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I think I have ADHD but im not sure. I'm seeing my doctor on Monday about it. How can I "diagnose" myself until then?
P.s. If you have a long answer please divide it into paragraphs...I cant seemto read giant bolcks of text (link)
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First of all, I commend you on going to see a doctor about this. I think that's very brave of you. A lot of people do not go to a doctor, they just go straight to denial.
Here is a site I found, and it has symptons, signs of ADHD, and more.
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/school_jobs/school/adhd.html
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well i was wondering if i am about to start my period cause when i wiped myself there was a rusty color on the toilet paper. and there was a rusty colored little spot on my undies. im scared please help. im 13. (link)
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First, and most important -- don't be scared, everything's going to be okay, I promise you. Everyone's periods work differently, some people spot before they start they're period's for good, and you may have just started it.
Either way, I would put on a pad (they're more comfortable, than tampons, plus, I think it might be easier for you to use, since you're just now starting, or getting ready to) so it doesn't get all over your underwear.
I would talk to your mom, she knows all about this I'm sure, so I would explain to her what's going on, so she can help you.
Again, you have nothing to be scared or worried about. This happens to every girl, it's just a part of life. If you need any more help, please feel free to send me a question in my inbox!
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I want to start shaving my bikini area. All of my my friends do but I'm a bit embarassed to ask them this!
You see, I'm just a bit, well, nervous, really about going around my bits with a sharp razor. For the first time, who wouldn't be? So I really need like a step by step guide. I've looked on the internet and I can't find much for teens that doesn't sound scary. Could any of you ladies out there help me? It needs to be quite detailed.
Much Love, FF. xx (link)
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I don't recommend this at all, I would recommend waxing before shaving. Of course, they're both going to be painful, but at least with waxing. You don't have to worry about getting cut.
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I have very, very thin fingernails. They are literally almost as this as paper- I can actually tear them apart.
Is there any way to make them thicker? If I take multivitamins every day, can I have thick nails?
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No, they will not solve your problem. I recommend Sally Hansen Maximum Growth (Daily. I had the same problem, and this really works. Now my nails are stronger, healthier, and longer.
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hey, im the person who asked the question about modeling.
i have a question for you. do you model? and if so, how did you get started?
is there a way i can get started other than on a website? i dont really feel comfortable giving out that much information.
thanks so much!! (link)
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No, I don't model, but that's what I want to do and I've studied it.
Well, I understand, but all you have to do is take your pictures and send them with the information, to the mailing address of the agency. They do have to have your information, or they couldn't represent you.
You're welcome!
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hey, i'm interested in starting modeling. i have a few questions first.
1. around how old do you have to be?
2. how can i get started?
3. approximately how much does it cost?
thanks in advance!!
if it helps, im 13/f. (link)
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You're welcome, no problem. I know a lot about modeling, so here are the answers to your questions.
#1 It doesn't matter what age, you can still model.
#2 Go to a legitimate agency, that's closest to you. Just make sure it's legitimate, like Ford (http://www.fordmodels.com/main.cfm). There are many others like Elite, Irene Marie, L.A. Models... You can find their website easily, by putting in these names in a search engine like Yahoo.
#3 NOTHING, I cannot say this enough. You do not have to pay, to become a model or be accepted into an agency! You don't have to go to a modeling school either, just to add. See, the way it works is once you have an agency, they make money from the jobs that you get/that they get you. Don't worry, they don't get all of it, just a percentage.
Just to let you know, there is this Reader Model contest going on with Seventeen Magazine. You can find all info at www.seventeen.com
Hurry, if you want to enter the deadline is November 1st. Good luck!
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how much make up should a 14 year old wear?
*&& if so, could you please tell me in steps? im new at this lol!
thank you ! (link)
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I'm fourteen too. I don't think there's really a limit, but no one wants a full face of makeup, that's completely over done. So here are some steps that I think would be good for you:
#1 Foundation: Foundation is good to use because it evens out your skin tone. You want to always make sure that you choose the right foundation. A good way to know if the foundation matches your skin tone, is to take the foundation and compare it to the top of your hand. If it matches, it's right for your skin tone. Once you figure it out, it won't be hard, lol!
#2 Mascara: Mascara is great for making your eyes pop, if you get a good kind. I recommend Maybelline Great Lash Mascara, it's the best in my opinion.
#3 Lip Gloss: I would choose a lip gloss, over a lip stick right now. Like, Bonne Bell Vita Gloss 02. It's amazing!
#4 Eyeliner: It's great to make your eyes pop as well. I'll give you some of my tips on eyeliner... Beige eyeliner makes your eyes look wider, and white eyeliner makes your eyes appear bigger and really makes them *pop*. Brown eyeliner makes your eyes appear smaller.
Good luck!
