! Well this is to anyone thats good w/ all this web crap! I was wondering can you get a www.WHATEVERHERE.com web sight w/o having to pay anything or you always have to go to free sights like geocities?!?! and if it is free to do it! Can someone explain to me in deatail what to do. thanks so much! -me (link)
captain safety you dont know waht your talking about. all webpages free .com or .arhgah.atjtajta.atjatj/ahaetjhs.Egajtsa.agrws4re/asfasjbdgsj.html are written in html, that is the language they are written in the sending to the internet is waht costs money


well me and my boyfriend have been dating for some time now but it has been on and off..See I live with my dad during the school year and its about 45 mins away from where he lives. And I seen him only one weekends..And during the summer I go to my moms which is right around the corner from his grandmothers house.He only lives about 15 mins from my mothers house. And we see eachother just about everyday!! We have known eachother for close to 5 years now but only have been dating on and off for about a year. Now I am scared about us going back to school. Im afraid he will start to like someone else..and Break up with me..:-( That is what happened 2 times last year. But the 1st time after he broke up with me the grl decided she didnt wanna go out with him and he came back to me..and then the sencond time he swears to god he didnt break up with me for her..that it was because we couldnt see eachother for a few months although that was true I dont believe she wasnt apart of the reason! what should I do should I tell him I am feeling this way????


☼¥☼ CoNfUsEd 1 ☼¥☼ (link)
he's a lier forget him and move on.


My boyfriend and I have done almost everything there is to do...What else can I do to him or what else can we try to keep ourselves "occupied" haha! I love trying new things! Help Me!! (link)
threesome? foursome? fivesome? sixsome?...


I just found out that if you have anal sex that if you have anal sex then your not a virgin! is that really true? and..i wanna no if a guy cums while his penis is in a gurl (during anal) can she still get pregnant..and if the girl gets cum on her front side and doesn't whip it off right away can she get pregnant? hurry I need to know!!!


PLEASE I NEED SOME ANSWERS!!! (link)
even if you whip it off right away from the front you can still get pregnant, but no you cant get pregnanat from the back. stds are still a possibility though.


What does a guy do when they finger you ? does it hurt? could you explain what it feels like help please
i'll rate good!!! (link)
if the guy does it right it feels very good, he sticks his finger up you and plays with your g-spot, usualy about knuckle deep




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