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Theirs This Girl I have a crush on
Hi,
Well theirs this girl in my school named Rachel and she's really hot! She and I are becoming best friends and share the same interest. Everybody in school says I should ask her out for the coming back to school dance but Im to nervouse that when i ask her out she'll won't feel the same way. I try flirting with her but she really doesn't seem to notice. What can I do to get her to go with the dance with me and tell if she likes me back before I ask her. Thanks for the advice.
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you could always a.) get your friends to ask her if she likes you, b.) get her friends to ask her if she likes you, or c.) get your friends to ask her friends if she likes you. it's not wrong to try to get information from somebody else. you could always just ask her. truthfully, as long as she doesn't like anybody else right now, she'll probably say yes. girls like it when boys tell them how they feel, so go for it. a lot of the times, if someone has a best friend of the opposite sex, they start to like them but hide it because they don't want to ruin the friendship, and a lot of the times the other person does the EXACT same thing (i know, i've done it before). so i think it's better to ask her now and don't wait. good luck :)
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Well, see, since you guys are best friends, she's going to have difficulty noticing all the little flirts you do because she probably thinks you're just being a friend and joking around with her and whatnot. So you gotta stop thinking "best friend" and start thinking as "future potential boyfriend".
Now as for the dance, just ask her firstly to just go as friends, then I'm sure there'll be less pressure, you won't be as nervous, etc. And I don't see why she wouldn't say yes! Then at the dance just compliment her, dance with her, and have a really good time, and flirt alot with her so she'll start to notice a bit more and just sit close to her. Remember, think boyfriend, not best friend.
Then at the end of the night, whenever you're doing the final slow dance, just let her know of your feelings for her. It's better to take a chance, right? Because even if she were to say the feelings aren't mutual ( which I hope they are! ) then you'll at least KNOW, and you won't be sitting there wondering "what if, what if, what if".., you know? So just during the last slow dance be like,"There's something I want to tell you, and I've been trying to build up the nerves to tell you. I just, I really like you alot, and I need to know how you feel about me, otherwise I'm going to go nuts, haha." And just let her know that if she DOES say no, then you really hope you guys can just remain the great friends you are because you'd rather be her best friend then nothing at all.
And then whenever she goes to answer, she'll probably be thinking of the whole night with all the dancing and fun she had and if she liked it when you flirted with her and everything, and hopefully over the night some sort of feelings will have developed and she'll say yes.
I hope I helped!
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See i think your being to much of the "best friend" instead of the "friend with possible going out" you know what i mean? you need to cut to the chase and start being flirtatious and act like your into her. She probably thinks you think of her as a sister or something because your acting as though you guys are friends. Maybe you should do something cute or ask her in a cute way..cuz if a guy did that for me i would think he liked me if he put ALL of that time to think of something for me. maybe just you two should start going out to places like the movies..while you guys are alone be more flirty y ou know? im sure if you went to one movie you could tell if she was into you or not. I really hope it works out for you hun! good luck hope i helped
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Honestly, I would just tell her how you feel. Probably like most girls, I would absolutely love for a guy to tell me how he feels. Be confident in yourself and just ask her.
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She probably doesn't realize you're flirting with her, because she might think that you two are just best friends, and you don't feel that way about her. She may feel the same way as you, but is too nervous (just as you are) to tell you how she feels. I would talk to her alone, and tell her how you feel. If she feels the same way, that's great! If she doesn't and wants to stay friends, at least you'll still have a friendship. The only way to really find out if she likes you, is to ask her personally.
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well i think you should tell her how you feel.
and if she doesnt agree then atleast you tryed but i bet she will and if she does you got a date to the dance. and dont tell her shes hot say cute or beautiful ha
hope i helps
Magz<3
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