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big boy blues.
14/f/ freshman
i dont even know where too start.
uh, well this all start on the first day of school. i sit down in a seat with my reallllly good friend of 6 years, heather. we have a new bus schedule and it was the first day of highschool, so i was interested in any cute guys. one stop, had this really cute guy named steve on it. i only recongnize him from being on my friends myspaces. so a few days passed and then around wednesday the 13th i added him on myspace and i got his screenname hes a junior, heathers a sophmore, we started talking alot. and i started to like him. the only thing that sucked was that he had a girlfriend, we talked a little over the weekend and he told me to say hey to him on monday. monday finally came and i was sooo excitied, when i got onto the bus i told heather that i had been talking to him and she seemed surprised, because this kid is kind of popular. and so i could tell heather was like jealous that they dont really talk. anyway, me and steve had been talking this whole week and today heather got off at my bus stop, and we were planning on going to the mall. we were sitting in front of the computer and i as usual was talking about steve, and she knows i like him. we were on myspace and we saw that him and his girlfriend brokeup. i was so happy, words couldnt describe. i was talking to him and trying to make him feel better and stuff. heather says "we should tell him to meet us at the mall, i'd probably hook up with him" ....i dont understand how she could say that. and then she kept saying how cute he was. i didnt make the connection that she was starting to like him. after that she left and when we were talking online she said that she decided to go with her friend lilly. i got pissed at that too. so i decided to go with my friend alison, so i posted a myspace bulletin saying oh yay im going with alisonto the mall, and steve i-med me saying oh yay im going to ! lets meet up or something ! i was in suchhh a good mood and then it all fell down. first alison decides to ditch, and go over her friends, then heather callsme asking me if i am coming to the mall, and she also adds that she was sending steve messages back and forth, and she told me to read them, so i go on her myspace and she lied, she reversed everything, like she said that he said that he wanted to hang with her, and on themessages it was backwards. she was the one who wanted to hang with him. anyway so now im home, and im praying that they dont hook up. because that would ruin my life and my friend ship with heather.
this is my question:
do i have a chance ? should i stay liking steve ? and should i still talk to heather ?
if you think i should still like steve.. then do you have any tips for me ?
thanks <3
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this seems like a jealousy issue to me. i dont think heather likes steve at all. i think she is just jealous that you and steve are hanging out and she isnt. i would talk to heather. if shes really your friend she will let you have him. he was your friend first. i dont like heather. a real friend wouldnt do that to you.
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if heather never talked about him before she knew that you liked him, shes totally jealous.
steve seems more into you anyway. but don't show heather that you're mad, it's just what she wants to hear. keep talking to steve, chances are he wouldnt hook up with this girl who is friends with you, because she would tell you, and if he really does like you, it could ruin things.
good luck girl.
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P.S. Heather sucks. Do whatever you want when it comes to Steve.
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Your pal Heather is not to be trusted. She is selfish and ignored the fact that you were also very into him. If you want to stay friends, then I recommend an honest talk. Tell her that you realize that you both have major crushes on the same guy (probably will happen again in the future with another guy) and that you both need to agree to not let it ruin your friendship. Friends usually outlast boyfriends in highschool. Instead of competing with each other, suggest that you both reveal your crushes and let him decide. This is bold, but it will put an end to the frustration and let you know who he really likes, instead of playing games.
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i totally agree with mystery girlie. i dont know heather, but she it seems liek she's just jeleous. when a person CLEARLY states that they liek soemone, and they tell their friend that they think they have a chance with them, the nice thing would be to help them, or back off the boy. my friends can be liek that too. i have a friend who knows i REALLY liek this guy, and she was hangign all over him when they wern't even dating.. at MY house. i told her it bothered me, but she didn't listen. well, enough about my life. stikll talk to steve, but dont bad mouth ur friend. it will coem back and bite u in the ass if you do. trust me.
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girl i think you should talk to your friend cause it sounds like he would rather go with you. She doesn't seem like a good friend to do that to you and she probly mainly did that to make you jelous cause she thought u had a chance. this has happened many times with me and i think you should talk to her about and talk to steve still!
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