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Im your normal 15 year old. I have problems too but my friends told me to do this cause im always helping out people. im 15 live in hollywood *and no its not as great as you hear* and i just wanna help people out

ps: i miss everyone in florida.

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Hi,
Well theirs this girl in my school named Rachel and she's really hot! She and I are becoming best friends and share the same interest. Everybody in school says I should ask her out for the coming back to school dance but Im to nervouse that when i ask her out she'll won't feel the same way. I try flirting with her but she really doesn't seem to notice. What can I do to get her to go with the dance with me and tell if she likes me back before I ask her. Thanks for the advice.

well i think you should tell her how you feel.
and if she doesnt agree then atleast you tryed but i bet she will and if she does you got a date to the dance. and dont tell her shes hot say cute or beautiful ha
hope i helps
Magz

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hey i'm having a HUGE guy problem. and i just need opinions on what you all think so is their anyone out there with a heart that would help me by just giving me their email adress or IM or anything so i can tell you the story because the guy its about goes on this site. thanks soo much. please help im desperate.

here i'll help you



chicnpotpi00@aol.com

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hi, well my 15th birthday is on the 11th october, and i was wandering what i can do. im a guy and im just going to invite a few friends. i was thinking food and music, and just chilling out, but that is kind of boring. can you help, thanks.

well for like my 15th birthday i had some friends over like 15 and we danced we played volleyball./ oh and playing twister and like DDR is funn too thats what we did and everyone had fun and maybe like have a water fight or something

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whats a cute make up color for like whitsh skin and brown hair?

well lke a tannish brownish color is cute!

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I am like nearly bestfriends with this girl at my school. We hang out at school, and on occasion at her house or mine. But when she is with a huge group of friends I feel left out. Like she is busy talking to her other friends and does not pay attention to me, and her friends that she hangs out with always look at me all weird like I don't belong with the group. And ever since school started she barely talks to me because she is busy with her other friends. Although I do walk up to her and say hi but since she is always with other friends she doesn't talk much to me.

How can I get more attention from her, and get our old friendship back?

Although I would like to be closer friends with her, and hang out more without her losing her other friends. I totally respect her other friends. Also, sometimes I prefer just hanging out with her alone, so how can I get that to happen? She is never available because she is busy hanging out with other friends and I would like to hang out with her as well.

I apoligize for asking so many questions, but please answer as many as you can, and just give polite suggestions and tips, please.

Thank you for your time into reading this.

Im in the same situation. its hard but i know how it feels like she only talks to you when noones around and whn other people are around she totally ignores you. like shes using you just cause noone else is around. well i think you should just sit down with her and be honest and tell her how you feel and maybe start talkin to some of the other people shes friends with so it will make her feel lke how you feel and it may get her to talk to you more. and its normal for friends to drift and i know it sucks. but i think you can make your friendship last

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I'm 19/F, in my first year in college. My program is 4 years, and it's very small (30 or so people) so I thought that it might be a good idea to get a group outing together so that we can all get to know each other outside of school.

Does anybody have any ideas for fun things for a bunch of college students to do that doesn't involve drinking (because most of my classmates are underage)?

Some ideas I've come up with are a dinner out or bowling.

Thank you!

you could maybe go to the beach or even have like a small get together at one of the peoples places and just chill and talk and maybe dance.

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Okay well 14/f. My best friend in the entire world has been being REALLY mean to me lately. I'm thinking that she's jealous, but I don't understand why...She is only mean when we are around other people usually, and I've noticed she always makes herself look better than me in all situations. She always says mean comments and does things to put me down, but that's only when we are hanging around with our group of friends. When we are alone or on the phone, she's nice to me. Online,she makes fun of my guy friends because they are apparently "dorky" to her, so she was making fun of them. I was really angry at her and I confonted her online first after she made the comments about my friends. I told her "why are you saying that about them?" she said "I don't know, I thought you didn't like them" I said "well, they are my friends, just like you are. So please don't talk bad about them, even if you don't like them". I think she got the point because she appologized. But now today in lunch at school, she bragging about herself and then making comments about how I don't have what she has. It was mostly about material items, which I could care less about.