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Hey all! I for some reason can't figure out what to do with my make-up!!! I have lately just been doing the eye-liner and that's it. I need some ideas that aren't crazy or anything but something that would look good. I have Brown / Blonde hair (High and Lowlights) Brown Eyes and I'm pretty pale, but not goth pale. LoL I have SOME color to me. But help please... (link)
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Well, I think you should stick with eyeliner. Add some lip gloss (sheer if you want a natural look), and some mascara. If you want to use a foundation, I recommend Cover Girl AquaSmooth Foundation (it's light, healthy, and easily smoothes on your skin). It even has SPF 15 in it!
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i need a new screen name. mine is really boring. can anyone think of a good one? my name is em if that should go in it. (link)
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Well, you could relate your screen name to your hair color. Like, Dirty Blonde or JuicyBrunette, ect.
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Well.. whenever I'm with my best friend alone she's really nice but when she's with someone else she treats me like crap and I'm really feeling felt out because shes drifting away from me...? (link)
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I don't think she's your friend... not if she treats you like crap. First, I would talk to her and tell her how you feel. See what she says, and go from there. Personally, I wouldn't even worry about it and just move on to better friends. But that's only my opinion.
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Hey, I'm 14 years old, a freshman in highschool. So there's this boy i really really like, we just met this year and are firends. I can't tell if he likes me back though. Sometimes he talks to me, sometimes i tlak to him, and now we've been walking to classes with one another ( he's in four of my classes, three of them are right after eachother)
I've caught him looking at me a few times, and he's caught me looking at him a few times. We joke around modestly, as he's pretty quiet. But he seems to like talking with me...he usually will make a comment to me if we're near eachother and spark up conversation. I try to stay back and walk with him, and sometimes he appears to walk with me by his own choice. Does he like me? thanks for your help (link)
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It sounds like to me that this guy really likes you, he's just too shy to come out and tell you. I would even go as far to make the first move. That doesn't mean you have to ask him out, or anything like that right now, if you're not ready. You could just talk to him, and tell him how you feel, then see what happens.
I recently went through the same thing, I told him how I felt, and he felt the same, and now we're doing great together. All it was is that he was too shy and nervous to say how he felt. He even asked me out, soon after that!
Good luck, I'm positive he likes you!
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14/m
how long should you be in a relationship before you kiss your girlfriend? (link)
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I don't really think that there is certain or planned time for when the first kiss happens. I think it's really when you both feel ready.
Good luck!
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13/f
OK, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 months. Well, a lot of girls in my school like hiim. They always talk to him and flirt with him, and he flirts and talks back. I have asked him many times to stop and he claims hes just talking. But all my friends keep telling me that he always does this. Plus, he told me he thinks other girls are hot. Should I end our relationship? I am getting really mad at him about this and need help! (link)
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Yes, you should break up with him. If he tells you to your face that he thinks other girls are hot, and flirts with other girls. Just imagine what he's doing behind your back. I know it's probably easier said than done, but you don't deserve this. There are plenty of other guys out there, who will treat you with respect and not do these things to you.
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im 13/f and 135 lbs. i want to lose a few inches in my stomach and thieghs. also i would like to lose about 10 lbs too. if anyone knows how to help me, plz tell me. also i amplaying basket ball this eason until febuary. ty! (link)
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A good and healthy way to do that is to take the Special K Challenge. You can get all info on that at http://specialk.com/challenge/
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Hi! I need a really good body wash that makes you feel really clean and smells really good.
Does anyone of any? (link)
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The best body wash that I could ever recommend, is Olay Ribbons Body Wash with Almond Oil.
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is it true [[well i heard - could be just one of those stupid fitness rumors. lol]] that if you drank 8 glasses of water a day you could really lose weight? if so, how much? dont worry im not going on any of those crash diets.
thank you =] (link)
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No, I don't think it makes you lose weight. But the great thing about drinking 8-10 glasses of water daily, is that it keeps your body happy and healthy. I do it!
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above my lip, there is a shady area that makes it look like i have a moustache. there is no hair. its just there. i dont know how to get rid of it. help? (link)
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Apply foundation, then concealer, and your powder. For extra coverage, apply the concealer before and after fondation/powder.
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how do get your limewire tunes on your ipod? I can play it through the itunes program, but I can't got on my ipod.
thanks (link)
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Once they're on iTunes, put in your iPod. Then, drag and drop the songs into your iPod section.
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Okay, this is my first time to use "Advicenators", so I hope it works! I am trying to figure out how to get rid of my "Top Friends" on MySpace--but still have the link where people can look at all of my friends. Is this possible? Thanks! (link)
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Well, as far as I know you have to keep at least four friends in your "Top Friends" list, then the rest stay where the link is, but I've heard there is a way to get rid of it, but I'm sorry... I don't know. Good Luck!
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Lately, I can't log in to MySpace. The page loads and everything, but when I give my information and click 'log in' the page just loads forever, and doesn't do anything. It's not my anti-virus or firewall or anything, because it's disabled. Do you have any suggestions? (link)
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Myspace has been having problems, so unfortunaly, along with the rest of us on myspace. You'll have to wait it out.
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