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does anybody know how to get all your music in to your library itunes? i got a new computer so all my music is on my ipod but when i plugged in my ipod all that downloaded was the purchased ones. none of my cds went over? if u could help i would greatly appreciate it.m (link)
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To get cds into your iTunes library, just put in your cd, then once it's on iTunes. Right click on the song you want and click "import" and it will go into your libray, you can only do one at a time, but it's really fast.
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Hey. In the spring me and this guy (joe) liked eachother. Then I messed things up and we don't talk much. The thing is i still want to be friends with him and hang with him. So in my town there is this haunted house and i want to go with him. I mean it doesn't have to be a date or anything. How can I ask him to go? I will see him at a party sometime in October.
Thanks for all the help!
ps: he has all these girls at his school though... (we don't go to teh same school) (link)
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If you know his number, I would call him and tell him you really still want to be friends. Explain to him that it's not a date, and you just want to hang out with him and be friends.
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So I'm pregnant, my boyfriend freaked out left me for about 2 weeks no phone call, no nothing. Then suddendly he called me, and left a message that went like "I'm sorry, I was rude & selfish I didnt mean what i said, i didnt mean to hurt you. I want to be with you & help you raise this baby. I'm sorry." and Hanged up. I want to call back, but do I? do i wait for him to call? What do i say "I accept your appoligy (sp?)". (link)
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Honestly, I don't know what I would do in this situation. I've never had any problems like this at all, but I hope I can help you. I would call him back, and try talking to him. Because he is the baby's father, and I think you have to kind of look at what's best for the baby. If he's a good, responsible guy and really wants to be there to help raise the baby, then I would give him a chance.
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what does it mean when someone says do you get with guys? (link)
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It means do you hook up with guys, etc.
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Alright, well there is this one kid at my lunch table that I really like. I try to talk to him the most I can every day with out being too obvious. What else can I do? One of my best friends also sits there, who I can basicly talk about anything with, well almost anything. Well, he has known the person that I like ever since elementary, and they are best friends. Do you think that I should talk to him about it and see what kind of girls he is interested in or anything? The only thing is that I also think that the person that i mentioned that is basically my best friend, might like me, though i'm not 100% sure, but he might, I have no idea. Any suggestions would be a lot of help. (link)
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Well, you could start out by asking your best friend, to talk to him and ask him if he likes you. If he does, or even if you just really think he does, and him to hang out somewhere casually. Like, the movies, etc. Then, become good friends, and if you see that everything's going good between you two, make a move. Hey, who knows? He might even make a move!
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Hey,
I'm getting my hair done and i wanna know what color to get..so im gonna ask whats hotter? blondes or brunetts? (link)
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I prefer lighter haired guys, but there are lots of good looking dark haired guys. So it goes both ways.
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i went out with this boy and he broke up with me after three dayz i feel so crush ed he also told 1 of is friends" i only went out with her because she liked me" my feelings are so hurt right now i dont know wut i should do he said he broke up with me because it just was not working out i need help (link)
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Look, this guy is not even worth being hurt over, he's really not. If that's the only reason he went out with you, then consider yourself lucky. For finding out now, instead of later. Because that really shows what kind of person he is, he made you believe he liked you, then broke your heart. When he could have just been honest with you. Trust me, there are some really good guys out there waiting. Especially, better than him that will treat you right.
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I really don't like Joei (it's a girl) right now. We used to be really tite, but then she started bein closer with this other girl. Now she acting all weird to me. She's such a follower, she just follows what the other girl does, if its ignore me then thats what she does. I know shes not a good friend shes just so fake and a follower. What do I do? If I talk to her she'll be like yeah omg ill change and she wont. So help pls (link)
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If she's your friend, she shouldn't be treating you this way. Have you already talked to her? If you have and you really know she's not going to change, then I wouldn't be her friend. There's lots of good friends out there, that won't treat you that way.
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13/f. how much is a 13 year old girl supposed to weigh? I'm around 4'7 and weigh around 167. I think that is wayyyyy to much. How much should I weigh? thanks! (link)
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The only way I can think of to know for sure the healthy weight for a 13 year-old is go www.seventeen.com, go to health, and click on BMI. You just put in you weight, and height, and it will tell you if it's healthy or not.
But remember, all girls are different, and we each have different shapes, etc. Never compare yourself to someone else, because we are really all different.
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hey i'm having a HUGE guy problem. and i just need opinions on what you all think so is their anyone out there with a heart that would help me by just giving me their email adress or IM or anything so i can tell you the story because the guy its about goes on this site. thanks soo much. please help im desperate. (link)
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Sure, but I can't give out my email. You can go to www.stardoll.com, sign up (it's free), go to 1advice*column (you can put that in the "quick find" and it will take you there automatically)and add me, and I'll accept you as a friend, then you can send me a message with your guy problem.