I really don't want to stop being friends with her. I love her to death. She's been my best friend for so long, and I really have more fun with her than anyone. She's like a sister to me and I don't want to lose her.

Please& thankyou

okay i had the same situtation like 2 months ago the same thing happened! but what happened with us that it got so bad she started thinging that i wasnt good enough for her so she started hanging out with the more "popular girls" and yeah the 1st 2 weeks i was so sad but then i relized it was for the best. you need to confront her and ask her if shes going to act like that or change to be ur friend. and if ur friendship ends i bet u'll make a better friends
hope i helped!

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I need help!!!
I like 2 guys... and I pretty much need advice on what to do. I really like them both but I have no idea who I like better. Can somebody help me? THANKS!

PS: dont tell me to do Pro's and Con's because I already did that and they both turned out the same.

:(

well you should talk to them both and get to know them and what ever one u think gets along with u best should be the one.
hope i helped!

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14/f/ freshman
i dont even know where too start.
uh, well this all start on the first day of school. i sit down in a seat with my reallllly good friend of 6 years, heather. we have a new bus schedule and it was the first day of highschool, so i was interested in any cute guys. one stop, had this really cute guy named steve on it. i only recongnize him from being on my friends myspaces. so a few days passed and then around wednesday the 13th i added him on myspace and i got his screenname hes a junior, heathers a sophmore, we started talking alot. and i started to like him. the only thing that sucked was that he had a girlfriend, we talked a little over the weekend and he told me to say hey to him on monday. monday finally came and i was sooo excitied, when i got onto the bus i told heather that i had been talking to him and she seemed surprised, because this kid is kind of popular. and so i could tell heather was like jealous that they dont really talk. anyway, me and steve had been talking this whole week and today heather got off at my bus stop, and we were planning on going to the mall. we were sitting in front of the computer and i as usual was talking about steve, and she knows i like him. we were on myspace and we saw that him and his girlfriend brokeup. i was so happy, words couldnt describe. i was talking to him and trying to make him feel better and stuff. heather says "we should tell him to meet us at the mall, i'd probably hook up with him" ....i dont understand how she could say that. and then she kept saying how cute he was. i didnt make the connection that she was starting to like him. after that she left and when we were talking online she said that she decided to go with her friend lilly. i got pissed at that too. so i decided to go with my friend alison, so i posted a myspace bulletin saying oh yay im going with alisonto the mall, and steve i-med me saying oh yay im going to ! lets meet up or something ! i was in suchhh a good mood and then it all fell down. first alison decides to ditch, and go over her friends, then heather callsme asking me if i am coming to the mall, and she also adds that she was sending steve messages back and forth, and she told me to read them, so i go on her myspace and she lied, she reversed everything, like she said that he said that he wanted to hang with her, and on themessages it was backwards. she was the one who wanted to hang with him. anyway so now im home, and im praying that they dont hook up. because that would ruin my life and my friend ship with heather.

this is my question:
do i have a chance ? should i stay liking steve ? and should i still talk to heather ?

if you think i should still like steve.. then do you have any tips for me ?

thanks

girl i think you should talk to your friend cause it sounds like he would rather go with you. She doesn't seem like a good friend to do that to you and she probly mainly did that to make you jelous cause she thought u had a chance. this has happened many times with me and i think you should talk to her about and talk to steve still!

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I have a close guy friend who I've known for 2-3 years. I've liked him on and off. We talk to each other everyday.. make fun of each other, hit each other, blah blah. Then he started liking this girl last year and he'd always talk about her even until now and I get jealousss. I think she's the first girl he ever talked to me about too. It's confusinggg cause both of our friends always tease us about liking each other and then he starts talking about a girl he met online and haven't met in person. Did he even had a clue that I have or do like him? Do you think I should just keep my feelings back and support him?

girl, i think you should tell him how you feel,
half of the time they talk about another girl is because they want you to get jelous and it sounds like he liked/ or likes you. i think you should confront him.

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