So I'm pregnant, my boyfriend freaked out left me for about 2 weeks no phone call, no nothing. Then suddendly he called me, and left a message that went like "I'm sorry, I was rude & selfish I didnt mean what i said, i didnt mean to hurt you. I want to be with you & help you raise this baby. I'm sorry." and Hanged up. I want to call back, but do I? do i wait for him to call? What do i say "I accept your appoligy (sp?)".
He seems like a fairly decent guy and everything, so you have to think of what's best for your child. Another pair of hands sitting around would be good so it's just not you taking care of the baby and plus, it IS his child. You can't just like, split a father and his baby up, he should be able to grow up with her and everything. :) I hope I helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
adviice_whore answered Friday September 29 2006, 10:37 pm: you need to call him back. the reason why he flipped out is because he heard really big news, he just found out hes a father, its pretty overwelming! just call him back and tell him you love him and you hope everything works out.. its as easy as that good luck with the baby! [ adviice_whore's advice column | Ask adviice_whore A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday September 29 2006, 10:26 pm: I suggest calling him back.
You never know he might think you don`t want anything to do with him so he might not call back.
If you think he`s honestly goin to help with this baby call..
&& if not better figure something out with court [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
LagunaBabe answered Friday September 29 2006, 10:09 pm: Honestly, I don't know what I would do in this situation. I've never had any problems like this at all, but I hope I can help you. I would call him back, and try talking to him. Because he is the baby's father, and I think you have to kind of look at what's best for the baby. If he's a good, responsible guy and really wants to be there to help raise the baby, then I would give him a chance. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
karenR answered Friday September 29 2006, 9:21 pm: Call him back. Suddenly finding out you are going to be a father is a lot to wrap your head around. He panicked.
Sounds like he has thought about it and come to terms with it. It is a lot of responsibility for a guy to take on. Just as it is for you.
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