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Hi,
Well theirs this girl in my school named Rachel and she's really hot! She and I are becoming best friends and share the same interest. Everybody in school says I should ask her out for the coming back to school dance but Im to nervouse that when i ask her out she'll won't feel the same way. I try flirting with her but she really doesn't seem to notice. What can I do to get her to go with the dance with me and tell if she likes me back before I ask her. Thanks for the advice. (link)
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She probably doesn't realize you're flirting with her, because she might think that you two are just best friends, and you don't feel that way about her. She may feel the same way as you, but is too nervous (just as you are) to tell you how she feels. I would talk to her alone, and tell her how you feel. If she feels the same way, that's great! If she doesn't and wants to stay friends, at least you'll still have a friendship. The only way to really find out if she likes you, is to ask her personally.
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I have had a crush on this boy in my class since like fourth grade and he thinks i am weird. I dont even know why i like him....i just do. I've tried just talking to him as friends, and sometimes he's ok with it and other times he just looks at me like i did the weirdest thing ever. I dont really understand why...i'm not overweight, i'm not ugly, but i'm not the prettiest either. How can i get him to kind of like me? (link)
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Listen, you don't have anything to worry about. This guy isn't even worth your precious time. If he doesn't realize what he's missing out on, it's his problem, not yours. I would move on to a better guy, who can treat you good, instead of this guy.
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Ok heres the deal, my sister ALWAYS does my hair for all my dances but shes gonna be on her honeymoon the week of homecoming. I'm going to a salon and getting my hair done. does anyone have any sites that has good hairstyles?? (link)
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Yes, here's lots of different hairstyles to choose from: http://www.2hairstyles.com/
http://www.2coolhairstyles.com/pics/
http://www.hairstyleswatch.com/
http://www.hairstyles-pictures.com/
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What color shoes do you wear with a turquoise dress or shirt? What color leggings do you wear with this also? (link)
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Black leggings, would go great with with turquoise. The shoes would be great in black too.
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im 13/f
i wear flip flops everyday
and theres tan lines on my feet
my feet are getting darker but theres like a white line
how do i get my feet back to the regular color (link)
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You could apply self tanner to your foot, and the rest of you so you won't look weird, and your skin will look good and healthy. It's much better than getting tan from the sun, because it causes skin cancer, wrinkles, and lots of other bad things than no one wants. With a self tanner, you get a healthy, sun kissed glow- just without the sun!
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I like to read, I really like the book "Holes." I have'nt seen the movie. I'm 13, what is something aproprete [sorry I can't spell] for a 13 year old girl.
Not to childish though, & something I could get at barnes and nobles, or so? (link)
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I'm a year older than you, but it probably wouldn't make much difference. The "Summer Boys" series by Hailey Abbott are the best books ever! But make sure to read them in the right order, otherwise you won't know what's going on. "The A-List" is a great novel, so addicting. Here's a list of really good and addicting novels:
"A Bad Boy Can Be Good For A Girl"
"Sweet 16"
"Art Geeks and Prom Queens"
"Gossip Girl"
"The Clique"
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ok, let's just say i'm a trouble-maker... but only when i'm hanging out w/ friends. i mean, i never lie to my mom or anybody else but when i'm around my friends i do. and when i'm around my friends i swear and do all kinds of stuff. i don't want to stop hanging out w/ them because i've known them FOREVER but how can i start staying out of troulbe when i'm around them? please help. THX (link)
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It sounds like your friends are a bad influence on you. I'm guessing that your friends do these things to. If you have to act that way, just to be their friend. Then, they're not really your friends. Friends accept you for who you are, not what they think you should be or want you to be.
I would talk to your friends, explain to them you don't want to be a trouble maker. If they don't accept that, then move on to new and better friends, or if you feel you can't stay out of trouble when you're with them, even if they do accept that, then move on to better friends.
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ok i just turned 13 a week ago and i'm in 7th grade, and i havn't had a boyfriend yet...i'm pretty sure its because... i'm ugly, i mean i wear glasses i'm 5'0 or 5'1 and i'm fat... (135) waht do i do?? i cant talk to a friend or cousin or aunt, and my mom passed away. so i live with my dad. what should i do?? please please please help me. o and if u say maybe to change my hairstyle, tell me a site or link please p.s. i have brown hair and the length is the middle of my arm befor my elbow. (link)
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I think you're being way too harsh on youself. Everyone is beautiful in their own special way. I think you need a huge confidence boost. What are some of the things that make you feel pretty/confident? Do those things and realize that you are beautiful, tell yourself that everyday when you look in the mirror (chessy- I know, but it works!).
Just because you don't have a boyfriend yet, doesn't mean that you're ugly or that anything is wrong with you! In fact, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all. I do think makeovers are really fun, and it's great to change your look and things like that, but knowing that you're beautiful comes more from within. Then, the beauty on outside just enhances it.
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Does anyone know that if a cellphone that fell in the bathtub can be repaired? Or is it gone for good? (link)
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I'm sorry, but yes, it's ruined. Water is a cell's worst enemy!
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what do i do if my best is always braging about what she has and i dont have nothing so what do i do how do i tell her i dont wont to be friends (link)
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Well, maybe, your friend doesn't realize she's bragging about everything she has all the time. I'm sure, she doesn't just do that to make you seem like you don't have anything. I would talk to her, and tell her how you feel, and see what she says. You may be suprised that she doesn't mean to do that, and she wants to be your friend. I would give her that chance, and then if she still does it and she's being mean about it. I wouldn't be her friend anymore, because to me that's not a friend, if she is doing this to be mean.
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